As anyone who remembers me will know, I stopped posting regularly quite some time ago now (maybe nearly a year and a half ago?) and only very occasionally check here to see what's happening.
My most recent check (yesterday) amused me and that is the point of this post.
What I found funny was seeing people who I had argued with previously have totally shifted their positions to match what I had argued for in the past. Again, as certain posters will know, I never subscribed to the 'hair loss is death' type negativity that is often seen on this forum and delivered right the from the top of the forum hierarchy. I always found that position very sad, potentially harmful to those easily influenced/vulnerable and a symptom of a pretty sheltered life.
So..anyway...when I came on here yesterday it really amused me to see:
- People who had once argued that losing hair was 'the end', talking about 'game', 'approaching' etc. I mean..for me those things are just normal life and about getting yourself out there/being a man but frankly it's great to see how far people have moved in their position.
- People have started going to the gym/getting healthy/actually improving their lives in other areas rather than solely sitting at home on a forum whingeing about the cruelty of hair loss.
- Certain people who once slagged off the appeal of women from other countries (e.g. outside of the UK) are now talking of the beauty of women from Eastern European countries and other regions after they have finally travelled to these places. Again, amusing to me to read
I have literally only scanned the forum very quickly on a number of recent occasions so I am sure there is plenty of depressing/'woe is me' stuff thrown in but I just wanted to say that it's good to see that some people have opened their minds slightly and maybe let a bit more positivity into their lives.
As for me..in case anyone is wondering ...life is good. I travelled to another 12-13 countries in total last year and have just come back from an amazing European trip where i slept with maybe the prettiest girl I have met in a long time (she was Ukranian). The thought of hair loss very rarely enters my mind and my fitness is improving despite the fact that biologically I guess it should be slowly decreasing by now. I love to train hard and do so around 5 times per week. I have my other hobbies etc but this year I'm going to consider living life at a slightly slower pace and being more 'grown up' with regards to finances/the future etc. But i will still find time for fun and travel...that will never fully stop while I am healthy.
Keep up the good work you positive people
My most recent check (yesterday) amused me and that is the point of this post.
What I found funny was seeing people who I had argued with previously have totally shifted their positions to match what I had argued for in the past. Again, as certain posters will know, I never subscribed to the 'hair loss is death' type negativity that is often seen on this forum and delivered right the from the top of the forum hierarchy. I always found that position very sad, potentially harmful to those easily influenced/vulnerable and a symptom of a pretty sheltered life.
So..anyway...when I came on here yesterday it really amused me to see:
- People who had once argued that losing hair was 'the end', talking about 'game', 'approaching' etc. I mean..for me those things are just normal life and about getting yourself out there/being a man but frankly it's great to see how far people have moved in their position.
- People have started going to the gym/getting healthy/actually improving their lives in other areas rather than solely sitting at home on a forum whingeing about the cruelty of hair loss.
- Certain people who once slagged off the appeal of women from other countries (e.g. outside of the UK) are now talking of the beauty of women from Eastern European countries and other regions after they have finally travelled to these places. Again, amusing to me to read
I have literally only scanned the forum very quickly on a number of recent occasions so I am sure there is plenty of depressing/'woe is me' stuff thrown in but I just wanted to say that it's good to see that some people have opened their minds slightly and maybe let a bit more positivity into their lives.
As for me..in case anyone is wondering ...life is good. I travelled to another 12-13 countries in total last year and have just come back from an amazing European trip where i slept with maybe the prettiest girl I have met in a long time (she was Ukranian). The thought of hair loss very rarely enters my mind and my fitness is improving despite the fact that biologically I guess it should be slowly decreasing by now. I love to train hard and do so around 5 times per week. I have my other hobbies etc but this year I'm going to consider living life at a slightly slower pace and being more 'grown up' with regards to finances/the future etc. But i will still find time for fun and travel...that will never fully stop while I am healthy.
Keep up the good work you positive people
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