At What Point Did You Or Will You Shave ?

LastSamurai

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Hi guys,

I used to be known as hope4hairredex a while back. Used to know UCman and a few others.

I was a negative, really negative poster back then. I've changed so much from circa 18 to 28 now.

I look back and smile at some of my old posts as I was so deluded.

Anyway, I guess I just wanted some advice and inspiration. My hair on top is slowly thinning. And you know what ? f*** it. I'm OK with it. I've had a good run and I am willing to accept that this was always going to be the next stage.

I guess the top part by my forehead has been ever so slowly thinning now for sometime. My 13 year old step sister even remarked that my hair was thinning. That actually was hard to hear. I guess kids notice sh*t adults don't. It made me realise that it's clearly not just something I notice but other people could see too. Although I know at this stage of my hairloss the average adult wouldn't really care or notice.

Anyway. I am getting closer and closer to thinking - why not just bloody shave it ? I'm single, I've got nothing to lose. Because if I'm heading that way anyway, I almost feel the sooner I get it over and done, the better off I'll be.

The reality is, I still probably notice it way more than others right now. So, part of me thinks, it makes sense to keep it so I can continue getting laid and dating before I literally have a dome for a head..But, sooner or later, I'm gonna have to buy a good pair of clippers and do the business.

And then, I want to try and build my shaved look. Start to put on some muscle and make the look work for me. Being bald and thin, generally doesn't work. The bald muscular stereotype is of course an abused cliche by this point but nonetheless, I realise its pretty true. My bald thin friends end up looking quite emo, weak and sometimes sick. Where as bald and muscular, a la Jason Statham, and you have something to work with.

When did you guys take the plunge to shave ? Or when will you consider it?

For me, I'm certainly getting close to the end of my tether considering my hair thinning on top - although its only just noticible. But, I know there will come a time, perhaps in six months, a year, or sooner, that I'll start to get tired of looking at my thinning patch.

Hope you are well my balding brothers.
 

LastSamurai

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You know what, I've never been a believer in meds. I feel they cause more physical and mental harm and sort of psychological torture then just accepting the reality. I don't knock people for taking meds though, just not my cup of tea.

I must be about a norwood 3.5 at present. Just a matter of time for my thinning hair I guess though, thick enough now but its a ticking time bomb.

I've probably managed to hold onto my hair quite well over the past 10 years. I've had a good run.
 

buckthorn

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I was at the point where most when would have shaved about a year ago. I am way past that point now. It just depends on how traumatic a bald head will be for you. For those of you that know me it's very traumatic. A 35 year old, 5'8", overweight, struggling with women even when I was ripped with a full head and a family that humiliates bald people... you do the math.
 

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buckthorn

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That is opposite of what you've written before.

no, it's not. I've always had a difficult time with women, and that is what i've always posted. You're thinking of the, "i've dated really hot women", which I have. But I have been insecure my entire life. Which is why I've never locked any of them down.
 

BaldingInGermany

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I've got nothing to lose. Because if I'm heading that way anyway, I almost feel the sooner I get it over and done, the better off I'll be.

This is it. The fight against hairloss is a fight you can not win 99,5 % of the time. Do it, get used to it and don't let thinking about hairloss dominate your life. It is not worth it.
 

sunchyme1

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This is it. The fight against hairloss is a fight you can not win 99,5 % of the time. Do it, get used to it and don't let thinking about hairloss dominate your life. It is not worth it.

lol saids the guy who joined this place over 10 years ago and still posts

please tell me your a cueball who just comes here for the laughs
 

fixthis

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You sound pretty rational. Good luck with the transition. Solid plans about making the look work. If you have enough hair still and treatments/transplants - something to consider.

I'd shave it (maybe wig it first) if I was stuck as a thin Norwood 3 and nothing could save me.

The thing with a wig is, won't people know? I thought that's why it's seen as a bad option that and the fact it wouldn't look natural.
 

Chromedome1990

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I will never "just shave it bro!" Even if I progress to Norwood 7, I would at least keep a little stubble. 99% of people look like crap with full on chrome domes, and even that 1% that doesn't look like Uncle Fester/Moby would still would look better with hair.
 

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Amusing final post
 

LastSamurai

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I'm honestly considering the head tattoo thing. I'm sure that treatment is quite controversial on here, but it seems like at least a half decent option.

It certainly solves in part the problem of baldness; the lack of contrast. I'd need to see way more before I would consider the option, but still, it seems viable to me. You could give yourself a NW1 hairline as well.

Because it looks like you have hair from a couple of feet away but you choose to shave. Someone would look at your head and make that judgement without even thinking; it would be automatic.

I guess with my hairloss now, I've got to this point where I feel can't win when it comes to haircuts. I grow it out, it starts to look ugly, but when I get it closely cropped, it looks a bit too 'military' and bland. So I can't seem to find a happy medium. My front is becoming more of an island, and the widows peaks just make the hairline look ugly.

But a tan, some muscles (eventually) and a tattooed head could be something to work with. Still, If I ever wanted to go to train as a lawyer, having a tattooed skinhead look wouldn't necessarily work for me. Guess I'll have to pursue my rock-star career instead..
 
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