what do i do when the therapist tells me to use datings apps?

[Feelsbadman]

when i speak of dating problems and issues and he says things like have you tried dating apps?
it makes my bloodd boil

 

[Feelsbadman]

bump

 

[Feelsbadman]

bump

 

[PappinAce]

What a question! The therapist is not your master. If he suggests something that you do not want to do, don't do it.

 

[Feelsbadman]

What a question! The therapist is not your master. If he suggests something that you do not want to do, don't do it.

no but im paying him to help me and he says use dating apps which are bad advice for ugly male

 

[PappinAce]

He probably has not suffered hair loss as you have, and cannot understand the scope of its impact.

 

[INT]

I thought you stopped therapy and that your therapist was an old lady? Two days ago you were still mocking the idea of going to therapy for your problems.

 

[Feelsbadman]

I thought you stopped therapy and that your therapist was an old lady? Two days ago you were still mocking the idea of going to therapy for your problems.

i made an appointment to go back becauae im struggling right now.

 

[Isaac Newton]

What Norwood are you?

 

[Feelsbadman]

What Norwood are you?

Norwood 3
I'm on finasteride increased my dose and now my erections and libido are worse. feel so sh*t.

 

[Isaac Newton]

Norwood 3
I'm on finasteride increased my dose and now my erections and libido are worse. feel so sh*t.

If Norwood 3 is f*****g over your looks that hard then hair isn't the problem no offense

 

[Feelsbadman]

If Norwood 3 is f*****g over your looks that hard then hair isn't the problem no offense

Yes ive repeated myself many times on here, i'm short and ugly, so you see, any slight negative impact on my look is huge.

 

[INT]

i made an appointment to go back becauae im struggling right now.

And how did you find this therapist? How old is he? Do you know anything about how he works?

 

[Feelsbadman]

And how did you find this therapist? How old is he? Do you know anything about how he works?

He is very experienced seem him on and off for a few years, i think he is in his 40'.
How he works? what do you mean? like techniques he gives me?

 

[INT]

He is very experienced seem him on and off for a few years, i think he is in his 40'.
How he works? what do you mean? like techniques he gives me?

Strange you never brought him up and only talked about the experience you had with this older lady...

I mean, do you know what he specializes in? Which kind of therapy he provide?

 

[Feelsbadman]

Strange you never brought him up and only talked about the experience you had with this older lady...

I mean, do you know what he specializes in? Which kind of therapy he provide?

No but i think the problem is he only deals with basic things, like depression, anxiety. I probably need to see someone who deals with something more complex. I went to a psychiatrist once, it was way too expensive.

 

[INT]

No but i think the problem is he only deals with basic things, like depression, anxiety. I probably need to see someone who deals with something more complex. I went to a psychiatrist once, it was way too expensive.

Why do you think you need to see someone who deals with something more complex?

 

[Feelsbadman]

Why do you think you need to see someone who deals with something more complex?

Because depression/anxiety isnt my main problem it seems

 

[INT]

Because depression/anxiety isnt my main problem it seems

Then what is?

 

[DoctorHouse]

Then what is?

I won't be surprised if he calls it PTSD. LOL!