Almost 21 and pretty sure I have aggressive balding...

Ourkes

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Well. The example I showed you was my version of passive aggressive with MtF's on breast questions so I finally had to move on and refine my technique. They all knew I was brilliant, lol and I probably showing off some times.. Thank you for your kind words and I wasn't angry. I think that you are a real man to say what your are saying and you can always consider me a comrade. I have had issues in my past where I don't know--we all have bad days and I think I knew that you were a superior person since you gave good advice but it was similar to me with the MtFs: "Who told you to expect significant breast growth?" and I was coming off as all superior. This happens to lawyers and social workers all of the time where we get sick of the people we are trying to help.
Thank you - you are actually educating me - delivery of messages online is always difficult to judge (or maybe it’s because I’m 41 and out of touch with the online community!).

You mention ‘making yourself look bald’ - how does one test / apply that technique? I’m genuinely interested.
 

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Thank you - you are actually educating me - delivery of messages online is always difficult to judge (or maybe it’s because I’m 41 and out of touch with the online community!).

You mention ‘making yourself look bald’ - how does one test / apply that technique? I’m genuinely interested.
Well. For those who have minimal loss in front which I did for a long time, you cover the bald spot by swirling your hair back and it works pretty well unless there is wind. So in the crown area, you just take a comb and move it all around in the opposite sense to see if you can find thin spots and then you sort of part them apart. Until recently, I could always find thin spots. Why is this useful? Well, we all like to think that our hair is thicker on top perhaps than it really is and it prevents you from falling into the old man trap where they keep swirling the hair back but there's nothing to swirl and It looks just Goddess-awful. Let me find a pic.

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The first one is how my father in law wears his hair. But most of us have been there in terms of the dread. It's always better to be bald than to be like these two because people will make fun of you behind your back, if you're lucky and hopefully not to your face.

Now the second guy looks like a good transplant candidate but um, survey says no to that hair style. Now especially the first guy but really both take us to the next point which is wind. The wind is not these guys' friend and I have been there, the wind just destroys your hair the instant you go outside and then the guy has all of his hair hanging down on one side.
 

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The first one is how my father in law wears his hair. But most of us have been there in terms of the dread. It's always better to be bald than to be like these two because people will make fun of you behind your back, if you're lucky and hopefully not to your face.

Now the second guy looks like a good transplant candidate but um, survey says no to that hair style. Now especially the first guy but really both take us to the next point which is wind. The wind is not these guys' friend and I have been there, the wind just destroys your hair the instant you go outside and then the guy has all of his hair hanging down on one side.
Thank you, all very informative.
 

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I think I found one of the main culprits. Switched shampoos 2 weeks ago to non sulphate after using sls shampoos for years. Used a sls last night and I gained a bunch of volume but my hair still seems very thin. Talking to a derm either way Wednesday so I’ll find out. Ty for all the feedback, here’s how my hair looks after washing it. Yes I’m getting a haircut soon lol
 

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JaneyElizabeth

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I think I found one of the main culprits. Switched shampoos 2 weeks ago to non sulphate after using sls shampoos for years. Used a sls last night and I gained a bunch of volume but my hair still seems very thin. Talking to a derm either way Wednesday so I’ll find out. Ty for all the feedback, here’s how my hair looks after washing it. Yes I’m getting a haircut soon lol
That's a pretty cute mop you got going there but can you keep it?
 

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Hello, this started when I was about 16-17 but I never paid much attention to it. My forehead has always been ginormous so that’s normal at least lol. My hair is very fine and gets greasy really easily, I’m noticing 5-10 hairs every shower which is alright I read but my hairline and sides is definitely not normal. Do I have aggressive balding or just really oily fine hair. Thanks.
Edit: I have to shower every single day or it looks like you can cook bacon from the grease
I can’t see anything, these pictures must of been taken by your German Shepard with palsy
 

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Anything I can do to help....just let me know....
Here's an example of Janey being a jerk:

Q: I have been on HRT for 36 months now and it's not working.

Janey: What do you mean it's not working?

Q: Well, I mean I still am only an A cup.

Janey: Who told you to expect more than an A cup?

Q: Um, well.

Janey: Average size for MtF's is double A. Yes your meds are working. I don't know who tells all of you to expect substantial breast growth....

Not to mention having D cups made me arrogant and I knew that I was attractive so I posted nude pics. I have largely stopped going to the fora because I got in trouble less for rudeness and more so for saying things that were true that the cohort didn't want to hear like "you know that it is almost impossible to pass if you are over six feet" which half of them are, lol. So anyway, here people are less annoying and I enjoy myself much more especially the non-PC aspect. Goddess bless.

And MtF's argue nothing at all like cis-females while the FtM's who want to be all macho will complain if you mention that minoxidil beards look like crap or really anything. The FtM's will try to have you banned for saying anything they don't like. Hmm. XY's don't do that.
Buffalo bill is that you!?
 

