We all have zero respect for bald men!

[Ori83]

I was thinking about something today, i understand that i true reason why im obsessed with hair-loss is because i hate bald men, i have no respect for them/us. i dont mean it in the literal way, but more in the psychological way (if you like)...
i know the key for being confident is to be someone that you respect and like, i cant be someone that i respect because i have zero respect for bald men (apparently) now i was struggling with this notion for a while but i have to face it, once ill gain respect for bald men, ill be able to accept myself as bald, this is why its very important to surround ourselves and keep reminding each other that there are great, successful, with hot women, bald men out there, if we do this constantly we will gradually gain our self respect back.

the impact is a place where all you hear is how bald men are losers and worth nothing, it sinks in! its a confidence killer !
so i hope i will be able to remind myself constantly to ignore those posts that keep coming from a very specific group of guys here...!

 

[s.a.f]

:bravo:

 

[slipy]

i don't care if there are bald men that are successful with women or in general. i'd rather be a looser with hair than a successful bald guy. im also aware im the type of guy that absolutely needs hair to look normal, if you look ok bald and have confidence within then good for you.

 

[Ori83]

no one looks better bald, all bald men would love to get the hair back, but its more of a confidence thing, you see, the hair is gone, there is nothing i can do about it, but confidence i can regain with some work... there are 2 options here
a) bald without confidence
b) bald with confidence

thats a no brainer if you ask me ... :dunno:

 

[s.a.f]

no one looks better bald, all bald men would love to get the hair back, but its more of a confidence thing, you see, the hair is gone, there is nothing i can do about it, but confidence i can regain with some work... there are 2 options here
a) bald without confidence
b) bald with confidence

thats a no brainer if you ask me ... :dunno:

Yes you have the choice to make hair the be all and end all of your world or to just make it a small and fairly insignificant factor.

If you have nothing going on in your life and your bald then you are pretty much a total loser. However if you're doing something worthwhile and your life has a purpose then hairloss is no biggie.
This is the real difference between US and THEM. ie HairLossTalk.com forum guys and most of the other bald guys out there.

 

[uncomfortable man]

It's tough living your life within a hypothecial. If I only had hair, my life would be so much better. Always thinking about what could be is just torture.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Oh and why do you think you hate bald men Ori? Where do you think that hate comes from? Hmmm?

 

[Ori83]

its because i have this "bald=ugly" equation hard-wired into my brain thanks to society ofc... but is that has to do with the fact i want to gain confidence back? as i cant change how society looks at me, but i can change how i feel towards bald men... which is very important in the proccess of getting some self worth back... (now lookie here, i have to admit, life would be diffrent with hair, im sure this obssesion slowed things ALOT for me, in school.. just thinking over it, or wasting time norwood spotting, or with girls, nonetheless (!!!) im still attending collage and getting a good degree AND dating cute girls here and there.... so baldness is not all end as someone mentioned earlier)

 

[uncomfortable man]

Because if you can't dismantle that then you will never be able to achieve your goal.

 

[seb]

You gotta earn respect as an individual,but as a human being,respect should be given too all.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Respect is earned but common courtesy should be free.

 

[s.a.f]

Plenty of people dont get common courtesy, it has nothing to do with hairloss. More to do with the fact that society in general does'nt give a f**k about anyone but themselves.

 

[uncomfortable man]

I get that, it's just in my case it applies to being bald.

 

[s.a.f]

In fact, I was watching a youtube video the other day and there were the older ladies on there talking $hit about how all the guys at their 20 year high school reunion were ugly. Then one of them says, "ewwww they were all mostly bald, yuck. And here's a little tip for you guys out there we don't like bald men by the way... we think they are gross looking! "

Link?

 

[TravisB]

Every time I see young bald guy with a pretty girl, i think we can flush these HairLossTalk.com "women HATE bald men" theories down the toilet

It's quite rare, but it maybe just the fact that there aren't many bald guys in their 20's. But I see couples consisting of young bald guys + pretty girls. Also in the clubs it's not so hard to spot bald guy dancing with a hot girl, and the girl does not seem to be ashamed by it

 

[s.a.f]

Every time I see young bald guy with a pretty girl, i think we can flush these HairLossTalk.com theories down the toilet

It's quite rare, but it maybe just the fact that there aren't many bald guys in their 20's. But I see couples consisting of young bald guys + pretty girls. Also in the clubs it's not so hard to spot bald guy dancing with a hot girl, and the girl does not seem to be ashamed by it

Those facts dont fit some guys personal beliefs on here. :whistle:

 

[TravisB]

Today I found out that 23 years old guy that I know, who is Norwood 6 - 7, pale, quite short (about 175 cm or less), with GROWN OUT (!) horseshoe, and generally looking much older than he is, has a girlfriend. I know he's not shitting. I haven't seen her, so I actually don't know how she looks (I'm actually curious), but still. I was honestly startled about this, because I seriously thought guy like him is destined to live his life alone. He is generally happy with his life, hard-working, and is not just sitting flat on his *** crying and waiting until his hair will regrow.

He was bald for as long as I know him, which is at least 2 years, so your possible theories "he met her when he had hair" are possibly not true.

 

[Ori83]

Because if you can't dismantle that then you will never be able to achieve your goal.

read the initial post again, this is exactly what im talking about... keep on going and building more and more hate towards bald men/baldness surly wont help me (or anyone else for that matter) in achieving confidence back..

in order to be able to move on (like the non HairLossTalk.com guys men that s.a.f keeps talking about) one most respect bald men.. this is the only way to respect yourself as a bald guy, and to get there you most look at positive examples of bald guys!!! to see successful bald guys as examples and try to be more like these men... but first you have to respect them! and every single time someone gives an example of a bald men with a good looking women, the same guys will jump in and go on about how she is using him for his money/fame/car or whatever..... this is utter b.s! and this should be stopped or at least ignored.. so its a step im trying to take

 

[s.a.f]

in order to be able to move on (like the non HairLossTalk.com guys men that s.a.f keeps talking about) one most respect bald men.. this is the only way to respect yourself as a bald guy, and to get there you most look at positive examples of bald guys!!! to see successful bald guys as examples and try to be more like these men... but first you have to respect them! and every single time someone gives an example of a bald men with a good looking women, the same guys will jump in and go on about how she is using him for his money/fame/car or whatever..... this is utter b.s! and this should be stopped or at least ignored.. so its a step im trying to take

Yes but the loser guy who sits at home likes to have his baldness as an excuse as to why he does'nt have a G/f.

And not just a G/f but freinds and a good job ect ect ...

 

[seb]

Says the man who despised being bald.