am i a loser, i'm about to graduate from medschool and i am

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s.a.f

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HairPieceMan said:
i don't work a job (or sometime i do basic work part time job), i just come from a rich family background (rich parents).

still sucks to be 5 4 though, its going to cost a lot of pain (and money of £7K) to get to 5 6 with LL.

This answers sooooo many questions.
 

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how does it lol, are people with more money more paranoid about hairloss?

my c*** size is still avg, by ccs standard, i need a penis enlargement.

my plan is once i get a gf of some kind to go away with her and get LL, i don't want to go there alone for 6 months.
 

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how does it lol, are people with more money more paranoid about hairloss?

my c*** size is still avg, by ccs standard, i need a penis enlargement.

my plan is once i get a gf of some kind to go away with her and get LL, i don't want to go there alone for 6 months.

Unbelivable! I dont want to sound harsh but you need to hear this:

You're what? 27? and you dont work? :shock: You mooch off your rich parents and sit at home with nothing to do except worry that the standard of your appearance does'nt match up to your otherwise cushy existence. :shakehead:

With so much time on your hands you obbsess about your flaws and blame them for the lack of one thing that your parents cant buy for you - a G/F.

The way you live speaks volumes about your character as a person and why you are failing with the women.

Did you ever watch the Hugh Grant movie 'About a boy'? Thats you -but a less good looking version.

(Watch the first minute):

[youtube:3on3wy7k]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKdguApITZc[/youtube:3on3wy7k]

No wonder you have no game you probably have never spoken to any females outside your own family.

You live like a 16 yr old slacker who's just left school, or a pampered jewish princess living in Beverly Hills with her Lawyer daddy funding her life of leisure.
Not a mature independant man making his own way in life which is what women are attracted to.

Seriously do you think that any girl is going to give up her life in the UK to move to a foriegn country and be a maid/surrogate mum to you for 6 months whilst you get your insecurity surgery?

Whats she going to do sign the delivery for your wig while you're bed bound? I think your best bet is a Thai mail order bride.

That 4 bedroom house with 2 receptions you talked about, thats your parents house is'nt it?
 

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no im 25, but i do work part time sometimes, or go on the dole, its a similar thing pay wise.

either case no its my parents place, how could i live here on my own.

erm i have a room made of glass as well, called a conservatory.

i plan to maybe throw a party at my place, when girls see my money hopefully they will put out, then grab one of them and head to india, actually the LL forum people have brought girls with them to do LL, its not uncommon to go with someone and its not funny for you to assume a girl wont do that, yes i really do believe a girl will do that with me because that is what most guys do anyway.

once i have obtained a female primate, I will focus on my night game and chatting up skils, in case she leaves me, but i dont think she will because of my money.

also i dont like the ide that wearing hair is laughable or something, plenty of men wear hair and there gf knows and she doesnt really care, i have also stated that although i have some money im not willing to fork out £20K on transplants and go on finasteride and use concealers to get hair back, imo its a waste of money and wigs are only £500 a year.

also this whole my appearance doenst match my money is rubbish, fact is a 5 5 and bald in early 20s, puts me on a 2/3 level, you are bald in mid 20s but you re 5 9, putting you on a 4/5 level, the wigs and lifts put me back on avg looking level.

so with the enhancements i look sav say 5/4 AVERAGE.

without them, the wigs and no lift and no dental veneers i am 3/2 level, more a 2.

so i go from 2 to a 5, hardly matching with my cushy lifestyle, you are likely a 6 with you transplant and height and natural good teeth, you take your height for granted and maybe annoyed at my lifestyle, imo you take your height for granted and I would rather have height, lets not take into account penis size.

+ i guess you must have a lot of money to spend on the hair transplants no?
 

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You dont have money, its you're parents money. You dont appear to have anything to offer lifestyle wise. Most guys your age at least have their own place and are living life as a independant adult.

You're going to throw a party at their house like a teenager? Are you going to invite the local neighbourhood 16 yr olds who cant get booze and have their own place to hang out.
Is your dad going to come down in his dressing gown at 11:30 and ask them all to leave?

Those LL guys who get a woman to go with them I'm, betting that the case is always that its been a (very) longterm partner.
And those guys probably have every other aspect of their life sorted not a jobless wig wearer who lives with his parents.
Theres no way on earth that you'll find a girl who will decide to just put her whole life on hold for a guy she's just met.

At your age I had been working my *** off for 8 yrs and had a saved up a huge deposit for a house. I'm not annoyed at your lifestyle I pity it. In a girls eyes its pretty pathetic. And thats what will hold you back, they'd prefer to be with a independant adult who was short and bald rather than a guy who still lived like a kid.
 

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actually its just me and my mum that lives here.

quit with the wig, a wig wearer, you are putting me down on the wig, its not fare, implying my life isnt "sorted" becuase im wearing a wig, i will always wear wigs, just as u will always grow out your stitched in hair.

ill get a job if i need one financially, not just so i can say i have a job, if i have money i dont need a job, like how getting a transplant is not required if you have no hair loss, of doing leg rehabilitation surgery if your disabled in a wheelchair, there are always people worse off than you

tbh i dont think girls care whether your money is from a family background or your own money, but ill use what i can and make no excuses ofr myself, if a girl doesnt like me for whatever reason then fair enough.

and yeah the LL will be for someone that i know for a long time.
 

