What if I never get a girlfriend again?

[Feelsbadman]

how can i cope with this?

 

[Norwoodcel]

Have you tried approaching.. IE cold approach and game

 

[Feelsbadman]

Have you tried approaching.. IE cold approach and game

no cold approaching is creepy and weird

 

[Norwoodcel]

no cold approaching is creepy and weird

It is cringe.. I do agree

 

[doubleindemnity]

You won't. And you'll be just fine. You have coped all this time and can continue. Whenever I find myself struggling, I remind myself that it's all meaningless (life and existence) at the end of the day (in my opinion) and that people in history have been through way worse. You're asking how you will cope but you are doing it now.

 

[Feelsbadman]

You won't. And you'll be just fine. You have coped all this time and can continue. Whenever I find myself struggling, I remind myself that it's all meaningless (life and existence) at the end of the day (in my opinion) and that people in history have been through way worse. You're asking how you will cope but you are doing it now.

thanks man, i was going to make a new thread but its really hard becaue i got my therapist and he tell me try online dating sites and other stuff but what the f*** would he know? he is in his 60's.

 

[Feelsbadman]

this is why therapy doesn't work sometimes becaue psyhcologists don't understand red pill and modern dating.

 

[doubleindemnity]

thanks man, i was going to make a new thread but its really hard becaue i got my therapist and he tell me try online dating sites and other stuff but what the f*** would he know? he is in his 60's.

Psychologists can only suggest. Same as dating coaches. They can't put themselves in your shoes. If we can't find a simple solution to the problem (how to get dates as a bald loser) maybe there isn't one. And indeed there isn't. We should all cope. Have you found a new book or video game or piece of music or hobby?

 

[Feelsbadman]

Psychologists can only suggest. Same as dating coaches. They can't put themselves in your shoes. If we can't find a simple solution to the problem (how to get dates as a bald loser) maybe there isn't one. And indeed there isn't. We should all cope. Have you found a new book or video game or piece of music or hobby?

Yea today i spent some time playing playstation (haven't played for a while)
I've also started reading a new book

Thanks it actually helps just focussing on these things and not comparng myself or thinking of my ex from a few years ago
i'm kind of happy to forget i ever had a gf / forget her. It's better this way

I was at the gym before and saw an absolute chad, jacked tattoos, tanned NW1, 6 ft 4. I felt depresse but i just focussed on myself and not worry about it and just accepte i'm ugly .

so what your advice has actually helped thanks man

 

[DoctorHouse]

this is why therapy doesn't work sometimes becaue psyhcologists don't understand red pill and modern dating.

All a psychologist does is give you the tools and knowledge on how to help yourself. If you can't help yourself, then its a failure no matter who you go to. You have to connect with the right person for it to potentially work. So far, you need to keep looking for one that you click with. I think maybe a young attractive female psychologist might be a good fit for you.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

All a psychologist does is give you the tools and knowledge on how to help yourself. If you can't help yourself, then its a failure no matter who you go to. You have to connect with the right person for it to potentially work. So far, you need to keep looking for one that you click with. I think maybe a young attractive female psychologist might be a good fit for you.

I would advise against the young attractive female part. All you will get out of it is condescension.