A Study Regarding The Importance Of Personality

[Rudiger]

Sorry Exo I'm fighting with anything that moves right now because I'm f*****g falling apart I don't know what's going on.

I re-read it and understood the humour this time.

 

[Rudiger]

You sleep around a lot?

My ex gave me sh*t when we broke up. But then three months later she sent a nice message and it was all forgotten. A lot of people just get nasty during a break up, but when they have a moment to reflect they often realise they were being dicks and they apologise.

Yep that's all I do.

Thanks but this is kind of out of the blue abuse, from last night and continued this morning, picking every flaw of me apart. Luckily not baldness just insecurities and fear of commitment, a lot of it is true but it's not like I wouldn't admit this.

And above average guys have it easy! You get laid and an easy life! Sometimes I wish I was f*****g ugly and had a passive peaceful existence.

Ask any guy who marries a little bit above his weight, does anyone think he's living the dream? Any hot woman, or any woman at all, is a f*****g ticking time bomb.

Ok that's not true but how I feel right now.

 

[Exodus2011]

Sorry Exo I'm fighting with anything that moves right now because I'm f*****g falling apart I don't know what's going on.

I re-read it and understood the humour this time.

a rare moment of vulnerability from our local t h u g hehe. <3

yea i'm joking but not like in a putdown way

 

[Exodus2011]

Yep that's all I do.

Thanks but this is kind of out of the blue abuse, from last night and continued this morning, picking every flaw of me apart. Luckily not baldness just insecurities and fear of commitment, a lot of it is true but it's not like I wouldn't admit this.

And above average guys have it easy! You get laid and an easy life! Sometimes I wish I was f*****g ugly and had a passive peaceful existence.

Ask any guy who marries a little bit above his weight, does anyone think he's living the dream? Any hot woman, or any woman at all, is a f*****g ticking time bomb.

Ok that's not true but how I feel right now.

lol no you don't. weeks spent ruminating on whether your existence is even worth it, being disrespected and bullied, etc. hell no lol.

its far from peaceful either. people see you as an easy target and want to bully you to feel better. these aren't randoms but just certain people i've "tangled with" recently. it sucks c*** because you know their insults are actually meaningful and you cant say anything back really. whatever you say isn't sh*t compared to being ugly. ugly looks almost more than anything else makes you low status

 

[Rudiger]

lol no you don't. weeks spent ruminating on whether your existence is even worth it, being disrespected and bullied, etc. hell no lol.

I'm venting. I guess highs are worth the lows. I don't mean to belittle what you go through, but I would argue that some highs (I'm not talking about coke but a meaningful bond with a female) can be very crushing, and this may be a gigantic cope but at least some people don't experience this.

If you're already a paranoid person and spill your heart out to someone you thought you loved, and get every bit of your insecurities thrown back at you. I mean at least incel never experiences this.

 

[JeanLucBB]

I'm venting. I guess highs are worth the lows. I don't mean to belittle what you go through, but I would argue that some highs (I'm not talking about coke but a meaningful bond with a female) can be very crushing, and this may be a gigantic cope but at least some people don't experience this.

If you're already a paranoid person and spill your heart out to someone you thought you loved, and get every bit of your insecurities thrown back at you. I mean at least incel never experiences this.

Yeah its like when this 9/10 sent me nudes and when I complimented her body she got all awkward for some reason and stopped messaging me. Incels will luckily never have to experience this.

 

[Xander94]

Yep, the only way for me to overcome this very low extroversion problem was to beat myself up and force myself to interact with women.

That was after the SSRI's effect of my mood have worn off. That sh*t can really modulate your personality when you get that side-effect.

Many people I knew thought it was so cool that I was behaving like that (extroverts are so cool!) until I crashed and burn.

You're cured because you're gl

 

[Rudiger]

Yeah its like when this 9/10 sent me nudes and when I complimented her body she got all awkward for some reason and stopped messaging me. Incels will luckily never have to experience this.

No that's great and shut up.

Incels will never pour their heart out to someone and have all of that crushed. Don't be a f*****g moron.

When you identify with yourself what kind of person you are that's important, you gain some security with this. When you then express this fulfillment to someone else it's exhilarating, exciting, it's a high that you don't feel with a female when incel.