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s.a.f said:
You dont have money, its you're parents money. You dont appear to have anything to offer lifestyle wise. Most guys your age at least have their own place and are living life as a independant adult.

actually I would offer her to stay here with me and not work because it takes our time away from each other.

i dont think it matters its my parents place since its a 4 bedroom place, its hardly noticable, it's not like living in a small flat with parents, its different when its an oversized home for just me and my mum.
 

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Firstly I'm not taking the piss about the wig its your choice but as with my hair transplant's it is an issue that could effect this 'relationship' you seem to be aiming for. And it certainly must pshychologicaly effect someone with your appearance issues.

The getting a job thing is an issue, its the biggest issue there is right now but you dont know women enough to realise this.

Practicly everyman in any first world country could still live with their parents. In that aspect anyone of us could claim as you do to have money. My parents have a £300k house does that make me rich?
But as far as women are concerned for a man in his mid 20's and upwards its a complete turn off.
How long are you going to live like a kid for until your 40's, 50's? And then you'll decide to start out like a a 20 yr old?
What are you going to do start out as an 50 yr old office boy and rent a room with some 22 yr olds? Whilst all the guys you went to school with have paid off their mortgages and sent their kids off to college?

There are guys your age who own/manage businesses employing 100's of people guys who have their own families.

When a woman sees you living with your mum all she sees is an insecure childish guy (a mummies boy) who cant stand on his own 2 feet, you think thats a turn on?

Women want a man who is capable of looking after/providing for them, someone who is going to be man enough to be a good father to any potential children not someone who still needs his mum to support him.

Its so ironic that you say if a woman cant accept you for who you are, re: the no job and living with mum but then in the same breath you talk about changing yourself physically because no woman will accept a guy who's short and bald. :doh:

Wether its a 4bed house or not (and most 4bed houses in the UK are about a third the size of the average 4bed US house). You think a womans going to want to live under the same roof as your mother you think she's going to feel comfortable fukking with your mum in the next room?
And you think that the prospect of being a bed nurse to you in some dump in India for 6months away from her freinds and family is going to be an attractive prospect? Even the grossest 300lb b1tch would'nt want a piece of that.
 

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well i see lots of people doing that as I know, it is a very large home, im guessing my parents had sex when i was in the house :dunno:

and yeah lots of women do do LL with there bf.

tbh the LL business wont happen until im 30, so i'd like to leave that one at bay.

if you live in a £300k home saf why not stay there, tbh im willing to bet you don't because it makes little sense to move out on your own and get some new place when you have inheritance money etc.

in my 30s 40s 50s etc, i plan to stay in this house or something, just me and some gf and i guess my mum.

so it will be

1.me
2. gf
3. mum

in 4 bedroom (2 double, 1 master, 1 single)/2 living room, loft, 2 bathroom, kitchen, conservatory, double garage, double drive way, triple back garden and single front garden.

im sure that's enough room, if its an issue we can later rent a double bed flat, but overall i dont see it being a short time issue with a new girl for the first 6 months which is more what im getting at.

so with that being said we can drop the LL and the house living issue, im happy to stay here primarily, and maybe rent a place of OUR own if i have a women, but dont need one now before i have a woman
 

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yes i am from the UK.

LL = leg lenthening, a new cosmetic procedure where they stretch your legs to make you taller, by 2 inches.

id like to get it done when im 30 becuase i dont like being 5 4.5 (164cms)

however that's 5 years away. also don't judge me on this as saf is 5 9, UCMan 6 2 (he sympasied with me on this issue once with me)

literally no one is as short as me on this board so don't judge me on this aspect of my life.

i also wear shoes that make me 3 inches taller, however they can't be worn inside, inside i wear shoes that make me 1 inch taller.

if i was 5 8 i wouldnt even bother with this surgery.
 

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It seems too me you really don't like yourself...I can relate too this.
 

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hpm my uncle on mother's side is 5'3. He also has alcohol problem, has been single all his life and i wonder if it has something to do with it. He's bald too now but didn't loose his hair prematurely. I guess im lucky im at least 5 8 i coud've inherited extreame shortness from that side of family.
 

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tell him to head to tallmensshoes.com and pickup the boots, then get a hairpiece, time to get his life in order!

now hes 5 6 NW1
 

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well when was he bald?

40s?

did he not seek shoe lifts in his 20s?

did he never meet any women?

that is a shame
 

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seb said:
It seems too me you really don't like yourself...I can relate too this.


that is unfair, all i want is to have not lost my hair in my youth and be 2 or 3 inches taller.

that doesnt mean i "hate" myself.

there is no cure for hairloss, in fact if they could cure PRE-MATURE male pattern baldness so that i lose my hair in 40s (vs early 20s) then id be saved.
 

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I am not being unfair,I am telling the truth.I want hair as well,so does every man on this board.
I believe you would rather be somebody else,certainly look like somebody else.
 

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wtf i dont want to look like someone else

i want to look like myself at 18 in the hair department, when your 25 you should have the same hair you had at 18, not be freakin BALD ffs.

this totalyl isn't normal

im offended by your post.
 

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It is not just about the hair is it...You want too be taller,but you can't,thus you are going against the grain of what you are-a short man.Wanting too be taller is wanting too be someone else.
I wish I wasn't ginger and had freckles,but I have,thus this is what I am.
You are wasting your youth just as I did.You don't want too end up like me,a bitter and twisted old man with so many regrets.
 
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