what is the worst advice you heard here?

Feelsbadman

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not going to meantion names but here is thw worst i got

1. just have a positive mindset

2. just stop caring about women and sex

3. just fight hard women love men who fight for things

4. just believe in destiny

5. girls just care about status

how about you guys?
 

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This is just for you @Feelsbadman. Anything I post. I am still waiting for you come up with some good advice for these guys so I guess you and I have a lot in common my good friend.
 

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everything @Micky_007 says

I basically only said number 2.

The way it was phrased by Feelsbadman is different to what I said.

Regarding 1) I know it's hard af to be positive when you're Balding, but being only negative isn't going to make anything better, might as well try to focus on your job or money so you can atleast afford a hair system, and working on yourself like still continuing taking care of one's mental and physical health is very important, because eventually when a solid treatment does come available, you want to make sure you still have living follicles, even if their vellus hairs that don't make any cosmetic difference. We've seen how people went on HRT using estrogen and regained almost full heads of hair if not more from almost being bald. Of course I'm not saying HRT is the solution, I actually see going MtF as the worst thing a guy can ever do, might as well get a Hair System

2) Of course, why chase women and believe their approval or appreciation of a man should determine his worth. You can still get rich and f*** more b****s than a guy in a relationship with a full head of hair, even if it's just via escorts/prosis like the OP mentioned he used already for kissing.

3) You not fighting hard for women, you fighting hard for yourself. It's about having a standard for one's self. Fighting for the best possible image of one's self. Women are only a by-product of men who do that as a bonus. The more one works on themselves the more confident they are, it's only a benefit to one's self.

4) IDK who tf said no. 4 - fully disagree with that. People can change their "destiny"

5) Not all girls care about status, but the majority of them do, and if you don't think so, then you need to stop dreaming and wake up to reality.
 
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I wanted to make a thread about this. Also the user OKNow almost everything he says is a delusion.

If you have a problem with what I said and explained clearly each point one by one then that is just pure cope and refusing to live up to the reality of the world and have any respectable standards for one's self.

You expect me to say, if someone is Balding they should just kill themselves or be depressed all day, every day and give up and just hope women like them even if they don't have anything going for them ? (and I'm not talking about hair or personality).

I don't do that, that would be a lie, and I'm talking about the majority of women, they don't like charity case men where they like them out of pity.

Actually, if you or anyone else has a problem with anything I said, it says more about you and them than me.
 
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@Micky_007, do you believe in a higher power or are you atheist?
 

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I believe in a higher power, but I understand the views of those who are atheist, why?
You said you don't believe in destiny. And what I mean by destiny is life has a design and things happen for a reason. That even means that it could be your destiny to change your own destiny. For instance, you could have the balding gene but do everything in your power to prevent it from happening or expressing. And if it does not happen, it was because it was never supposed to happen in the first place. My point is I believe you can intentionally alter your destiny but a higher power had it already predetermined. Ok if you say I watch too many movies based on this subject I can understand that too. I just have seen things in my life that prove there is a higher power and things do happen for a reason. That is my definition of destiny.
 

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You said you don't believe in destiny. And what I mean by destiny is life has a design and things happen for a reason. That even means that it could be your destiny to change your own destiny. For instance, you could have the balding gene but do everything in your power to prevent it from happening or expressing. And if it does not happen, it was because it was never supposed to happen in the first place. My point is I believe you can intentionally alter your destiny but a higher power had it already predetermined. Ok if you say I watch too many movies based on this subject I can understand that too. I just have seen things in my life that prove there is a higher power and things do happen for a reason. That is my definition of destiny.

I completely agree with your definition of destiny, that is what I believe to be destiny, and in that regard I do believe in destiny.

When I said I don't believe in destiny, it was in the context of the person I was speaking to, people like Feelsbadman, who is the type of person that believes a different definition of destiny, for example, that if he starts losing his hair, that's his destiny and that's the end of it. That type of definition I don't condone, whereby people believe their initial state/condition is their final destination and thereby their destiny.

I believe people can change their original state and rewrite almost any current situation - however, as you said, that change of current state was already pre-determined by a higher power.
 

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You said you don't believe in destiny. And what I mean by destiny is life has a design and things happen for a reason. That even means that it could be your destiny to change your own destiny. For instance, you could have the balding gene but do everything in your power to prevent it from happening or expressing. And if it does not happen, it was because it was never supposed to happen in the first place. My point is I believe you can intentionally alter your destiny but a higher power had it already predetermined. Ok if you say I watch too many movies based on this subject I can understand that too. I just have seen things in my life that prove there is a higher power and things do happen for a reason. That is my definition of destiny.

Nice read there, I agree too, another way to say it is that we think we have free will but actually it's all predetermined. We are exactly where we were supposed to be even though we thought we took an exciting turn or not and onto a different path. Even all meetings and people we get to know :)

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You'll know this. Maybe we were here before Doctor but in different roles and circumstances :D
 
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