The Bald Experiment - Bald guy uses old NW1 photos for his dates

[Cue Bald]

This has probably been on here before so if it has, sorry, please delete the thread, if not, holy ****

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vORriNuxw60

This guy has gone bald, so for an experiment, he puts his old NW1 pictures (2 years old) on the dating site, when the girls arrive he sets up a hidden camera and removes his cap.
For those who say it's all about confidence.. the girls pretty much say "what happened to your hair?" "i'm not so into bald guys"... this video says it all

 

[CaptainForehead]

this video says it all

All the video says is that there are girls who don't like a drastic change in appearance.


I agree that "all you need is confidence" crowd is delusional, but this "experiment" is not the way to go about disproving that thesis.

 

[shookwun]

Maybe his positivity wasn't on point?

 

[Cue Bald]

yeah if he had put his NW6 pictures on there, they wouldn't have shown up at all

 

[DannyBoyy]

Funny how you all ignore most of the comments in the vid though...dont do that when you looking for a point to make...

 

[FWIW]

well NONE of the girls would go for the date if he was bald on the photos in the first place, you cn see that from their reaction. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zgvgv5dGS64 this is video where he interviews the girls more if they prefer hair or bald.Guess whar wins. AND you have to count the fact that they were talking one to one,so they tried to be as much polite as they could.If guy with hair asked them the question,it would be much much worse.They rated him mostly 6 to 7 out of 10lol no,they were just polite because he was infront of them.You wont say to anybody you are 1/10. If anybody else would asked them about him,the rating would be at half values at best.Only one black chubby woman say she prefers bald.Now you know what kind of girls to look for to match!


OT: He should grow beard. I know its cliche, but it looks so much better. I am nw6 myself and I dont like it shaved. With beard, its not so disgusting.

One quote from girl in comments to the video:

"I just say: VIN DIESEL, DWAYNE JHONSON & JASON STATHAM ... only to name a few hotties. Guys with a great personality like you don't need hair "


OF COURSE its the PERSONALITY that makes those guys hot. LOL

 

[JTS]

A) I'd be ****ing furious if I went on a date with a girl who was skinny in her picture but turned out to be chubby.

B) I prefer girls with the typical bikini model body but that doesn't mean that I dont LOVE women with a little meat in the right places (think Natasha Nice). ****, not only is it not a deal breaker but I might just take her over the bikini model depending on her other quality's.

C) That dude wasnt good looking, with or without hair.

 

[shookwun]

Girls are no different.

Every single one I've went on a date with looked amazing in their photos but average if that in real life.

 

[shookwun]

Very deceiving. Never trust the ones who only have close up face shots either.


Always make sure theirs a full body picture somewhere. 9 times out of 10 fat chick.

Had this happen to me, I literally felt like I was lied to.

Remind of this
[video=youtube;Ewe4_Stvq0E]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ewe4_Stvq0E[/video]

 

[winnyblues]

Real hot girls wouldnt use dating sites

 

[shookwun]

I wouldn't say below average, that's pushing it considering their are attractive ones who use tindr. No different then having a Facebook these days. POF on other hand is all average girls and even below in some cases.

It seems like every girl who has a Facebook has a tindr account synced together.

Problem with online dating is it almost never leads to anything. Even if you get a number, a lot of the tkmes it doesn't merit to anything.

I got around 14 numbers if I'm not mistaken, and only two dates acually fell through. Rest flaked, or stopped communication. This is in the course span of 10 days or so. A lot of women messaged me typicall **** line 'sexy...why are you single' 'yor body, omg wow.' 'Stud' et cetera And stupid generic ****. Even the ones initiating communication never wrnt any where. It rele is a ineffective way to meet women, especially considering they are flooded with men messaging and easily forget about you within minutes. Great for boosting women's egos but not good for a man's mental fortitude.


Much easier to meet, and secure dates in real life. No tricks... just have balls and pick up on the hints

 

[HIUHAU]

I think the "you lied" factor has much to take into account in this case.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Just look for hints IRL and do something about it. Don't bother with cold approaching. If you don't interact with women irl ever you chose a ****ty lifestyle. Most women do not have men constantly asking them out, even if they get hit on a lot.

I met my current girlfriend at physiotherapy (she was doing a rotation). You can meet women anywhere.

My thoughts exactly. Been doing that since 19. I never cold approach as too much effort. Once she's shown an interest, you can't go wrong. I remember living in a student house when I was 21 and we had a grocery store nearby. A woman who worked in there would see me frequently. Smiles, conversation e.t.c. Then one time she actually said 'I think you're good looking' probably because I didn't try it on. Once in another store the woman serving me kept staring at the guy in the other queue and getting shy/sneaky with her looks. It kept happening. Personally I think the signs are obvious and guaranteed pretty much.

