Women Critiquing The "nice Guy" Of Online Dating

[Afro_Vacancy]

http://www.pajiba.com/miscellaneous/witness-the-blasted-hellscape-that-is-the-nice-guy.php

It's an unfortunate reality of online dating, bad men give women a siege mentality, and they dole out trauma.

They should listen to @WhitePolarBear and @shookwun more, they'll understand that if they're trying that hard then they're already out of the game.

 

[Janko]

Most of the nice guys aren´t that nice. You can see it by the reactions. Being too nice = boring, without self respect. If you feel as something less, how can any girl see you as something more? Also girls likes to do some of the chase too. Behaving badly to them will interest mostly the trash girls. The wedding material girls like and want to be treated nice, but with that beloved word confidence. (This post is not meant directly to you david I know you are experienced guy. More like to some of the nice guys here on HairLossTalk.com.)

 

[CaptainForehead]

I agree with this:

 

[CaptainForehead]

unattractive creepers with one or more psychological hang-ups.

Me me me!

Unfortunately I've been told by women that I'm a "nice guy". One prostitute after our session said I was a "sweet guy". That hurt

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

I cringed reading those. Damn. Just move the f*** on. Abundance mentality,live life. Obviously have to be attractive to some women to pull it off, but you're only making yourself look like a b**ch acting like those guys.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Me me me!

Unfortunately I've been told by women that I'm a "nice guy". One prostitute after our session said I was a "sweet guy". That hurt

I found my session with a prostitute annoying in part because I couldn't believe a single compliment she gave.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Most of the nice guys aren´t that nice. You can see it by the reactions. Being too nice = boring, without self respect. If you feel as something less, how can any girl see you as something more? Also girls likes to do some of the chase too. Behaving badly to them will interest mostly the trash girls. The wedding material girls like and want to be treated nice, but with that beloved word confidence. (This post is not meant directly to you david I know you are experienced guy. More like to some of the nice guys here on HairLossTalk.com.)

I'm actually only mildly experienced, and I'd say that I'm pretty kind and considerate in real life. Therefore, these articles are painful for me.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Also "critiquing"?!?​

I'm using that term in the literary sense, not the colloquial sense.

 

[Exodus2011]

I cringed reading those. Damn. Just move the f*** on. Abundance mentality,live life. Obviously have to be attractive to some women to pull it off, but you're only making yourself look like a b**ch acting like those guys.

there is only one waifu. one does not just "move on"

 

[Stanx22]

Nice.
نايس.

 

[Stanx22]

Nice.

نايس

 

[Stanx22]

Nice (Y)

 

[Stanx22]

Nice

 

[CaptainForehead]

I found my session with a prostitute annoying in part because I couldn't believe a single compliment she gave.

What compliments did you get?

I don't get any complements. Except for my massages which I give at the end of sessions. And that's easy to believe because they stay over the alloted (charged) time. "Just five minutes" from their initial request turns into 15 minutes overtime.

 

[Exodus2011]

What compliments did you get?

I don't get any complements. Except for my massages which I give at the end of sessions. And that's easy to believe because they stay over the alloted (charged) time. "Just five minutes" from their initial request turns into 15 minutes overtime.

confirmed BDD not as ugly as you think you are

 

[CaptainForehead]

confirmed BDD not as ugly as you think you are

They're lying face down during massage, so not having to look at me.

 

[IdealForehead]

All I saw in those images were likely unattractive men building up the courage to make an effort with women, getting shot down, and then lashing out because they felt hurt.

Women don't have to go through even the tiniest bit of rejection men have to. Online for example, the average guy has to send 100 messages to be guaranteed a response. Average match rate on Tinder is somewhere in the 1% rate for men. Average sex rate from cold approach on the street is also around 1% even for top "PUAs".

Rejection is easier for some than others, and harder if you really care about the girl. eg. The guy who bought her flowers only to get shot down.

I've been neutral and cold about being rejected, and I've been pretty upset too at times. I don't walk around calling myself a "nice guy" because what's the point of that? I do think I'm someone who treats others well, and tries to contribute positively to the world. But I'm also aware enough to know that women don't care about that, so I'm not going to try to claim it as a "right to sex".

The reason women critique the "nice guy" is they generally don't actually care one way or another how nice you are, and they don't like their hypocrisy highlighted for claiming they do in the first place. Most of the guys I've know who have been incredibly successful with women were terrible people who just happened to be physically attractive.

If women are eager to f*** a good looking child rapist, that tells you everything you need to know about how important being "nice" is.

 

[blackg]

Most of the nice guys aren´t that nice. You can see it by the reactions. Being too nice = boring, without self respect. If you feel as something less, how can any girl see you as something more? Also girls likes to do some of the chase too. Behaving badly to them will interest mostly the trash girls. The wedding material girls like and want to be treated nice, but with that beloved word confidence. (This post is not meant directly to you david I know you are experienced guy. More like to some of the nice guys here on HairLossTalk.com.)

Panthers looking good. Can they make play-offs?

 

[blackg]

I cringed reading those. Damn. Just move the f*** on. Abundance mentality,live life. Obviously have to be attractive to some women to pull it off, but you're only making yourself look like a b**ch acting like those guys.

Yes, don't emasculate yourself by fawning over these women.
Especially saying sh*t like "you need to relax with chocolates and let me give you a back massage".

That sounded creepoid.

 

[Stanx22]

Yes, don't emasculate yourself by fawning over these women.
Especially saying sh*t like "you need to relax with chocolates and let me give you a back massage".

That was creepoid.

America full of nice guys.