The Most Infuriating Thing About Hair Loss...

disfiguredyoungman

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...is normies with a full head who think they earned it.
Nothing makes my blood boil more than people talking about how their diet and shampoos contributed to their great hair.

It's like their idiocracy and ignorance gets rewarded by fate.
 

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a indian girl told me hairloss is caused by too much showering with hot water and shampoo lol

just shower with cold water and you wont bald bro
 

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Not just hair, many believe looks are also earned.

Yesterday I saw a young boy comment who was insulting his own cousin bro online for looking old at 28,while praising the another guy for his good looks at 34.
 

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...is normies with a full head who think they earned it.
Nothing makes my blood boil more than people talking about how their diet and shampoos contributed to their great hair.

It's like their idiocracy and ignorance gets rewarded by fate.
Honestly this is something all humans think for everything that happens in our lives: people get what they deserve from fate.
I guess it is a coping mechanism not to go crazy if you think of the huge differences in people’s lives.

For example, very rich people will think that they somehow deserved a spot in a rich family. If they didn’t, they would give away their riches, right?
When we think of countries at war, we tend to think they are used to it, they must know why this is happening to them. They don’t.
People who don’t have diseases think that people with diseases are different, they must have had it coming somehow.
Similarly, handsome men and beautiful women think there is an inner reason why they are attractive. They will not be able to put their finger on it, but they will not deem it if they are good looking while other people aren’t.

And baldness... people see your hair leaving your own head. Of course your body must want it (in their mind), otherwise it would just keep it as anyone else...
your body is you, ergo you are letting your hair go, they will think.
 

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Honestly this is something all humans think for everything that happens in our lives: people get what they deserve from fate.
I guess it is a coping mechanism not to go crazy if you think of the huge differences in people’s lives.

For example, very rich people will think that they somehow deserved a spot in a rich family. If they didn’t, they would give away their riches, right?
When we think of countries at war, we tend to think they are used to it, they must know why this is happening to them. They don’t.
People who don’t have diseases think that people with diseases are different, they must have had it coming somehow.
Similarly, handsome men and beautiful women think there is an inner reason why they are attractive. They will not be able to put their finger on it, but they will not deem it if they are good looking while other people aren’t.

And baldness... people see your hair leaving your own head. Of course your body must want it (in their mind), otherwise it would just keep it as anyone else...
your body is you, ergo you are letting your hair go, they will think.


Roberto..You are mixing up things..

Being a rich or being born in a family of rich is different issue.
Don't compare rich or poor with those who were ugly or beautiful,those who are born in war-torn countries.
 
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Roberto_72

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Roberto..You are mixing up things..

Being a rich or being born in a family of rich is different issue.
Don't compare rich or poor with those who were ugly or beautiful,those who are born in war-torn countries.
I understand your point.
Of course being rich (=what family you are born) is different then being attractive (what your DNA dictates).
And yet, in general, people think that they deserve the better conditions they have, compared to other people. They do not admit that they simply won the genetic (or wealth) lottery.
 

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u browse here a lot, dude.

if i was in ur situation of accepting baldness with buzz cut and girlfriend in backpack, id be long gone
 

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I understand your point.
Of course being rich (=what family you are born) is different then being attractive (what your DNA dictates).
And yet, in general, people think that they deserve the better conditions they have, compared to other people. They do not admit that they simply won the genetic (or wealth) lottery.


Piff discusses a recent series of behavioral experiments centered on the game of Monopoly. These experiments –conducted at the UC Berkeley campus — involved the secret recording of multiple “rigged” games of monopoly in which one randomly-chosen player in a randomly selected group was given certain a priori advantages…such as: twice the money, greater ability to move around the board (more than two dice!), and more access to resources (higher bonuses for passing ‘go’).


According to Piff, the goal here was to study how “a privileged player in a rigged game behaves”. After just fifteen minutes of play for each game, the researchers began noticing “dramatic” behavioral changes in the advantaged players…observed changes ranged from louder, more forceful movement of their game piece (and other “displays of power”) to seemingly trivial things like eating more pretzels.

