Another date, another kiss, with a hot blonde

[Oknow]

I understand where @Oknow is coming from. While his story and circumstances are different than mine, both him and I were barely getting sh*t for years then bloomed late in life. Sometimes I wake up in the morning and think about what I have achieved in the last few months in disbelief, and then more than anything don't get how it took so long. But then I remember that things like aggressive balding in your formal years can send you through a downward spiral and limit your opportunities.

The thread title is funny as hell though I must say

Another date, another kiss, with a hot blonde​

Glad you can relate

 

[Oknow]

Who cares he had no hair loss and was decent height.

I do have hairloss

 

[Isaac Newton]

I do have hairloss

Nw2 is not hair loss lol

 

[Oknow]

I understand where @Oknow is coming from. While his story and circumstances are different than mine, both him and I were barely getting sh*t for years then bloomed late in life. Sometimes I wake up in the morning and think about what I have achieved in the last few months in disbelief, and then more than anything don't get how it took so long. But then I remember that things like aggressive balding in your formal years can send you through a downward spiral and limit your opportunities.

The thread title is funny as hell though I must say

Another date, another kiss, with a hot blonde​

Goes to show how shallow women are if it took a hair transplant for things to pick up

looks > personality

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Goes to show how shallow women are if it took a hair transplant for things to pick up

looks > personality

Not only women.. when I went to school there were always some a**h** guys who were treating me like sh*t too.
The actual good looking confident guys who had their sh*t together were always nice to me.

But the corny guys who didn't have much going on for them often used me as a punching bag (not literally but they often teased me and told "jokes" on my expense cuz I guess they just subconsciously saw me as irrelevant and not a threat).

When I grew a beard (even without the hair) it definitely got better though, felt like guys started to treat me with more respect.

Looks open the door, but that doesn't mean personality is ruled out. If you want to attract quality girls you gotta have the whole package. You gotta be a fun positive guy. Gotta really listen to your girl (make sure she sees you are attentive). Let go of your ego in the name of love - be assertive but know when to compromise and let her lead the way. You can't be an abusive/cheating piece of sh*t or you'll be stuck with trashy hoes and a life full of drama.

 

[Oknow]

Not only women.. when I went to school there were always some a**h** guys who were treating me like sh*t too.
The actual good looking confident guys who had their sh*t together were always nice to me.

But the corny guys who didn't have much going on for them often used me as a punching bag (not literally but they often teased me and told "jokes" on my expense cuz I guess they just subconsciously saw me as irrelevant and not a threat).

When I grew a beard (even without the hair) it definitely got better though, felt like guys started to treat me with more respect.

Looks open the door, but that doesn't mean personality is ruled out. If you want to attract quality girls you gotta have the whole package. You gotta be a fun positive guy. Gotta really listen to your girl (make sure she sees you are attentive). Let go of your ego in the name of love - be assertive but know when to compromise and let her lead the way. You can't be an abusive/cheating piece of sh*t or you'll be stuck with trashy hoes and a life full of drama.

can totally relate here. Your story is similar to mine, when I was growing up, got bullied for being a ‘geek’. Had absolutely no sense of style.

People can be cruel - they tend to pick on people’s flaws to make themselves feel better

Good looking guys tend to be more chilled because they are comfortable within their own skin, and happier from all of the positive validation.

 

[vondoom]

can totally relate here. Your story is similar to mine, when I was growing up, got bullied for being a ‘geek’. Had absolutely no sense of style.

People can be cruel - they tend to pick on people’s flaws to make themselves feel better

Good looking guys tend to be more chilled because they are comfortable within their own skin, and happier from all of the positive validation.

people who got it together dont care about nonsense...

in your next life, learn an instrument, or anything creative and the chicks will flock to you^^

 

[Butterbean Head]

no

From my extensive experience of conversing/working etc with Asians(and Blacks), they ALL drone on about the colour of they're skin.
Personally, I find the aforementioned to be very racist. You certainty have a major problem regarding the cast system.

people who got it together dont care about nonsense...

in your next life, learn an instrument, or anything creative and the chicks will flock to you^^

I want to come back as Joey Essex's left tea-bag......

 

[Oknow]

From my extensive experience of conversing/working etc with Asians(and Blacks), they ALL drone on about the colour of they're skin.
Personally, I find the aforementioned to be very racist. You certainty have a major problem regarding the cast system.

I want to come back as Joey Essex's left tea-bag......

I’m actually proud of my heritage , what I don’t like is how other ethnicities get preferable treatment (white folks)

I have friends who are white, absolutely no trouble dating women from every background, white, black, Middle Eastern whereas I often find that I have to jump through 100 hoops

I’ve had women ghost me as soon as finding out I’m Indian after initially thinking I’m not

this sh*t does not happen to my white friends

 

[DoctorHouse]

I’m actually proud of my heritage , what I don’t like is how other ethnicities get preferable treatment (white folks)

If you are so proud then stick to it. You do realize white privelage is just a white lie.

