They like good-looking sensitive guys. If you're ugly and sensitive, they consider you a potential rapist or a psychopath, at best.
When you stop considering women "different" or "special", you realize that, when talking about attraction, only few things truly matters to them. I learnt this the hard way: my knowledge, my talents, my humour, my personality are meaningless to them. They only look at my face and hair, and that's more than enough for them, I don't even need to speak, my appearance is the only thing they care about and they even refuse to get to know me, considering me a loser, a potential rapist, a psychopath, etc.