Who needs anti-depressants here?

[almostbald]

And no, on the contrary to what you guys may be thinking, i dont happen to know a great Prozac dealer in you niebourhood!!

Truth is guys, i think iv'e slipped into a deep depression, and its time i resorted to the infamous shrink and his tools.

i was jus thinking a little while ago, seeing that how everyone around me is more or less in relationships or married, how i'm gona actually find someone, with my three hairs clearly going towards my ''ADVANTAGE''. I cn see its gona be an easy ride.

damn it wasnt so long ago, that i was in a relationship with a girl i trully loved only to see her now with another guy, with great luscious hair. im constantly kicking myself at the prospect of the inevitable shinny pate in under 6 months or so, at the rate im going.

you see i havent got much hair left, well nothing that you can call real hair that is. i cant seem to bring myself to even touch my hair, only when washing it, as i think anything outside this regimen will undoutedly cause more felling of this vital human commodity!!

im going BARMY!! im even considering a dramatic carreer change. trichology and research into advancing cloning, and other genetic manipulation methods. F that i spend so much time reading about the darn subject i might aswell do something constructive. but one thing is for sure if i was to do something so drastic, it would certainly turn into an obsession.. for real.

ive put on so much weight as well, im 5'9'' (176cm) and 82kg, which clearly aligns me into the overweight-crossing obese bracket!! great, thats all i need. i suppose its just other clear symptoms of depression i suppose.

hey i jus had a thought, maybe god designed hairloss, as a way or should i say a preventative measure to stop us baldies being to promiscuous, should we be granted hair in the alternate situation. for one; i know i have a great personality (or did shall i say DID have) now im just bordering regular to depressive, like ''dont go near him, he''ll not only wine and dine you, but he will literally ''whine until u die'' lol.

maybe im just to vain.. but i think im more insecure rather than vain.

will a future wife ever be happy with me?? or will she secretly fantisize about someother guy, while i try and make a dignified attept to get on top of her.

you see, i think its better to be single and not be with anyone at all in that case. how sad is that, to live with the thought that your wife or girlfriend isnt really proud of you, or cant really show you off. or worse still she introduces you to her friends and once they leave your presence, they go ''O he's a right minger he is, she could have done much better''.

or worse still she secretly goes and has an affair, since we propecia abusers usually are likely to suffer from degradated sexual potency. ouch!!

i know im goin on and on guys, but someone plzz tel me im not the only one to have heard these demons atleast cross thier minds once. its not all about the girl, and indeed im not suffering post relationship stress or depression. but point is , i wouldnt have given a sh*t, if i had fore knowledge of the fact that i can move on just as easily as her. the less things hinder your path, the easier the path to another goal is to cross!! hairloss only hinders your progress allot, in its absence it would have made moving on far easier, faster and most of all after the the pain of the relationship, happiness could once again resume.

AND NO im not a complete nutcase for writing such a long message, and indeed its not my intentions to make you guys sink to my level. im sorry if i have..

all i wish for now, is for a cure, and an end to the days where guys like you and me meet up in places like this.

bring on the holy grail, bring in the cure...someone...plzzz, :rockon:

 

[Grantspots]

....will a future wife ever be happy with me??

How could she be if you aren't happy with yourself? Until that happens, your only chance is to find somebody who is equally, if not more miserable than you are. Think about it, does that sound good?

f*** the hair, whatever happens, happens. Check your diet and get to the gym. Start slow and work up. I guarantee that in 2 weeks you'll will feel dramatically different in a positive way. Build from there....

Small steps.

jerry grant

 

[Stabber]

And no, on the contrary to what you guys may be thinking, i dont happen to know a great Prozac dealer in you niebourhood!!

