I don't think that venting helps to solve my problem and never claimed anything to the contrary.
Thinking negatively will not decrease your performance. I've done lots of impressive things while thinking negatively. My past experiences and the fact that I am not a good candidate for a hair transplant tell me that there is no solution to my problem.
Have you tried cold approach? What do your family think of you being bald and unmarried? I'm not trying to be cruel but I want to know what my family might think of me.
Unmarried?
I have not accepted proposal from 3 girls in two years just because they were not right for me.
I have to take help of another girl for making a clean exit from rejecting them.
About cold approach,
I don't know much about it..
Assuming cold approach means becoming friend first and then proposing them,I don't like it.