I haven't been around these types of sites for very long (THANK GOD), but I have read some of the older threads and posts and from "older posters". It seems like it has been this way for a while. Most of what you read here is just guys venting or letting off some steam. Sure there are always exceptions to the rule, but most just come on here to voice their frustrations and then go on about their day. Most of us aren't hiding in our basements playing video games and abusing ourselves. Most of us go through our every day lives just like everybody else. Sure I may not be 100% satisfied with my hair, but I still live my life, just like most people that visit this place. Just because it might make a comment on another thread that "we need to take whatever women we can get" doesn't mean that is actually how I feel. Even as a balding guy, I still have my own set of standards. Don't take everything you read here so literally.