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I think somebody with palsy has done your sex change operation, you look like if mark strong was wearing his mum’s muff on his head
I haven't had sex change surgery and I have a very full head of natural hair which I post frequently but I don't engage in discourse with people who make fun of others related to gender or disability or who lack in IQ all but entirely. You are now ignored.
 

Chill dude

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I haven't had sex change surgery and I have a very full head of natural hair which I post frequently but I don't engage in discourse with people who make fun of others related to gender or disability or who lack in IQ all but entirely. You are now ignored.
Regardless of my brush my teeth with rocks iq, I still make an adequate living as an investment banker, where I could send you to a competent sex change surgeon. Instead of you having to go to your local butchers down the street.
 

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BS cope

every woman wants thick hair on their man to grip and play with
So when a woman is out there trying to find her soulmate, the number one thing that pops up in her mind is "Can i play with his hair?", or "he doesnt have hair that i can play with, even tho he seems great, but no thanks"?

edit: you can also try to explain to me why I got like ten times more matches on Tinder when I started posting pictures of me with a buzz cut? My hair isnt in that bad of a spot, I can have any hairstyle and only a few people would notice Im receding a little.

I've said it 100 times already but it's worth saying again: Guys on this forum put so much value on to hair it's frightening and delusional.
A bald guy with confidence would easily get more chicks then a low confidenced guy with Malik Zayn hairline. I know for people in this forum it's impossible to grasp, its like talking about quantum physics, but thats how it is.
 
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So when a woman is out there trying to find her soulmate, the number one thing that pops up in her mind is "Can i play with his hair?", or "he doesnt have hair that i can play with, even tho he seems great, but no thanks"?

edit: you can also try to explain to me why I got like ten times more matches on Tinder when I started posting pictures of me with a buzz cut? My hair isnt in that bad of a spot, I can have any hairstyle and only a few people would notice Im receding a little.

I've said it 100 times already but it's worth saying again: Guys on this forum put so much value on to hair it's frightening and delusional.
A bald guy with confidence would easily get more chicks then a low confidenced guy with Malik Zayn hairline. I know for people in this forum it's impossible to grasp, its like talking about quantum physics, but thats how it is.
lol

I would argue that if it doesn't look receded it doesn't really count in the way you are arguing.

Its obviously perfectly possible to find a soul mate or whatever - though I would look in other places than tinder if that was your goal ;)
Mind you, you will be playing on hard mode instead of easy mode if you don't have luscious locks.

If you want to have the broadest appeal to the most people one of the first thing any person notices is your hair. Having a large forehead being attractive is just cope. Maybe if you have a monkey hairline you look a little silly, but better to have good looking hair in every single situation.


Also i reject the notion that people just straight up evaluate who their soul mate is - first you get attracted via body demeanor and status- then once the relationship becomes more personal looks become less important.
 

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lol

I would argue that if it doesn't look receded it doesn't really count in the way you are arguing.

Its obviously perfectly possible to find a soul mate or whatever - though I would look in other places than tinder if that was your goal ;)
Mind you, you will be playing on hard mode instead of easy mode if you don't have luscious locks.

If you want to have the broadest appeal to the most people one of the first thing any person notices is your hair. Having a large forehead being attractive is just cope. Maybe if you have a monkey hairline you look a little silly, but better to have good looking hair in every single situation.


Also i reject the notion that people just straight up evaluate who their soul mate is - first you get attracted via body demeanor and status- then once the relationship becomes more personal looks become less important.
Hair is attractive, no question about it. But as I got 25-30 years old I noticed that people (girls) dont give two shits about ur hair, thats at least my experience. YES you will always have girls who dont like bald men, you will have girls that thinks bald/buzzed men are the hottest ones on the planets etc.

If hair is that important for you of course you should do whatever you can to keep it. If it makes you feel good or comfortable , sure, do whatever u can to save your hair. Im just saying that IF it wont work and you go bald, it's FAR from a death sentence and people will notice it over time.
 

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Hair is attractive, no question about it. But as I got 25-30 years old I noticed that people (girls) dont give two shits about ur hair, thats at least my experience. YES you will always have girls who dont like bald men, you will have girls that thinks bald/buzzed men are the hottest ones on the planets etc.

If hair is that important for you of course you should do whatever you can to keep it. If it makes you feel good or comfortable , sure, do whatever u can to save your hair. Im just saying that IF it wont work and you go bald, it's FAR from a death sentence and people will notice it over time.


Women are more narcissistic than ever, especially the upcoming generation.


Maybe it didn't matter 30 years ago but since the creation of dating apps and technology it's made men a live stock to go through. Allows women to pick who they go on a date with etc.


Take away dating apps, phones and any technology and I'll agree with you that balding won't be as bad.
 
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