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Where is the candy man, doctor house ?
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Sulking. Reading daily but "group therapy" is over PM now. In all fairness it's all about the thought patterns and changing those. If you're active over PM doing the same stuff and reading, it's no different to posting daily and same mental issues will remain. Dante did really move on though and changed the way he thought and no longer views the same stuff that brought him down. Other times some people continue posting yet evolve. Got to do what's best for you mate.
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Perhaps I'm talking selfishly because I want him back but tbh this forum is certainly not the root of anyone's mental issues. And whether they remain or not is highly unlikely to be because of this forum lol. I had left. Without him there was nothing here for mr to look. And I leave so many things in my life. I leave everything. I am forced to leave everything, better said. Yet any mental struggles are the same or worse.
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Yo Dog. You clearly didn't understand what I wrote at all lol. What you wrote in bold, I literally gave two opposing stories of users which are in agreement with your statement. I even finished with got to do what's best for you. I mean how much more open ended could my statement be in saying that there is no singular rule to forum use/mental health lol? It's more about the thought patterns and yes you can see the good/bad side to it in someone's posts! Definitely forum doesn't "cause mental illness" but for sure in some people it can make them worse/trigger their decline no doubt, just the same way some people can improve while being on here. I think I wrote that too in the post.
Back on post, I think the wizard DH should reply to you, not a good habit if you guys were close and he's ignoring a PM especially as he's active. I guess to you he is like a father figure? He may not be feeling up to talking right now but will feel okay again. I hope he gets better soon but does eventually need to reach an acceptance stage over denial/envy/anger. Once you accept things truly, you can always improve from there.