 

[Oknow]

If you are so proud then stick to it. You do realize white privelage is just a white lie.

seen it with my own eyes

a few of my friends for example play on the fact they are white Italian, read the messages they have with women where they are like ‘ohhh you are Italian, I love Italians’

Don’t get that sh*t with british Indians, if anything it would be ‘you are not really British are you?’ because I’m brown

I target open minded women, they exist, but it’s a ball ache finding them

 

[Oknow]

seen it with my own eyes

a few of my friends for example play on the fact they are white Italian, read the messages they have with women where they are like ‘ohhh you are Italian, I love Italians’

Don’t get that sh*t with british Indians, if anything it would be ‘you are not really British are you?’ because I’m brown

I target open minded women, they exist, but it’s a ball ache

to add not all of the women giving my white friends preferable treatment are white themselves , many are other backgrounds too - Arabs , Indians , Chinese you name it

 

[DoctorHouse]

seen it with my own eyes

a few of my friends for example play on the fact they are white Italian, read the messages they have with women where they are like ‘ohhh you are Italian, I love Italians’

Don’t get that sh*t with british Indians, if anything it would be ‘you are not really British are you?’ because I’m brown

I target open minded women, they exist, but it’s a ball ache finding them

And when you finally find them, was it worth the trouble when you find out it does not last long or if it does you feel like a prisoner? I think you need to look inward at the anger you are projecting. It's just best to look at dating as a means to socialize and learn. And if somehow you hit it off then consider that a bonus. Don't look at you rejections based on your skin color or it will just keep that anger brewing inside you. You still have alot of self reflecting you need to do. I can feel your frustration as you and I are very much alike except I am just whiter than you. LOL

 

[Butterbean Head]

I’m actually proud of my heritage , what I don’t like is how other ethnicities get preferable treatment (white folks)

I have friends who are white, absolutely no trouble dating women from every background, white, black, Middle Eastern whereas I often find that I have to jump through 100 hoops

I’ve had women ghost me as soon as finding out I’m Indian after initially thinking I’m not

this sh*t does not happen to my white friends

But the UK is a white country. Why should I have to constantly feel a second class citizen in my own land(especially being fair-skinned) just to appease a different clan that are only here because of what the terrible white man has done(imperialism).

I don't feel Asians and Blacks will ever overcome they're (supposedly) historical injustices. I've conversed, worked and socialised with many of the aforementioned and you really can't stop defining yourselves simply by the colour of your skin.

The Irish(apart from the Gypsies) don't drone on about how the British treated them(and still do).

Lest I make it about myself, do you realise how much "racism" I get from all sides for being ginger? What's the difference. I'm Swedish and Irish?

 

[Butterbean Head]

seen it with my own eyes

a few of my friends for example play on the fact they are white Italian, read the messages they have with women where they are like ‘ohhh you are Italian, I love Italians’

Don’t get that sh*t with british Indians, if anything it would be ‘you are not really British are you?’ because I’m brown

I target open minded women, they exist, but it’s a ball ache finding them

But one can't be really British if you are brown/black. You have no cultural and historical affinity with the UK other than being born here.

I say the same about a white person being born in Africa.

The majority of British born Asians and Blacks deep down don't label themselves as "British".......yet want this land as they're own because again what the horrible white man did.

Perhaps we were just a stronger clan. My people beat the Anglos in the battle of Maldon. You don't see the British going on about the Vikings invading or the Normans.

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

to add not all of the women giving my white friends preferable treatment are white themselves , many are other backgrounds too - Arabs , Indians , Chinese you name it

It is what it is — you can't fault people for having preferences. Equating that to not being "open-minded" is a little daft no

 

[vondoom]

prefering nationality over another nationality is also a thing... had that quite often (never mattered to me, though)...

 

[Oknow]

And when you finally find them, was it worth the trouble when you find out it does not last long or if it does you feel like a prisoner? I think you need to look inward at the anger you are projecting. It's just best to look at dating as a means to socialize and learn. And if somehow you hit it off then consider that a bonus. Don't look at you rejections based on your skin color or it will just keep that anger brewing inside you. You still have alot of self reflecting you need to do. I can feel your frustration as you and I are very much alike except I am just whiter than you. LOL

That’s how I am seeing it now

Just go out on dates and try to have fun, not expecting much afterwards

Ironically, success rate is higher - women think I’m ‘cool’, probably because I’m relaxed and not outcome oriented

 

[Oknow]

But one can't be really British if you are brown/black. You have no cultural and historical affinity with the UK other than being born here.

I say the same about a white person being born in Africa.

The majority of British born Asians and Blacks deep down don't label themselves as "British".......yet want this land as they're own because again what the horrible white man did.

Perhaps we were just a stronger clan. My people beat the Anglos in the battle of Maldon. You don't see the British going on about the Vikings invading or the Normans.

haha
The majority of indigenous white people here are not even natives, as you say the Norman conquests, vikings

Culturally I am more British than Indian, have no idea about Indian politics and would find it hard to adjust to their day to day life. Grew up, went to school here etc

anyway the above isn’t the point, my friends who are European migrants would get treated a lot more respect and get more opportunities simply because they are white from women of all nationalities.

your comment about minorities not labelling themselves as British is silly - the English football team for example is FULL OF black people

 

[Oknow]

@Butterbean Head you should tell them they are not British

the point you made illustrates how difficult it is for minorities , in terms of being socially accepted and an equal

no surprise there was that whole issue during the euros with Saka, Sterling, Sancho

British when you win, but when you fail not a Brit