In one humorously shocking (or shockingly humorous) example, one of the advantaged players, after successfully winning the game, was heard explaining what he had done, strategically, to succeed and win. This example speaks to “how we make sense of advantage”, says Piff

Over all, the most consistent behavioral change observed is one that may not come as a great surprise to those of us with more worldly experience…manners, or rather, the lack thereof…


https://planetsave.com/2013/12/23/a...eling-wealthy-changes-our-behavior-ted-video/
 

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u browse here a lot, dude.

if i was in ur situation of accepting baldness with buzz cut and girlfriend in backpack, id be long gone

If I had your hair I'd never be here in the first place. I didn't arrive at the acceptance stage yet, baldness fucked up my personality.
 

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If I had your hair I'd never be here in the first place. I didn't arrive at the acceptance stage yet, baldness fucked up my personality.
my hair? im same diffuse and worse hairline at 25 than u at 32, what r u on about

also u already buzzed it, so u accepted it, plus u get validation from having a gf, truly dont see the point in spending time on hairloss forums in such situation
 

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my hair? im same diffuse and worse hairline at 25 than u at 32, what r u on about

also u already buzzed it, so u accepted it, plus u get validation from having a gf, truly dont see the point in spending time on hairloss forums in such situation

First off, I am 28 and a norwood 7 diffuse almost slick bald, I had your hair at age 22 maybe if at all. No idea who you mistake me for.

Secondly it's an unstable relationship and other issues still apply.
 

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Honestly this is something all humans think for everything that happens in our lives: people get what they deserve from fate.
I guess it is a coping mechanism not to go crazy if you think of the huge differences in people’s lives.

For example, very rich people will think that they somehow deserved a spot in a rich family. If they didn’t, they would give away their riches, right?
When we think of countries at war, we tend to think they are used to it, they must know why this is happening to them. They don’t.
People who don’t have diseases think that people with diseases are different, they must have had it coming somehow.
Similarly, handsome men and beautiful women think there is an inner reason why they are attractive. They will not be able to put their finger on it, but they will not deem it if they are good looking while other people aren’t.

And baldness... people see your hair leaving your own head. Of course your body must want it (in their mind), otherwise it would just keep it as anyone else...
your body is you, ergo you are letting your hair go, they will think.
To be born good-looking is such an improbable outcome that I can understand if good-looking people believe that some god wanted them to be the chosen ones, although it's not true
 

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I like your sig, I'm also on 1/4 Proscar for years and enjoy swallowing this wonder drug, I hope it is serving you well. If no one cared about their own looks or any other person's (male or female) then it wouldn't matter in terms of feeling chosen like you said. Of course this won't happen since it's biological and innate to appreciate such people as well as taking care of yourself. We're social creatures and feed off on the validation. I do feel sorry for unattractive people who are obsessed with looking good to the point of mental anguish and dominating negative thoughts, they really should get therapy, there comes a point when you have to accept your cards and make do with your self best version or life goes by simply in these thoughts.

I don't include hair loss sufferers in this as that can reduce anyone's aesthetics prematurely as we all know nor people fighting ageing. I suppose being older but being attractive in your age bracket while having stood out in your youth is special and the best anyone can hope for.

Personally I feel sorry most for attractive people who have BDD and don't realise their advantage or can't hold that real positive belief about themselves and keep fluctuating, few on this site spring to mind. This is the worst as they actually have the genetic gift.
I remember myself thinking something similar. You know when somebody tells you: "You have a gift, don't waste it", usually meaning a certain talent. I think it's pretty much the same with attractive people. It's easy to fall into the trap of envying them but at the end of the day a Lebron James using his height to his advantage is not much
different from Brad Pitt using his genetic gift to become an actor. One could argue that a handsome guy has the most favorable genetic asset one could ever wish for because of the validation, girls, etc, but ,as you said below my other thread, there are still people out there living a decent life despite not being great-looking. My guess is that those people use their gifts to their advantage.
 

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...is normies with a full head who think they earned it.
Nothing makes my blood boil more than people talking about how their diet and shampoos contributed to their great hair.

It's like their idiocracy and ignorance gets rewarded by fate.

1000x this. How people that just are born to look good always tell everyone how it's their perfect diet, gym, hair care etc. that makes them look good. As if the genetic trainwrecks have made their genetics bad by not taking care of themselves.
 
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