This life is just excruciatingly boring and unrewarding

[Caillou]

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[Selb]

Embrace some of that hollowness and use it to make you brave enough to confront the fact that you shouldn’t care what other other people think. You’re doing your best and that’s all you can do

 

[Caillou]

Embrace some of that hollowness and use it to make you brave enough to confront the fact that you shouldn’t care what other other people think. You’re doing your best and that’s all you can do

As i said my insecurities are much stronger than my apathy. And my ego is not strong enough to brush off being treated like a freak when i go full bald

 

[Isaac Newton]

I made a thread just like this in my early 20s. All i can say is i regret not saving money earlier i cudve gotten a transplant by now. Focus on that, on money

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Tbf I was afraid of buzzing head (I shave so short that my hair are almost invisible) because I thought people will tell me I am an alien etc., but when I actually did it, people started to treat me better, many people now refer to me as 'bald' because I buzzed, not because of my receding hairline and thinning (then I would be called 'zakolak') but because I did what people fear. Maybe I am just lucky I have a skull shape and face to pull it off, but no one calls me an alien or freak. Also after cutting these horrible hair my self-esteem raised.

 

[Isaac Newton]

Tbf I was afraid of buzzing head (I shave so short that my hair are almost invisible) because I thought people will tell me I am an alien etc., but when I actually did it, people started to treat me better, many people now refer to me as 'bald' because I buzzed, not because of my receding hairline and thinning (then I would be called 'zakolak') but because I did what people fear. Maybe I am just lucky I have a skull shape and face to pull it off, but no one calls me an alien or freak. Also after cutting these horrible hair my self-esteem raised.

You HAVE to buzz or shave if you're bald.

 

[Caillou]

Tbf I was afraid of buzzing head (I shave so short that my hair are almost invisible) because I thought people will tell me I am an alien etc., but when I actually did it, people started to treat me better, many people now refer to me as 'bald' because I buzzed, not because of my receding hairline and thinning (then I would be called 'zakolak') but because I did what people fear. Maybe I am just lucky I have a skull shape and face to pull it off, but no one calls me an alien or freak. Also after cutting these horrible hair my self-esteem raised.

I buzzed to zero before multiple times and even hanged out with it. My face and skull shape look decent bald, it's just my height (5'7) that makes it shitty. Also looking ugly isn't the thing that bothers me about baldness, it's the stigma of losing hair so young. It causes people to think that you have a disease or that you're a freak of nature

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

You HAVE to buzz or shave if you're bald.

Yeah I got to this point that shave or buzz or be a freak, but thought of shaving or buzzing is scarier than actually doing it imo.

I buzzed to zero before multiple times and even hanged out with it. My face and skull shape look decent bald, it's just my height (5'7) that makes it shitty. Also looking ugly isn't the thing that bothers me about baldness, it's the stigma of losing hair so young. It causes people to think that you have a disease or that you're a freak of nature

Yeah I know your pain about stigma, because I suffer with stigma concerned around my Aspergers and the fact that I have been to psych ward (which is far more cruel than baldness imo), tbh with baldcel epidemic I see (a lot of people NW5 in my campus despite being my age or younge) I don't think that this is that big of a stigma tbh tbh

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

Sound like a major depression tbh. Go see a psychiatrist to get some jew vitamins, get that serotonin flowing. Therapy also helps if you dedicate yourself to it. You need to rewrite your mind, the meds make you more susceptible, but afterwards you have to put in the work yourself. Don't take it together with finasteride tho, unless you're truly suicidal, or you can kiss your d!ck goodbye

 

[Caillou]

Sound like a major depression tbh. Go see a psychiatrist to get some jew vitamins, get that serotonin flowing. Therapy also helps if you dedicate yourself to it. You need to rewrite your mind, the meds make you more susceptible, but afterwards you have to put in the work yourself. Don't take it together with finasteride tho, unless you're truly suicidal, or you can kiss your d!ck goodbye

Jewpills already fucked me up badly before, i don't want to repeat that miserable experience again

And anti-androgens already fucked me up completely and i'm suffering from PFS nowadays

Yeah I know your pain about stigma, because I suffer with stigma concerned around my Aspergers and the fact that I have been to psych ward (which is far more cruel than baldness imo), tbh with baldcel epidemic I see (a lot of people NW5 in my campus despite being my age or younge) I don't think that this is that big of a stigma tbh tbh

Do you want to get a transplant in the future someday, or do you truly don't care about your hair at this point?

 

[Isaac Newton]

I buzzed to zero before multiple times and even hanged out with it. My face and skull shape look decent bald, it's just my height (5'7) that makes it shitty. Also looking ugly isn't the thing that bothers me about baldness, it's the stigma of losing hair so young. It causes people to think that you have a disease or that you're a freak of nature

I think its more about frame size and skin color than height to compensate for baldness. Blacks get away with it cuz skin color and same with bald beasts like stone cold

 

[Caillou]

I think its more about frame size and skin color than height to compensate for baldness. Blacks get away with it cuz skin color and same with bald beasts like stone cold

My skin color is perfect for pulling off the bald look as i naturally look like i'm perma-tanned (think latino skin color) and never get pale unless i spend few consecutive months away from the sun


As for frame, my body is currently small. But that's mostly because i have little muscle from never working out or lifting anything and eating crap. If i hit the gym i'm pretty sure i can get a decent body, especially if i run a roid cycle


It's just that .... i can't do it, i can't go bald. It's like when you want to take a cold shower, and even though you know that once you get in you will get used to it, but you just can't bring yourself to get in at all. I don't think i have enough mental strength to go bald in my situation even if it will eventually allow me to finally be free from this burden

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Do you want to get a transplant in the future someday, or do you truly don't care about your hair at this point?

To be fair I don't care about hair anymore, if it gets worse I will just shave it and be done with it. With transplants, systems etc. there is always fear that someone will find out and ruin your life as a result, and I want a solution that just makes me stop thinking about balding

 

[b4sedt0ny]

Living the dream

 

[Feelsbadman]

i know this feeling

 

[Norwoody]

Brutal

 

[20YearsOnFin]

This life is just excruciatingly boring and unrewarding​

Well if you think that now , just wait until you are married, you get to spend half your life pretending to be interested when your wife's talking.

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Well if you think that now , just wait until you are married, you get to spend half your life pretending to be interested when your wife's talking.

Yeah I think many people will never marry at all, making the reality of boring wife more appealing