This weekend as all weekends sucks a lot

[IBM]

After the Friday and Saturday in heavy low mood and depression, today i got the strenght to wake up, shave my face, take a bath, put foam to style my hair and put a nice dark t-shirt with nice shorts.
Well i looked in the mirror and i felt very atractive.

But the same sh*t came along as always. I had no one to go out so i've to stay in home, listening my mother's crying about her dermatitis in her scalp (yes she suffers from scalp conditions just like me), my brother studying to his exam and my father watching tv almost asleep.

So i made my own lunch (tomato soup with white beans) and i took it. After a while and sick of watching tv and seeing the f*****g Euro 2008 i decided to go out and take a walk in the neibourhood.

My town really sucks. It really sucks. Besides of seeing the same shity closed minded people, the mall is decaying at fast pace (only emmigrants are there), the streets smells like pee and pigeons are eating what dogs gives to Mother Earth.

Well I wish i could be in some fashion / glamour and young city. I'm sick of living here.
If i want to have fun i have to move out from Portugal.

 

[IBM]

Its 19 hours and 20 minutes. Soon i'll take my meal and swallow oral spironolactone pill. Then is pray to time goes by fast and wake up tomorrow and go to work.

I'm getting a bad headache and i cant do nothing. Not surprising why i'm so addicted to work.

 

[Lucky_UK]

Get out and get drunk IBM!

That is what I am doing tonight, nice weather here in the UK, then up for 6am for work.

It passes the time my friend.

 

[ghg]

Well I wish i could be in some fashion / glamour and young city. I'm sick of living here.
If i want to have fun i have to move out from Portugal.

Yeah I bet you'd fit right in.

 

[ghg]

Im not trying to criticise IBM, but I think it is bullshit to blame a boring life on hairloss. life is what you make out of it. Putting no effort into things and withdrawing from social life is your fault, hairloss or not people can still go out and have fun. I understsand that it can affect confidence, but you still need to get on with everyday life without worrying about hairloss every minute of the day.

Exactly. Hairloss seems to be the least of IBM's problems.

 

[IBM]

Well I wish i could be in some fashion / glamour and young city. I'm sick of living here.
If i want to have fun i have to move out from Portugal.

Yeah I bet you'd fit right in.

Ok not fashion/glamour city but something alternative with people with open minds and different cultures. People that accept as you are and dont judge you by anything such as color, economical status, religion, etc.

 

[uncomfortable man]

You should try accidentally creating a hot model looking chick from a computer/chemistry experiment gone awry and have her take you on a sexy whirlwind adventure that teaches you the meaning of life and learn something about your potential for coolness in the process. You know, like that movie Weird Science.

 

[Obsidian]

I am going to put this in the most positive way I can coming from a hypocritical, negative, neurotic person who puts his stress and emotions in his stomach 'till they throw up in a mix of anger/sadness/insanity:

Yeah life sucks, but only because we make it that way. If your life sucks, you can spend all your time blaming objects, situations, or even people for why your weekend went to hell but in the end you're only fooling yourself. Stop sulking and go out, throw your hat to the wind even if it flies right back in your face, just do it again. If you are balding or afraid of it so what? I don't like it either but if I let it dominate my life, I am going to have a shittier social life and my grades will be in the gutter. I already have IBS from my Mother and had a polyp removed from my rectum but that didn't stop me the next week from going out with my friends to get my mind off it. Remember this about your hair, ONLY YOU notice what is wrong with it. A celebrity or person you admire you may think has a beautiful head of hair but might say "Damn my hair is receding", see what I mean?

Life is what we make of it and while I enjoy sulking from time to time, I have started to realize you really do miss out on a lot if you do it too much and don't live for the present or better days.

EDIT: You think your life is bad? How about you visit a cancer ward where a six year old is barely kept alive by machines and still has a positive outlook on life. I guarantee then you start to feel like a jerk for what anyone of us worry about.

Sorry if this sounds mean, but this is the truth, life passes you by when you sulk away so stop doing and get out.

 

[uncomfortable man]

The movie Mask with Cher in it was about a guy named Rocky Dennis who had the same thing Eman did. You gave me an idea to use his picture in my next avatar, thanx. Lately I've been thinking of a new avatar for HatPrisoner and I think I found the perfect ones, but I don't know how to forward pics using the PM. The picture is of this guy from Stargate Atlantis, the black guy that always wears the hat (Aiden Ford). Do you think he would be pissed at me if I posted the pics here and see if we can come to a consensus that one of these pictures should be HP's new avatar?

 

[HatPrisoner91]

Check out New York City, Boston or San Francisco - they are exactly as you describe, very liberal. Seattle, Los Angeles or Vancouver BC are also very liberal.

NYC? Are you kidding me? It's ALL ABOUT IMAGE in NYC.

 

[Guest]

I don't know, HP has a pretty good avatar already. I've never been to NYC. Just heard it was liberal land - a "big cultural melting pot". Vancouver BC is kinda "uppity" too, but still very liberal - nice place actually. I may move to Van. or Seattle someday.

My avatar is generic, I know. But my avatar kinda looks like me.

what do you mean by "uppity"?

 

[Guest]

you're right. its really expensive to live in vancouver. if i was to buy a house in vancouver id be paying for it for the rest of my life. and there are alot of high class snobby goofs there. but its also pretty relaxed. theres alot of tolerance for gay people and theres even the new amsterdam cafe where anyone can smoke weed without the police bothering them. its right next to BC marijauana party headquarters.

 

[Bald Dave]

I agree with all the others on this site IBM. You have gotta get out there and start meeting people! I have bad hairloss for my age but still I go out and make the most of what I've got. I don't have many friends but the friends I do have are very close friends and I try and go out with them as much as I can. I have also got 2 younger brothers who I go with quite regularly as well and I would consider you do the same. You mentioned you've got a brother why don't you go out with him?

 

[IBM]

I agree with all the others on this site IBM. You have gotta get out there and start meeting people! I have bad hairloss for my age but still I go out and make the most of what I've got. I don't have many friends but the friends I do have are very close friends and I try and go out with them as much as I can. I have also got 2 younger brothers who I go with quite regularly as well and I would consider you do the same. You mentioned you've got a brother why don't you go out with him?

He's on the same position as me. No friends, no girlfriends and still's a virgin at 32 (almost 33). Get out of where I live its the only way. My brain is tired of same sh*t over and over again. I know there's loads of people much worse but I'm almost insane in that house and town.

 

[Bald Dave]

Your brother might still be a virgin and have no friends but you could still go out together. It would be a alot easier than to go out alone.

I hope it works out for you IBM