Oknow said:
And yes sure, its harder for an uglier guy to get with a good looking girl and to be honest it is not about "confidence" alone, it is about playing the numbers game. If you are ugly as sin, I bet if you approached say 200 hot girls on a night out, and had confidence, at least one would want to sleep with you! I am no brad pitt but I have had attractive girls show me attention, and its purely down to the odds. Everyone has different preferences.
I hate to be such a pessimist, but "200 hot girls" is way too optimistic, IMHO.
I'd say more like 20,000. In other words, yeah it will probably
eventually happen but there comes a time when a guy needs to learn his limitations, accept them, and move on.
I'll be blunt about this. A guy who is very ugly (I'm in this category, BTW) is NEVER going to score with a hot chick for all practical purposes (unless she is a prostitute).
I'm sorry, I've been down this road, and it just ain't gonna happen. BTW, I have gone out and approached literally
thousands of hot women, and got rejected by 100% of them.
The guy would be MUCH better off lowering his standards to improve his odds. This gets back to what another previous poster has already said, "Good looking guys date good looking girls, ugly guys date ugly girls." That, of course, is a generalization and there are exceptions. But for the most part that general rule of thumb holds true.
When it comes down to it, a hot girl can have almost ANY guy they want, and they are approached many times per day. If they aren't "physically" attracted to a man (because the dude is just plain ugly) she will eventually lose interest and go with a more suitable (more handsome) guy.
Charm and wit, and character, confidence, etc...only goes so far, and hot women will eventually get bored with that, and seek other men that they are more sexually turned on by (physically) because they
can get them.
Less attractive women will have to continue to settle for a guy not as handsome, because they
cannot get another man very easily.