socks said:
Well, we'll see how well that extra 'kick' makes you feel when you're bald and ugly and no girls want to touch you and your hard-on with a 10-foot pole. I guess though if jerking-off in momma's house on the computer is *your* idea of fun, go for it.
Just remember once the huge shed kicks in and you start looking bald, getting back on Finasteride wont bring you back to where you are today. Just want to make *SURE* you know that so when you come back here in 6 months crying and bitching you will have no one to blame but yourself.
Good luck man!
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Socks, that is the most horrific post i've ever read on this or any hair loss forum. It actually spurred me on to join this forum (i've been reading it for a long time...i know, i've taken a lot and given nothing!!) so i could post a reply. Well, here goes.
That post is precisely the sort of thinking that needs to be destroyed by everyone on here. Living life with those sort of thoughts means you're simply not living life. I know because i've been through all this sort of stuff for 5 years or more, and i am slowly starting to make some progress.
Having hair or not having hair is virtually not correlated with getting women or not. It's all to do with confidence or how many women you meet, which usually go together. Fair enough, your confidence may be ruined by losing your hair, but you CAN change your own levels of confidence by changing patterns of thinking. Getting hair will not make anyone suddenly get women, it is your own response (i.e the shift in your confidence levels) that allows you to go out, meet women and speak to them. Self help books and practice can be just as effective way to shift your confidence levels.
My hair looks the worst it's ever done currently, and my hair loss has been very noticeable for the last 3 years. In that time, i have moved from a NW2 to nearly nw3a (i think -- i'll check the scale) yet every year i've slept with more women, and better looking women than the year before, simply because i've worked on my own confidence, practised talking to women (i was lucky that my group of friends seems to have a good supply of attractive friends to meet at parties!) and done interesting things in various parts of the world. The best way to meet chicks (apart from being at uni) was working in a restaurant/bar, where there was an unlimited supply of women every day, and waiting tables for them gave me a great chance to have a relaxed conversation with them.
So please don't scare the hell out of people with this bu££$hit about less hair = less women. I've read a lot of your posts socks, and found a lot of them informative, and i was really disappointed to see you speak like this. The whole point of these forums is to help people, not knock their confidence.
Of course, trying things to regrow your hair is to be encouraged, but the side effects of fuzzy head, limp dick, no energy are far more likely to mean less women for people!!!
