This forum has helped me more than my psychologist

Feelsbadman

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The problem with going to psychologists is they don't actually know how modern dating works.. they think it's really easy you just go on a dating website/app and meet a women.

THey have no idea abou how bad balding is or red pill black pill etc. And it's hard t speak to them aboutit.

This forum has helped me so much I'm starting to accept who i am and just being happy. I used be so miserable. I still have relapsed sometimes. For example I was at the gym a few days ago and saw a tall chad 6 ft 2, jacked, tanned, NW1 Giga Chad. with tattoos. I get depressed knowing how easy he has it with women. Such is life.

But then I just focus on myself and have to just accept the bad hand i was given. Acceptance is a lot better. Also finasteride killing my libido lately has been able to help me more.

It's just not worth worrying or trying so hard with women if you were born with really bad genetics. It's like trying to play a game on extreme difficulty mode and getting frustrated at losing whilst you see others winning. Why even play the game in the first place?

I'm going to stop my vices and start saving and just try and live a fulfilling life without women. It's better like this. I was lucky (unlucky) to experience a short relationship with an ok looking women and some really good sex so i just got to appreciate that and now accept its over for me.

thanks everyone
 

DoctorHouse

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The problem with going to psychologists is they don't actually know how modern dating works.. they think it's really easy you just go on a dating website/app and meet a women.

THey have no idea abou how bad balding is or red pill black pill etc. And it's hard t speak to them aboutit.

This forum has helped me so much I'm starting to accept who i am and just being happy. I used be so miserable. I still have relapsed sometimes. For example I was at the gym a few days ago and saw a tall chad 6 ft 2, jacked, tanned, NW1 Giga Chad. with tattoos. I get depressed knowing how easy he has it with women. Such is life.

But then I just focus on myself and have to just accept the bad hand i was given. Acceptance is a lot better. Also finasteride killing my libido lately has been able to help me more.

It's just not worth worrying or trying so hard with women if you were born with really bad genetics. It's like trying to play a game on extreme difficulty mode and getting frustrated at losing whilst you see others winning. Why even play the game in the first place?

I'm going to stop my vices and start saving and just try and live a fulfilling life without women. It's better like this. I was lucky (unlucky) to experience a short relationship with an ok looking women and some really good sex so i just got to appreciate that and now accept its over for me.

thanks everyone
Group therapy works better than one on one. I am glad you are learning how to like yourself better. I relapse too and get triggered by genetic unicorns. It's normal to wish you can have top tier genetics but don't always assume these guys have it easy. I have met some who have severe mental issues and get hooked on drugs and can't function normally. Then end up hooking up with women like your ex.
 

Feelsbadman

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Group therapy works better than one on one. I am glad you are learning how to like yourself better. I relapse too and get triggered by genetic unicorns. It's normal to wish you can have top tier genetics but don't always assume these guys have it easy. I have met some who have severe mental issues and get hooked on drugs and can't function normally. Then end up hooking up with women like your ex.
Yea good point thanks
 

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Yeah I explained to my therapist (an old woman) how today's dating climate works and she was like wow it's brutal

Nevertheless her advice helped me and changed my life for the better.
 
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