Today I Was Unable To Go Out

[infinitepain]

My hairline is starting to become diffuse, im lossing it. Today I needed to go get some more finasteride and minoxidil as well as my spironolactone to try it out for the first time, but I was too depressed. I can't take this pain. I wonder how much pain can a psyche take?

I will try next week again. If the spironolactone and RU don't work, that's it, im shaving my pathetic NW1.9 with diffuse crown before it reaches a subhuman point and im putting a wig on top. What else is there to do? I can't stand the f*****g balding, the scalp itch will not go away as well, but I don't care if I have hair.

Im on topical finasteride and minoxidil and I refuse to take the actual pill since it's a f*****g hormonal suicide, let alone dutasteride. Now that im getting some money im planning on f*****g 8+ escorts at least monthly to not blow my brains up, so just lol at taking a pill that will annihilate my DHT for 70%. One of my strong points is that im also very lean and im approaching age 30. Im sure if touched that sh*t, I would start putting on fat as estrogen raises.
Can you f*****g imagine? I get money to enjoy some f*****g escorts, and I lose my libido thanks to the pills.
Inb4 topical goes systemic. Not it doesn't, my libido is still high and my bodyhair is still abundant, I would have noticed if I lost 70% of the most potent androgen on men. I also have labs before starting the topical treatment and I will get them done soon again after more than a year of treatment to prove it.

Im sure that even if I went the oral route committing hormonal sepukku, it would still not f*****g stop the balding and itching anyway.

What a f*****g joke. We are stuck with shitty tranny pills for hairloss and topicals that don't work. Im afraid I will have to transition to a wig since I doubt spironolactone and RU will do sh*t nothing, and you can't use those treatments chronically anyway, I would need to alternate them with the finasteride.
Everything else is a waste of time. That seti crap is expensive and proven to do nothing. The CB stuff has proven nothing special, and the rest of treatments are sci-fi. Every aspie that is on a million of "alternative treatments" that has gotten results always forgets to mention how they are taking tranny drugs (dutasteride). Hi SwissTemples.

>inb4 "B-BUT YOU ARE NOT EVEN NW3!!!"
You low sentience cueballs are tiring me. You don't understand the pain of transitioning from human (face frammed) to subhuman (face frame starting to go to hell).
Anything past NW2 is dogshit. And I have no hope for hair transplants when my scalp is itching and balding. My only way out is a god damn wig and a lifetime of stress due being anxious about wearing hair that is not your real hair, being anxious about doing any physical sport or activity due it accidentally moving, or having any sort of long term relationship where you would need to always find time to be alone 100% to change your subhuman wig.
What a life.

 

[buckthorn]

I am sorry man. trust me, I understand your pain.

 

[Roberto_72]

Really sorry you are feeling like this.
I don't think it is s good idea to suggest this immediately after Buck's post (as he did have very bad effects from finasteride), but have you really ever tried the "tranny drug"? Maybe it is your cure and you don't even know...

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Too depressed to leave house because of hairloss, does not even dare to use finasteride. Read the scientific tests, dont listen to people on forums getting sides not even listed as sides left right and center. And if you do get sides just stop using it.

 

[whatevr]

I'd feel sorry for you but due to some of your vocabulary and the way you phrase things I cannot.
"Aspie"? "Subhuman"?
Where do you hang out? PUA/Misc/4chan?

Since you single handedly swipe away every single current hair loss treatment (dutasteride and RU - "tranny drugs"? LOL) and opt to rather wear a wig, all I can say is, good luck! I guess you found the solution to your hair loss problem then.

 

[EvilLocks]

I'm sorry. I wish baldness didn't exist because it literally ruins people's lives...

 

[I.D WALKER]

I'd feel sorry for you but due to some of your vocabulary and the way you phrase things I cannot.
"Aspie"? "Subhuman"?
Where do you hang out? PUA/Misc/4chan?

Oh InfinitePain is fast becoming a regular here at HairLossTalk.com..,
hanging out right here with the rest of us subhuman's and barfing up a whole lot of dogshit.

 

[Roberto_72]

I'm sorry. I wish baldness didn't exist because it literally ruins people's lives...

This morning during a shower I was thinking that baldness is a weird disease because although it does not kill you (luckily), differently from most other diseases you basically can never hide it and pretend it's OK.

 

[I.D WALKER]

It's difficult for me to think about my own baldness and not see myself as a mangy, old and feral dog who has inexplicably
eluded euthanization year after year and has become something of a local folklore anomaly.

 

[kj6723]

This morning during a shower I was thinking that baldness is a weird disease because although it does not kill you (luckily), differently from most other diseases you basically can never hide it and pretend it's OK.

Even herpes can be hidden.

 

[shookwun]

Wig lol. Last four member including myself tried the artificial aparatus. Long story short, we all hated and could not stand it.

Only hear the good, but never the bad when it comes to wearing hair. I could not bear it.... would rather have diffuse hair that I own the go through that hell all over again.

NW2. .
.

Dude get real.



Get a job, it will help pass time.

 

[buckthorn]

Wig lol. Last four member including myself tried the artificial aparatus. Long story short, we all hated and could not stand it.

Only hear the good, but never the bad when it comes to wearing hair. I could not bear it.... would rather have diffuse hair that I own the go through that hell all over again.

NW2. .
.

Dude get real.



Get a job, it will help pass time.

+1.. wigs will work if you have extraordinary patience, aren't embarrassed to admit you have one, or be discovered, and do nothing but work a desk job and come home

 

[shookwun]

Pretty much.

