s.a.f
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Nene said:Boondock said:Not a solid certain solution, but let's assume there's a 10% chance of reincarnation happening.
I've basically been genetically screwed by this life, and there isn't that much that can be done about it. Being skinny and short and somewhat feminine-faced isn't too bad if you have hair, but take that away and *boom*...you're ET.
I'm thinking that this could be basically the only answer for me. This life is pretty much not going to work out and statistically I'm very likely to get a better roll of the dice next time round...if there is a next time round.
Not really suicidal but just thinking of giving up on this life because the fight to actually succeed with all this crap going on is slowly destroying me. It's like an amputee trying to play world cup soccer against Brazil. No matter what adjustments you try to make, these people are just genetically far superior to you.
Boondock, a couple of things. First of all, I saw your pics and I don't think you have a feminine face and I also don't think your hair loss is THAT severe. But you don't seem to be doing that much to fight it. I'm not too familiar with your story but you say you couldn't tolerate finasteride. Are you sure that you can't tolerate finasteride? Not even a low dose?
In any event, you still have a pretty good deal of hair and should be able to fool people into thinking you have a full head of hair with some concealers.
Firstly I know about your baldness suitability situation, I'm a naturaly slim 5'9 guy with as much as a babyface that a 35 yr old can have. So I went from being in my late teens and not being able to buy cigarrettes to to being a freaky young bald old man. Its like the actor Charles Hawtree (who was bald but wore a wig btw) He managed to look like a mix of both a schoolboy and a old man from the age of about 20.
I've been working out since I was 18(ish) so I have well defined muscles but more like a gymnast my natural build means I can never be a big guy.
I'd like to see your pics though because trust me I know that your situation is going to be far better than mine, I live everyday just thinking "If only I could go back to early hairloss knowing then what I know now".
I'm still convinced though that 90% of side effects from meds are merely psychological. Its funny how in the Merck trial (when the guys did'nt know what they were taking or the possible sides) only 2% got them. Now everyguy who pops a pill is thinking its going to effect his libido ect, thats bound to have some effect.
And as for the reincarnation, sorry buddy but this is it, in life there is no fair deal, but as far as luck goes I'd say everyone on here is in the top 30% of luckiest guys on earth. We may be balding but we aint starving and we have all the best luxuries than any society could have. IMO religion is a far outdated theory just made up (in more primative times) to give hope when nothing else could and explain what we did'nt yet understand through science.