Other signs at uni 'wish I got to know u' or another girl touching and saying do u have any dvds in your room. All very easy stuff when they hint. Smiles and hair play is another one.

It can be tricky though. A few girls at uni/work I didn't know liked me until I found out from other reliable people in their circle.

 

[g.i joey]

i personally only use online dating for woman aged over 35... im going through a crazy MILF phase right now and i am a bit intimidated of approaching a beautiful 40 year old woman randomly but online is a breeze with the older ladies. okcupid is by far the best and only dating site you should be using.

 

[Wolf Pack]

LOL. Nice.

 

[xetudor]

They can always say "I was just being nice, sorry if you thought I was inviting you" and you're back to the same results as cold approaching.

When I was in high school the hottest girl in my class did a lap dance on me at a party. And not in a funny way but as in her rubbing her *** on my penis for the duration of a song. She only did that with me, she didn't do anything with other guys, she danced with other girls. She didn't do anything similar at any party, I always thought of her as a down to earth girl.

All the guys were like OMFG you're the lucking dude ever. So I decided to make a move on her after a few days. She was like "lolz, wtf, I was just havin' fun". That **** broke my heart. After that I said to myself to never trust "hints". The only hint is her wanting to have sex with you, that's it.

 

[xetudor]

You'll learn to differentiate between interest and attention whoring. Interest is effortless. Their instincts just come out. Some guys overcomplicate or just can't understand this stuff.

I wasn't exactly sure back then but I tried to hit on her because why the **** not? I was a horny dude and she was hot, it was my biological duty to try and have sex with her as her *** seemed to be getting friendly with my penis.

I don't care about this stuff right now as I'll be getting married son with a girl I've been with for close to 9 years and we love each other very much. If she happens to a be a b**ch and cheat on me then I'm done with giving a **** about women.

 

[JTS]

Really? Well, I don't meet women in my daily life. I just don't. I wish I did, but it ain't happening, what do you suggest I do then?

Go to salsa classes.

 

[Rudiger]

For those who say it's all about confidence.. the girls pretty much say "what happened to your hair?" "i'm not so into bald guys"... this video says it all

This doesn't say anything at all, do you use a lot of this crap to beat yourself up or what? I mean you're acting as if this is a blind date experiment, that the first time women see bald men they instantly ask about where his hair is like some curious child. Not even the worst women are that cruel (not at first anyway).

Obviously it's because they saw a deceiving picture, he's years younger, much thinner (and the weight has really gone to his face), and his foreheads pretty big and his hair is short as hell anyway. I think even if he looked like the picture except bald, he'd still have stood a chance.

It's all a lot of balancing in what women and also men think of the opposite sex. Without a doubt the vast majority of women prefer hair but if you want to believe that's the only decisive factor and therefore it's over for bald men, then I think you're just convincing yourself to give up on improving in other ways.

well NONE of the girls would go for the date if he was bald on the photos in the first place, you cn see that from their reaction. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zgvgv5dGS64 this is video where he interviews the girls more if they prefer hair or bald.Guess whar wins. AND you have to count the fact that they were talking one to one,so they tried to be as much polite as they could.If guy with hair asked them the question,it would be much much worse.They rated him mostly 6 to 7 out of 10lol no,they were just polite because he was infront of them.You wont say to anybody you are 1/10. If anybody else would asked them about him,the rating would be at half values at best.Only one black chubby woman say she prefers bald.Now you know what kind of girls to look for to match!

This guys so annoying and deluded, but I guess it's been a while since I've seen a "youtuber" as they're mainly all like this. He seemed to be hoping for what, a 7 or 8? He probably edits his own videos, can he not see that weight gain has ruined his facial structure? Even in that touched up photo he showed them he's a 7 at most, and that's because he's 20 pounds lighter, it's a good angle, and it's airbrushed to hell.

But back to the original topic, yes those women were deceived and right to be pissed off, we base part of our attraction to someone on physical attraction, in the same way he would if he had a shot at getting with really hot women. That's just reality.

Yes they may not have showed up if they saw he was bald (although mainly it's that weight gain has added years to him) but why should they? They were all probably considerably more attractive than him, so again, it's just reality that he goes for someone in his own league. They probably thought they were going for someone a bit below their league from that photo, but didn't expect to be scraping the barrel.

I'd say realistically on average, on the 1-10 scale, a bald guy will lose 2 or even maybe 3 points. But it depends on head shape, forehead size, facial structure. Some quite ugly guys rely on a big waft of fringe to handsome up their red and bloated face but they get away with it until they lose hair. For this guy, even though his forehead is pretty big, had he not gained weight (particularly on the face and double chin) he probably would have went down only a 1 or 2 points, to a 5ish.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Look in the comments i have seen on the lines of "didnt know baldness was a deal breaker" look for yourself, regardless what the video implies, there still people out there who dont care.