wasted a few years of my life over a girl? how to cope?

Feelsbadman

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was ugly , short and balding early no girls gave me time of day so i started looksmaxxng and looksmaxxing as hard as i could
i went on a few tinder dates then met a girl who was actually fun and not bad looking
we hit it off straight away and she completely idealised me and gave me more love , attention , validation , sex than ive ever received in life. She had so many red flags and issues but i over looked it.. well bad mistake she endedu p cheating onme and sleeping around and ran off without caring. I was so heart broken and felt so bad about it for years nearly 2-3 years i spent pining over her and missing her.
But then i realised she's pretty messed up in the head and sleeps around with any guy . Now i'm glad she's not my gf and don't care about her at all.
but i regret wasting years of my life wanting her back. set my back years. never again

how do i cope?
 
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