Work a desk job, not exposed to sunlight, and can tell your significant other you wear hair. Its 100% inevitable that a women who spends time around you won't find out. Perhaps you will fool people you don't see often, but someone close in your life will eventually know. Subtle things like waking up in the morning and the noticible texture difference from the sides, back and top can raise a red flag. The characteristics will always look different unless you shave that crap down and get a gay boy hair cut (undercut) Sun will wreck havoc on the piece in no time. My second piece got ruined in less then two weeks. The only exposure I had witb the sun was going on 1 hour walks. It absolutely decimated the piece. I went from ash dark hair to dirty blonde. It was ridiclious. However my first piece was resilent. A lot of it will also have to do with the quality of Dye on synrhetics. Need a lot of patience.

They look good but are all smoke and mirrors. Bad solution for early baldites, bit for nw4+ can be viable within reason.


Quality of hair quickly goes from nice to ratty in no time at all. Better get used to loadin your hair with conditioner or it will feel like dread locks/bristtle. A lot you don't hear about. I spent so much time looking good I barely had enough time to actually enjoy myself. I was always on the tip of my toes hoping I had a good bond and nobody notices.


Either you stop worrying or stop wearing is the ultimatum behind wearing hair. Anxious people should avoid

Worst part being is the hair can look so good that it will raise un wanted attention. Women love men with nice heads of hair and chances are she's going to play with your doo. Then what? 'Please don't touch my hair I don't like that. ' She will think you're gay.

 

[buckthorn]

Pretty much.

Work a desk job, not exposed to sunlight, and can tell your significant other you wear hair. Its 100% inevitable that a women who spends time around you won't find out. Perhaps you will fool people you don't see often, but someone close in your life will eventually know. Subtle things like waking up in the morning and the noticible texture difference from the sides, back and top can raise a red flag. The characteristics will always look different unless you shave that crap down and get a gay boy hair cut (undercut) Sun will wreck havoc on the piece in no time. My second piece got ruined in less then two weeks. The only exposure I had witb the sun was going on 1 hour walks. It absolutely decimated the piece. I went from ash dark hair to dirty blonde. It was ridiclious. However my first piece was resilent. A lot of it will also have to do with the quality of Dye on synrhetics. Need a lot of patience.

They look good but are all smoke and mirrors. Bad solution for early baldites, bit for nw4+ can be viable within reason.


Quality of hair quickly goes from nice to ratty in no time at all. Better get used to loadin your hair with conditioner or it will feel like dread locks/bristtle. A lot you don't hear about. I spent so much time looking good I barely had enough time to actually enjoy myself. I was always on the tip of my toes hoping I had a good bond and nobody notices.


Either you stop worrying or stop wearing is the ultimatum behind wearing hair. Anxious people should avoid

Worst part being is the hair can look so good that it will raise un wanted attention. Women love men with nice heads of hair and chances are she's going to play with your doo. Then what? 'Please don't touch my hair I don't like that. ' She will think you're gay.

so, I ask you - what if you had the confidence to just tell everyone? would your life be better? Showing up on a first date bald, with a horrendous head shape, or showing up with hair and telling her, "yeah it's fake, you can rub my bald head some day if things go well" and trying to laugh at it?? idk...

 

[blackg]

so, I ask you - what if you had the confidence to just tell everyone? would your life be better? Showing up on a first date bald, with a horrendous head shape, or showing up with hair and telling her, "yeah it's fake, you can rub my bald head some day if things go well" and trying to laugh at it?? idk...

Balls of steal my friend. You could probably do this for a while if you pre-emt EVERY situation with humor.
Though, in the long run I see this as a very draining exercise.
Sometimes it's nice to "just be yourself" and not have to put up any front.

Plus, with the whole "attack with humor" angle , your run the risk of you, yourself, becoming the ultimate joke.

 

[Roberto_72]

Balls of steal my friend. You could probably do this for a while if you pre-emt EVERY situation with humor.
Though, in the long run I see this as a very draining exercise.
Sometimes it's nice to "just be yourself" and not have to put up any front.

Plus, with the whole "attack with humor" angle , your run the risk of you, yourself, becoming the ultimate joke.

I agree with this.
When I was in my teen years, there was a friend of mine who had aggressive baldness too.
He attacked this with humor. Everytime he saw a person with a comb-over, he would scream "comb-over! please let me never go there!"
He even invented a game in which he spotted early thinners and tried to imagine how shitty they must feel.
Some of my friends supported this game, partly because it was funny, partly because they understood he was coping with his ordeal.

When, at 23, my friend was completely bald and started shaving his head, he ended the game...

 

[dralex]

It is very difficult for me to have sympathy for you. You complain about your hair loss when you aren't even a NW2 yet? AND you are refusing to take finasteride? AND you're 30? I am 22, have near a NW3, have been taking finasteride for 2 years and it hasn't even slowed my hair loss. Stop being a little b**ch and take the damn pill. Sick of people complaining when they aren't even using the treatments out there.

 

[WangMQ]

The only thing I can agree with is that the itching is even worse than the fact of having no hair.

It keeps reminding you how you keep losing and is physically distracting as it is.

 

[shookwun]

This guy is a pussy.


Just wear a hat like the rest of us did

 

[Funkymonk1]

It is very difficult for me to have sympathy for you. You complain about your hair loss when you aren't even a NW2 yet? AND you are refusing to take finasteride? AND you're 30? I am 22, have near a NW3, have been taking finasteride for 2 years and it hasn't even slowed my hair loss. Stop being a little b**ch and take the damn pill. Sick of people complaining when they aren't even using the treatments out there.

This. The OP is clearly after sympathy and his frustration is obvious but it's hard to feel sorry for someone who whines about a Norwood 1.9 and spouts irrational nonsense like calling finasteride a "tranny drug".