And when it gets thrown back in your face its a reminder that the world is a cruel place, capable of cruel things. And although this hurts i know I have to take a step back and realise it's far from the cruelest.

As a huge cope at least Incels get to experience themselves and never have objective criticism. Look at narcissistic always certain @Dante92 for example.

 

[Xander94]

Slayers.net

 

[Exodus2011]

I'm venting. I guess highs are worth the lows. I don't mean to belittle what you go through, but I would argue that some highs (I'm not talking about coke but a meaningful bond with a female) can be very crushing, and this may be a gigantic cope but at least some people don't experience this.

If you're already a paranoid person and spill your heart out to someone you thought you loved, and get every bit of your insecurities thrown back at you. I mean at least incel never experiences this.

not always . theres incels who have tried but havent gotten laid like david. i can see your point though to be honest. this stuff is exactly why i don't try. getting a gf but then losing her sounds really sucky. also the insecurity would still be there

just lol at getting a gf when you are low status

which is why like i've mentioned before i fantasize about having looks not having a gf

what gets you a gf >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> a gf

 

[Exodus2011]

No that's great and shut up.

Incels will never pour their heart out to someone and have all of that crushed. Don't be a f*****g moron.

When you identify with yourself what kind of person you are that's important, you gain some security with this. When you then express this fulfillment to someone else it's exhilarating, exciting, it's a high that you don't feel with a female when incel.

And when it gets thrown back in your face its a reminder that the world is a cruel place, capable of cruel things. And although this hurts i know I have to take a step back and realise it's far from the cruelest.

As a huge cope at least Incels get to experience themselves and never have objective criticism. Look at narcissistic always certain @Dante92 for example.

huh? incels are bullied out the *** lol. we get more objective criticism than anyone else. double whammy cuz we are bullied for the things that make us incel (looks, mental illness, etc) AND for being incel.

 

[Rudiger]

huh? incels are bullied out the *** lol. we get more objective criticism than anyone else. double whammy cuz we are bullied for the things that make us incel (looks, mental illness, etc) AND for being incel.

You don't pour your heart out to someone and have it eaten up and spat back in your face.

I'm not going to pretend the incel life is better, but at least you don't experience this type of pain.

In isolation you become somewhat self aware (deluded or not) of everything you are.

Exposed, you don't know what comes back at you. And it's a tough pill to swallow. Even if most of its not true, even if most of it is already things you're aware of, it's sh*t to hear it back.

That's all yo.

 

[Rudiger]

Oh wait I realised the major fault in my post, "Incels never have obejctive criticism". Lol sorry.

I meant you never have people who truly know you, spit at your character. You probably get plenty of people who don't know you and judge you, but at least you have the solace that they are ignorant.

That's what I mean. I hope I'm explaining the difference correctly.

 

[JeanLucBB]

No that's great and shut up.

Incels will never pour their heart out to someone and have all of that crushed. Don't be a f*****g moron.

When you identify with yourself what kind of person you are that's important, you gain some security with this. When you then express this fulfillment to someone else it's exhilarating, exciting, it's a high that you don't feel with a female when incel.

And when it gets thrown back in your face its a reminder that the world is a cruel place, capable of cruel things. And although this hurts i know I have to take a step back and realise it's far from the cruelest.

As a huge cope at least Incels get to experience themselves and never have objective criticism. Look at narcissistic always certain @Dante92 for example.

There are a million other girls willing to listen you pour your heart out. You won't give a f*** in a fortnight and neither will she. Truth is most people are generic as f*** and the little "connection" most people with a new gf and breaking up every six months think they have is instinctual and little more. Most relationships I see that end badly do so because of naivety, immaturity and lack of connection, all of which could have been figured out from the start with a little bit of clear thinking.

I thought I was a perma-incel until I was 20 and by luck met a girl who outright asked for sex and helped me see that girls can be interested in arbitrary sex just as much as men and that most aren't looking for perfection. Before that point I was f*****g miserable 24/7. I have been and would take getting rejected a million times more over being an incel.

You can pour your dumbass heart out to hundreds of other sl*ts who would love it in a hundred mile radius and bang them that night. Norwood-4 Incels don't have that luxury, check your privilege.

