Would you rather experience love once and never again or never in the first place?

[Feelsbadman]

I was once in love with a women it felt so good, i couldn't believe an actual girl who wasn't fat was in my arms cuddling me and having sex with me. I was in awe . We would watch movies together in each others arms, have sex, eat. It was great. What my sister had been doing since she was 16, what i've seen my friends and family have, what i've seen on TV i finally had. It was finally my turn after 8 years of self improvement. I remember being so happy and having so much fun. I never wanted it to end. Then i was brutally thrown away. It was so traumatizing.

It's been years and i still miss those times. It will never happen again, It makes me depressed. now i take this fuckig stupid finasteride drug that makes me feel sh*t and my hair is going and im just a short ugly guy

sometimes i think i wish i never experienced it in the first place i wouldnt have to sit here and think about it

before i met her i was fine being on my own now there is a void i have that wont ever be replaced again

 

[20YearsOnFin]

Then i was brutally thrown away. It was so traumatizing.

Keep an eye out for a spotty man, maybe you can be given special powers and finally move on and forget her.

 

[20YearsOnFin]

The things you talk about on here are standard life experiences everyone goes through,

There is nothing unique or special that only applies to you, or that nobody else can't empathize with.

The difference is that most people see these things as part of growing up or as minor set backs, they don't fixate on them incessantly & spend their whole lives dwelling on the past.

"When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."
1 Corinthians 13:11

 

[Feelsbadman]

The things you talk about on here are standard life experiences everyone goes through,

There is nothing unique or special that only applies to you, or that nobody else can't empathize with.

The difference is that most people see these things as part of growing up or as minor set backs, they don't fixate on them incessantly & spend their whole lives dwelling on the past.

"When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."
1 Corinthians 13:11

Not really, the average chad just gets a new girlfriend? so how does his life experience the same as me and how do we go through the same thing?
you're an odd fellow

 

[Feelsbadman]

Keep an eye out for a spotty man, maybe you can be given special powers and finally move on and forget her.

very strange post

 

[20YearsOnFin]

Not really, the average chad just gets a new girlfriend? so how does his life experience the same as me and how do we go through the same thing?

The average guy alive is not a chad though is he, he's just an average Joe, and he still just gets a new girlfriend.

you're an odd fellow

I'll take that with a pinch of salt seeing as its coming from a adult male who can't even get over his first gf.

 

[Feelsbadman]

It's the harsh reality that sub 5 men have to deal with. The only thing I can say is: please know that you're not alone in this cruel world.

im still sad about it years later
"just move on bro"
move on to what?

i always get sad during christmas holiday season as that was the peak of our relationship

 

[Oknow]

I was once in love with a women it felt so good, i couldn't believe an actual girl who wasn't fat was in my arms cuddling me and having sex with me. I was in awe . We would watch movies together in each others arms, have sex, eat. It was great. What my sister had been doing since she was 16, what i've seen my friends and family have, what i've seen on TV i finally had. It was finally my turn after 8 years of self improvement. I remember being so happy and having so much fun. I never wanted it to end. Then i was brutally thrown away. It was so traumatizing.

It's been years and i still miss those times. It will never happen again, It makes me depressed. now i take this fuckig stupid finasteride drug that makes me feel sh*t and my hair is going and im just a short ugly guy

sometimes i think i wish i never experienced it in the first place i wouldnt have to sit here and think about it

before i met her i was fine being on my own now there is a void i have that wont ever be replaced again

is your sister hot

 

[Oknow]

The average guy alive is not a chad though is he, he's just an average Joe, and he still just gets a new girlfriend.


I'll take that with a pinch of salt seeing as its coming from a adult male who can't even get over his first gf.

so much truth in this

 

[Feelsbadman]

is your sister hot

reported

 

[Feelsbadman]

The average guy alive is not a chad though is he, he's just an average Joe, and he still just gets a new girlfriend.


I'll take that with a pinch of salt seeing as its coming from a adult male who can't even get over his first gf.

im.ugly not an average guy