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"And remarks such as the above will help matters?" what? so the comments before mine were helping were they? lmfao ok i wont try to help you live in your depressed state and take everything what people say so serious "we think of baldness what we've been taught by the world" you are not gonna go far in the world thinking like this oh boo hoo they took the piss out of you with no hair boo hoo be lucky its not something serious like cancer etc etc this is nothing people take the piss out off ANYTHING if its not your baldness it be something else the way you dress the way you talk etc etc you get haters get over it "let it go" good advice now YOU let it go stop caring what others think and just live your life.
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those things you've mentioned like dress style or speach manner aren't on the same level as baldness, unfortunately. it's different than those things.
baldness is far more conspicious in a negative sense and far more frowned upon than any of those other examples you so love to come up with so often.
thus haters gonna resurface far more often than with those other things, often enough to make one wonder if he's really seen as inferior, lesser being or monster in this world.
You dont seem to get my point you will get haters hating regardless AGAIN if its not you being bald it be something else...its funny when i use to have long hair they use to take the piss called me a mop head and told me to cut it oh the irony ay? with everyone talking like hair is god gift to earth here i was taking the piss out off having long hair....which proves my point you taking what some people say to heart it is what it is dude some care some dont you will get people taking the piss sorry to break it to you i had it ALL my life before my hairloss.
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no, but i kind of prefer the acknowledgment of reality to denial/delusion. the reality being that were not seen the same way as majority of people who have hair.
"no, but i kind of prefer the acknowledgment of reality to denial/delusion. the reality being that were not seen the same way as majority of people who have hair" what feeling sorry for yourself helps does it? sharing hate stories etc helps? im sorry i know many bald people and they have many friends girlfriends etc no one cares its not being in "denial/delusion" like i SAID and say it AGAIN you will get haters sorry to break it to you.
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and i believe you missed my point "baldness is far more frowned upon than any of those other examples.''
i used to rock long hair and i hardly ever got any negative comments, whereas people like uncomfortable man or seb with their bald scalps encounter unpleasant incidents all the time.
long hair is just a style, some might like it, some might not approve of it.
but it's not universally seen as a negative, unattractive thing as it is with baldness.
"baldness is far more frowned upon than any of those other examples" lmao and im sure baldness is frowned upon with many other situations and same with that situation so on and so fourth so your point is pointless but you lot go on as hair is god gifts and i was took the piss out off with having long hair saying the same **** you are saying with baldness "long hair is just a style, some might like it, some might not approve of it" same with being bald "but it's not universally seen as a negative, unattractive thing as it is with baldness" not EVERYONE thinks this which once again is....haters are gonna hate.
uncomfortable man
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First off, Danny you see that gray bar at the bøttom of each post? Look in the right corner at the reply with quote and click it on whomever you want to quote. That will save you the trouble of copying what others have said.
Now, baldness is not a style as far as male pattern baldness is concerned. Style means you have a choice. For bald guys shaving our heads is almost mandatory. Bald by choice is just that, a choice and hence a style but I seriously doubt that anyone doing so is trying to emulate the male pattern baldness look.... or else they would literally pluck the hairs on top of their heads to mimmic the horse shoe. The strange few who actually do that have a disorder called trichonosis and it is not normal.
You seem to be lumping male pattern baldness together with minor things like having one nostril slightly larger than the other then concluding that nobody is perfect, altogether dismissing the fact that there are different degrees of affliction. When I go out with a hat on nobody gives me as much as a second glance, let alone strange looks and insulting comments so your assumption that people would just find something else to criticize is false. But when I venture out bare then it's a different story all together. It is that difference in treatment that I find so distressing. My bald head is a beacon for haters and I know for a fact that I wouldn't get anywhere near the same level of flack that I do if I had a full head of hair. You can try to deny it, dismiss it, discredit it or negate it with your positive affirmations but it is the truth all the same.
Now, baldness is not a style as far as male pattern baldness is concerned. Style means you have a choice. For bald guys shaving our heads is almost mandatory. Bald by choice is just that, a choice and hence a style but I seriously doubt that anyone doing so is trying to emulate the male pattern baldness look.... or else they would literally pluck the hairs on top of their heads to mimmic the horse shoe. The strange few who actually do that have a disorder called trichonosis and it is not normal.
You seem to be lumping male pattern baldness together with minor things like having one nostril slightly larger than the other then concluding that nobody is perfect, altogether dismissing the fact that there are different degrees of affliction. When I go out with a hat on nobody gives me as much as a second glance, let alone strange looks and insulting comments so your assumption that people would just find something else to criticize is false. But when I venture out bare then it's a different story all together. It is that difference in treatment that I find so distressing. My bald head is a beacon for haters and I know for a fact that I wouldn't get anywhere near the same level of flack that I do if I had a full head of hair. You can try to deny it, dismiss it, discredit it or negate it with your positive affirmations but it is the truth all the same.
