Thinisin's story

thinisin

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Hey all,

I've been visiting this site for the past few years, and I have learned quite a bit about hairloss as well as how to fight against it. I have finally gotten up the courage to tell my story, which mirrors many of those I've read on this board.

I inherited my hairloss from my mother's side (my dad has a full head of hair). My grandfather was completely bald at age 25 along with all of his brothers. This fact never provided me with much comfort.

When I was a teenager, I had a very full head of hair. I remember my barber using a thinning tool to thin my hair enough to cut it. I always thought I would keep my hair (despite my family history) because of how thick it was. I noticed a slightly receding hairline at age 19. This caused me a huge amount of anxiety, and I experienced the same emotions that I'm sure many of you experienced when you first noticed. Anyway, I kept pretty close track of my hairline from that point forward. At the time, there was no medical treatment that I was aware of for hairloss (this was 1990). For the next few years, I did not detect any noticable change in my hairline, and my hair seemed to be as thick as it always was. For a brief perod of time, I convinced myself that I wasn't going bald and that the loss of hairline (.5" at most) was due to just getting older.

At age 23, I discovered differently. My hair began feeling thinner, and didn't have the body it used to have. There was no scalp showing, but I began to realize that this was probably the next stage of my hairloss, and I became very depressed again. As the years went by, the thinning continued. It was very slow, but steady. At age 25, I started taking Rogaine 2% (5% hadn't been released). Surprisingly, after about 3 months, I seemed to be responding (no additional hairloss with slight regrowth). Thinking (stupidly) the regrowth had nothing to do with the Rogaine, I stopped taking it. Well, as you can imagine, the thinning continued. At age 29, people started making comments. I ordered Toppik (spelling?) and started using it with much success. It works great on thinning hair because it seems to fill in the gaps. At age 31, I stopped taking Toppik (too messy, and was becoming noticable). Now, at age 35, I am noticably thin (diffuse). My hairline is still intact, but it is completely obvious that I am losing my hair.

About 2 months ago, I started taking 1mg finasteride once a day (no sides yet) and 1ml 5% minoxidil twice a day. It may be too little too late, but even if I can maintain, I still have enough hair (coverage) to not shave it. Regrowth would be a definate plus.

On the plus side, I am married with kids, so I don't have to worry about what women think about me. My hairloss doesn't really even bother me that much unless I see a recent photo of me (the camera subtracts at least 1-2 Norwood).

Well, that's it for now. Sorry for the long-winded post.
 

damnthis

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good story, good luck, keep us updated, thanks for sharing
 

thinisin

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Thanks for the response. I have a short attention span, and I only have the patience to write small chunks at a time. I can elaborate a little further on my story.

First, after two months of my current regimin, I have (not surprisingly) not experienced any noticable differences. I cannot classify my hair using the norwood scale because I am a diffuse thinner, but I would say that I am the equivalent of a NW4-5. The best I can say right now is that I have not detected any additional loss of hair, and I am not sure if I have had any sheds (I do not count my fallen hairs - I don't even know how you'd go about doing that). I will try to post baseline pictures before too long, and hopefully update as progress is made.

I would say the biggest pain about my current treatment is the application of the minoxidil. I haven't yet perfected a consistent delivery method, and if any of you would like to share your experiences, I would love to hear them. The scalp irritation isn't too bad, but I hate the way it makes my hair feel for the first hour or so after application - greasy, wet, nasty. If it works (maintenance or *fingers crossed* regrowth), it will be well worth it. The finasteride hasn't really affected me from a physiological perspective. I can "perform" without any issues. I take it once a day with my vitamins.

I used to be a huge Toppik fan, but after a while I began to hate my dependence on it. It itched like crazy during workouts. Scratching was out of the question unless I wanted huge clumps of crap under my fingernails. Swimming was a problem because it washed out within the first few minutes, revealing my badly thinning hair. It got all over my pillow, the bathroom, etc. The final straw was when someone made a comment about it (what is all that stuff in your hair?) - flashback to Shallow Hal. When I stopped using it, I got a few comments (wow, you're really thinning up there), but I was happy to be free from it.

I have finally gotten to the point where I can joke about it with other people. I used to be extremely sensitive about it, and to a certain degree I still am; but I am much more comfortable with it than I used to be. Most people don't give a darn anyway. It makes them feel better about themselves, so in a way it's a positive thing.

Don't ever believe there are some women who don't care. They do. They all do. I am sure my wife would rather I had a full head of hair, but at least she doesn't have to worry about other women trying to hit on me. All women would rather date a guy with full hair (everything else being equal). It is not a question of whether or not they care, it is a question of how important it is. For some, it is everything. For most, it is somewhere in the middle.

Well, I guess that's it for now. 'Till next time...
 
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