Anyone Else Feel Guilty For Wanting To Have Kids In Future?

[cantThinkOfAnyName]

Im sure a lot of you guys here want to have kids or already have young kids. My question is, for those of you with early nw6-nw7 genetics do you ever feel guilty knowing that you could possibly f*** up your sons life before he is even born?

Like for me in my family almost every male is a nw6-nw7 before 25 including myself most likely and im pretty sure that if I have a son he would follow the same path and um wondering how some fathers are able to do it without feeling guilty.

Obviously there are more important things in life and things could always be much worse but im just curious on what you guys think of this.

Would you have chosen this life if you were given a choice knowing that you will go bald? Im balding too, but I feel like there are so many ways to enjoy life. I'm just finding it difficult to tell my parents that I wont be marrying for ever .

 

[recedingornot87]

Would you have chosen this life if you were given a choice knowing that you will go bald? Im balding too, but I feel like there are so many ways to enjoy life. I'm just finding it difficult to tell my parents that I wont be marrying for ever .

With my family history I alwaya knew I would bald young, its just when it actually happens its still a shock. To answer your question no I wouldnt choose this life.

 

[K505]

Guilty if:
1- male pattern baldness was not cured/treatable or a work around the problem, sci-fi sh*t like replace scalp skin with something that can grow hair with no problem or artificial hair (which would be better and stronger and never gray etc).
2- had a b**ch "wife", when i should had settled down with a strong and intelligent Lady but i had somehow fucked up, a bad mother is the least i want for my children.
3- no future plans for the kids, not a good life that i could give, or raise them properly with all my knowledge and skill, i don't want to just enjoy time with my kids and Lady, family is important, loyalty and trust, where we will go in the future and build something great together, would be cool.
4- and no matter how i think about it, the small guilt will be there, giving my children life, because life doesn't last forever... and the world will break them, they will suffer, as i have, but i hope the positivity will negate all the sh*t this world has, i hope i can be one of the positive forces, and not the opposite.
5- Haven't come this far, no Lady to call my own so i cant progress further into this

 

[IsThereHope]

There's no baldness in my family, yet here i am, 21 years old and I have less hair than my father and both grandfathers... Severe depression and suicidal thoughts, won't even be able to have kids in the future for being so fuckin disfigured, probably going to die alone as well, so f*** me for being born with bad luck.

 

[recedingornot87]

There's no baldness in my family, yet here i am, 21 years old and I have less hair than my father and both grandfathers... Severe depression and suicidal thoughts, won't even be able to have kids in the future for being so fuckin disfigured, probably going to die alone as well, so f*** me for being born with bad luck.

How the f*** is that even possible? Your great grandparents must have had some baldness then right?

 

[IsThereHope]

How the f*** is that even possible? Your great grandparents must have had some baldness then right?

paternal grandfather is nw2/2.5 (mature hairline);his father and all the family have good hair
maternal grandfather is a fuckin nw1
Father has small thining at the temples that you can only see when hair is wet

I personally like to believe they found me amidst trash and made the mistake of not letting me die.

 

[recedingornot87]

paternal grandfather is nw2/2.5 (mature hairline);his father and all the family have good hair
maternal grandfather is a fuckin nw1
Father has small thining at the temples that you can only see when hair is wet

I personally like to believe they found me amidst trash and made the mistake of not letting me die.

That sucks bro. Atleast for me I can rest a bit easier knowing that this was supposed to happen. My dad and every other male in the family is nw6-7 by age 25 so I was preparing for this since I was a little kid. But even knowing ahead of time that this will happen didnt make it easier to deal with. Atleast since you have a lot of family members with hair there is a good chance that you would respond better to treatment and have less agressive hairloss.