Truth is guys, i think iv'e slipped into a deep depression, and its time i resorted to the infamous shrink and his tools.
:

Do it if you have to. Don't be afraid to try meds. It could help with the therapy. And you could always stop.

i was jus thinking a little while ago, seeing that how everyone around me is more or less in relationships or married, how i'm gona actually find someone, with my three hairs clearly going towards my ''ADVANTAGE''. I cn see its gona be an easy ride. :

I understand. I'm 23 and feel like I'm running out of time and the "good days" are passing me by. A guy I know once told me "live your life, if someone wants to come along for the ride...thats fine. If not, don't worry"

ive put on so much weight as well, im 5'9'' (176cm) and 82kg, which clearly aligns me into the overweight-crossing obese bracket!! great, thats all i need. i suppose its just other clear symptoms of depression i suppose. :

I'm trying to lose too. I'm not that overweight, but would like my body fat in single digits. Take Grantspots advice and hit the gym HARD. If you need to, hire a personal trainer. I may go that route

hey i jus had a thought, maybe god designed hairloss, as a way or should i say a preventative measure to stop us baldies being to promiscuous, should we be granted hair in the alternate situation. for one; i know i have a great personality (or did shall i say DID have) now im just bordering regular to depressive, like ''dont go near him, he''ll not only wine and dine you, but he will literally ''whine until u die'' lol.:

It is a viscious cycle. You cant attract anyone with a "depressed" type of personality. But then again, you feel like you cant attract anyone regardless because of the lack of hair and gained weight. I know I became WAY less outgoing since all of this. I'm still trying to figure this one out.

how sad is that, to live with the thought that your wife or girlfriend isnt really proud of you, or cant really show you off. or worse still she introduces you to her friends and once they leave your presence, they go ''O he's a right minger he is, she could have done much better''.
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dude, i hear you loud and clear. This exact thought went through my mind several times. All my old girlfriends friends thought I was good looking. I've even gotten a couple chicks WAY out of my league. Now, I feel like that will never happen.

i know im goin on and on guys, but someone plzz tel me im not the only one to have heard these demons atleast cross thier minds once. its not all about the girl, and indeed im not suffering post relationship stress or depression. but point is , i wouldnt have given a sh*t, if i had fore knowledge of the fact that i can move on just as easily as her. the less things hinder your path, the easier the path to another goal is to cross!! hairloss only hinders your progress allot, in its absence it would have made moving on far easier, faster and most of all after the the pain of the relationship, happiness could once again resume.

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well said. Theres not much I can say about that except I do understand.

Do something about what you can control. Like your weight. Bust your *** to get in shape

 

[Nicholas]

tough one....

Know what? Until I found my recent girlfriend my weekend routines were nothing more than a dull transport to the pub and back. The depressive guy thing yeah that was the role I played and you know how many chicks that got caught in my net? Noooot a single one... Ok I talked with a few except for my drunk friends and the ooonly one I got was a girl full with more problems that goes beyond the human mind hehe.
"Everyone" here is so concerned about getting laid all the time....... Isn´t there any way else to win back your confidence than dragging a girl (or man) home for a night?

Antidepressive?!? Come on dude I´ve been sailing the stormy seven seas alone many times and it always turns calm again. Life is life and nobody (except commercials and hollywood) said it was easy. Seeing a therapist might be helpful but stay away from the damn drugs because they ARE addictive (whatever those leechers at glaxo and pfizer say). ´

But damn it I´m not going to rant on and on about my own conspiracy theories so what you CAN try is what many of the posters here are using.

Recommended health supplement: MSM lignisul
Don´t ask just go to http://www.msm.com and you´ll see what it does
Best of luck!

 

[Rubber Baby Buggy]

My shrink said I was not depressed enough for meds.

 

[JesusFreak]

Anti-depressants have hair loss as a side-effect. Just thought I would tell you since you will find out eventually. I chose jogging as my anti-depressant. In clinical studies it worked as well as zoloft. Jogging can also drive down androgens by 85% thus halting and reversting hairloss. I know jogging doesnt sound too great, but desperate people resort to desperate solutions. It worked for me! Ive been jogging for 15 years. I'm 35 and have a full head of hair. BTW, Jogging gets just as addictive as worring about your hair loss so beware

About women: Women are looking for money and security, not looks. Its the size of your wallet not the number of hairs that really makes the difference.