 

[Exodus2011]

Oh wait I realised the major fault in my post, "Incels never have obejctive criticism". Lol sorry.

I meant you never have people who truly know you, spit at your character. You probably get plenty of people who don't know you and judge you, but at least you have the solace that they are ignorant.

That's what I mean. I hope I'm explaining the difference correctly.

no. we still know people. we aren't always isolated. just because someone is incel doesn't mean they dont have friends. anyways its not like the only people that can know you are girlfriends.

friends will still judge you. if theyre being brutally honest they will point out your flaws and what makes you inferior. ofc you shouldn't be friends with them if theyre not doing it in a constructive way.

also this is all wrong like i said all incel means is hasnt had sex. so yes lots of incels have poured their hearts out to girls and been hurt

 

[Rudiger]

There are a million other girls willing to listen you pour your heart out. You won't give a f*** in a fortnight and neither will she. Truth is most people are generic as f*** and the little "connection" most people with a new gf and breaking up every six months think they have is instinctual and little more. Most relationships I see that end badly do so because of naivety, immaturity and lack of connection, all of which could have been figured out from the start with a little bit of clear thinking.

I thought I was a perma-incel until I was 20 and by luck met a girl who outright asked for sex and helped me see that girls can be interested in arbitrary sex just as much as men and that most aren't looking for perfection. Before that point I was f*****g miserable 24/7. I have been and would take getting rejected a million times more over being an incel.

You can pour your dumbass heart out to hundreds of other sl*ts who would love it in a hundred mile radius and bang them that night. Norwood-4 Incels don't have that luxury, check your privilege.

I like a lot of what you're saying, but you still aren't getting it.

When you put yourself out there and a mirror of your flaws gets reflected back, from someone you trust, that hurt internally when you know some of these faults are true. Possibly exaggerated, but true, and that's a pain that you don't feel without getting in these entanglements.

 

[hairblues]

except the models are even cuter. by definition they make the blood flow even more lol. im just seeing if he knows what he is talking about

he is probably referring to sexual dimorphism, aka feminine bodies (low waist to hip ratio, big ***, tits, etc).

I think he just means 'fuckable'..thats how i read it at least..like average attractive women.

 

[Exodus2011]

There are a million other girls willing to listen you pour your heart out. You won't give a f*** in a fortnight and neither will she. Truth is most people are generic as f*** and the little "connection" most people with a new gf and breaking up every six months think they have is instinctual and little more. Most relationships I see that end badly do so because of naivety, immaturity and lack of connection, all of which could have been figured out from the start with a little bit of clear thinking.

I thought I was a perma-incel until I was 20 and by luck met a girl who outright asked for sex and helped me see that girls can be interested in arbitrary sex just as much as men and that most aren't looking for perfection. Before that point I was f*****g miserable 24/7. I have been and would take getting rejected a million times more over being an incel.

You can pour your dumbass heart out to hundreds of other sl*ts who would love it in a hundred mile radius and bang them that night. Norwood-4 Incels don't have that luxury, check your privilege.

 

[Rudiger]

no. we still know people. we aren't always isolated. just because someone is incel doesn't mean they dont have friends. anyways its not like the only people that can know you are girlfriends.

friends will still judge you. if theyre being brutally honest they will point out your flaws and what makes you inferior. ofc you shouldn't be friends with them if theyre not doing it in a constructive way.

also this is all wrong like i said all incel means is hasnt had sex. so yes lots of incels have poured their hearts out to girls and been hurt

I guess that's even f*****g worse. Because you have isolated rare insults to dwell upon forever.

Hey look I'm just feeling sh*t and I don't want to claim to be feeling more sh*t than anyone generally. Maybe I went down that road.

You made a great point.

 

[Exodus2011]

I guess that's even f*****g worse. Because you have isolated rare insults to dwell upon forever.

Hey look I'm just feeling sh*t and I don't want to claim to be feeling more sh*t than anyone generally. Maybe I went down that road.

You made a great point.

yea i kinda get where you are coming from. knew some incels that got out of the rut and in the process of first getting laid they were really hurt by females. ofc since they often had lesser looks and such in the first place the insults hurt a lot more.