https://dudewhereismyhair.wordpress.com/2013/02/07/young-hair-loss-in-men/
I don't know if you have ever visited this blog and what do you think of it but i came to this article and read it and couldn't believe how accurate it is on describing the feelings and pain that the person in my age (early 20s) goes through in dealing with the hairloss. Almost every word of it, if i wanted to express how i feel in a big text, that's how would it look like.
In fact, there is nothing in the world that makes young men feel more helpless, deficient, shameful, embarrassed, unattractive, unwanted, angry, or afraid.
By an unfortunate lottery, these men feel like natural failures and often withdraw to being shells of their former selves because their external appearance no longer represents how they internally know they should feel about themselves.
Exactly
This is why hair loss is so debilitating. Young men know they are strong and full of vitality, yet they are powerless in the face of hair loss. Despite being at their peak of physical strength and ability, there is nothing they can do.
So true
And look at the some of the "manly" comments, exactly what i was expecting, "confidence is the most important, if you are confident, girls won't notice that you missing something, like hair" "be a man" "bald is manly and sexy"
Here it is
Bro I took the time to read your article and say this to you: . You’re a sad looking f***. You’re not a pussy, you’re a man. Be a man, shave of those last hairs and grow a beard. Be confident, It will be hard, yes, but by looking at your face it will suit you. Women don’t fall for guys with hair, they fall for guys with confidence. So shave of those hairs, grow your beard, hit the gym and be a badass, cause you can.
"Be a badass" . I don't want to be a badass, it's not who i am, but it's almost like baldness forces me to be it. "Grow a beard", i am not sure that i can call that patchy growth on my face "beard". "Be confident". Oh how many times have i heard that, "be confident", like it's the easier thing to do, how can i be confident when every time i look in the mirror i feel like crap, i think i am more likely to just accept that i am going to be repulsive and unnatractive and give up women, i think that would be easier, i don't know what i can base my confidence on. Maybe later in life, but my youth, me peak is going to be damaged because of that genetic crap
I don't know if you have ever visited this blog and what do you think of it but i came to this article and read it and couldn't believe how accurate it is on describing the feelings and pain that the person in my age (early 20s) goes through in dealing with the hairloss. Almost every word of it, if i wanted to express how i feel in a big text, that's how would it look like.
In fact, there is nothing in the world that makes young men feel more helpless, deficient, shameful, embarrassed, unattractive, unwanted, angry, or afraid.
By an unfortunate lottery, these men feel like natural failures and often withdraw to being shells of their former selves because their external appearance no longer represents how they internally know they should feel about themselves.
Exactly
This is why hair loss is so debilitating. Young men know they are strong and full of vitality, yet they are powerless in the face of hair loss. Despite being at their peak of physical strength and ability, there is nothing they can do.
So true
And look at the some of the "manly" comments, exactly what i was expecting, "confidence is the most important, if you are confident, girls won't notice that you missing something, like hair" "be a man" "bald is manly and sexy"
Here it is
Bro I took the time to read your article and say this to you: . You’re a sad looking f***. You’re not a pussy, you’re a man. Be a man, shave of those last hairs and grow a beard. Be confident, It will be hard, yes, but by looking at your face it will suit you. Women don’t fall for guys with hair, they fall for guys with confidence. So shave of those hairs, grow your beard, hit the gym and be a badass, cause you can.
"Be a badass" . I don't want to be a badass, it's not who i am, but it's almost like baldness forces me to be it. "Grow a beard", i am not sure that i can call that patchy growth on my face "beard". "Be confident". Oh how many times have i heard that, "be confident", like it's the easier thing to do, how can i be confident when every time i look in the mirror i feel like crap, i think i am more likely to just accept that i am going to be repulsive and unnatractive and give up women, i think that would be easier, i don't know what i can base my confidence on. Maybe later in life, but my youth, me peak is going to be damaged because of that genetic crap
