thetodd said:
You're not pathetic, but the situation your find yourself in is.
Woman can rap all they want about how looks aren't important and they are more concerned with how sensitive we are, but it's a load of b.s.
Sure, you can find the rare female who will accept you as you are, but that's not the norm.
Looks do matter, regardless of what anyone says. We guys are guilty of it, too. It's just human nature to seek out the things we are visually attracted to. That's why good looking guys can treat women like dirt and still keep them by their side while not so great looking dudes can be stellar in their treatment of women and still not get any attention from them. My wife is much younger than me, which by itself causes a certain amount of paranoia. I'm always wondering if she'll decide to leave me for someone younger, though she assures me that won't happen. Then I started really losing my hair. So now along with going to the gym every day and counting every calorie, I'm going nuts trying to fight baldness.
I agree with everything you say. But EVERY time I say anything on this board that even remotely resembles what you just said in your post, I am ostracized and some guys will really lay into me, and rip my head off on this website for doing so.
So, thetodd, outside of HP, UM, and a few others here (including myself), get ready to have people MAJORLY disagree with you now and ostracize the crap out of you for saying that "looks do matter" in your post.
Get ready...here it comes! :mrgreen:
I no longer post such things on here because it is a complete waste of time and effort. But I do agree with you thetodd, looks are important to MOST women, whether they admit it or not.