I have tried explaining to you all i really have you care WAY to much what others think you really do there is no reasoning with you you think EVERYONE hates bald people (which they dont) like i said you WILL get people taking the piss out off you you WILL get haters sorry to break it to you oh boohoo someone took the piss and what? before i started to go bald i was bullied hated etc etc on so yeah i know for a FACT haters will find something to hate because i have had it all my life (to tall, long hair, etc etc) (baldness is just another thing they can use) i bet you THINK people are looking at your head when really they dont give to ****s oh yes you will get haters but thats life it dont mean NOTHING though dude it dont mean EVERYONE hates bald people dont matter if you are bald or the nostril bigger then the other like you said etc etc stop caring what others think....boohoo if they take the piss be a man and count your blessings its nothing SERIOUS or DEADLY etc.
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I never said everybody, that is you assuming.
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How true can true get? This dude is not the first to come here and call us crazy and patronize us from ontop his high horse behind the veil of "just trying to help". Maybe this guy grew up on a farm in Transylvenia to be so blissfully naive as to the ways of the world and the influence media has on the populations minds. Either way he is well insulated from the harsh reality we know and hate so much.
Lmao if you want to listen to the media or people you know etc then go ahead i do my own thing not moan because the media or someone you know etc says a certain look is horrible you are a sheep to the media "the media say baldness is horrible oh it must be true" you care way to much what others think i dont and i never called YOU crazy etc now LOOK who is assuming.
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It's not so much me that I'm worried about it is the stupid impressionable minds that believe that crap and then turn around and enforce these false values.
And your being scarred for my well being is pretty much the same thing as calling me insane so stop beating around the bush.
You, someone who has no experience being bald cannot begin to convince me (bald for 13 years) that what I am experiencing isn't real or true. You really are clueless so you are in no position to give advice to those who are more experienced in these matters than yourself. If you want to believe that baldness is not seen as a negative then fine, but you will have a hard time convincing those of us who know better.
And your being scarred for my well being is pretty much the same thing as calling me insane so stop beating around the bush.
You, someone who has no experience being bald cannot begin to convince me (bald for 13 years) that what I am experiencing isn't real or true. You really are clueless so you are in no position to give advice to those who are more experienced in these matters than yourself. If you want to believe that baldness is not seen as a negative then fine, but you will have a hard time convincing those of us who know better.
No i didnt call you insane YOU'RE the one beating round the bush i said i worried for your well being not because i think you are insane is because i dont want you to be more depressed about it then you already are to keep dwelling on it etc etc... so YOU are no postion to say that i said you are insane when i didnt dont put words in my mouth....and im sorry that something so minor like balding or be bald has made your life so bad and sorry that the people round you are horrible to you cause off it but because you had a bad time with it dont mean that everyone else had a bad time with it with others (i know you didnt say everyone but you going on like its like it is) i know MANY bald people my family full off them no one gives a **** sorry that the people i know are not as horrible as the people you are with and dont give a **** about people being bald or not (like they shouldnt) and i never said what you have been through is false how many times do i have to say this that YES you will get people taking the piss YES you will but thats what haters do get over it boo ****ing hoo i have known people with ALOT worse then being bald and they deal with it better then you lot.
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This is a place to vent, where we don't have to worry about being judged or ridiculed for how we feel. Many of us who are going through this can't talk to their friends or family about it so the HairLossTalk.com is a sanctuary of sorts for us. These are our uncensored innermost thoughts so of course they are going to be explicitly frank, but that doesn't mean we (I) walk around with my head down sulking and scowling at any passerby. So please take that into context.
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I can choose not to have any stigma about anyone but It dosent mean other don't have
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dannyboy you just dont get it
hair loss has negative stigma far outweighing that of anything else, perhaps being really short is the only other physical aspect that approaches it. but even then you can move to asia, you can't do that with hair loss. (assuming no VERY RARE AND MAJOR defects such as elephantiasis, which is what the elephant man had, or significant burns)
its not even just media that promotes a negative stigma for hair loss, all throughout history cultures have put down those with hair loss. did you know in the ancient middle east hair loss was seen as a public display of a man losing his virility? ironically thats basically partially what it symbolizes, the whole point of hair loss is to make you look older
and if you are honestly complaining about ridiculed for being too tall than the conversation ends here . . . . . . . thats like trying to insult someone for having a lot of money, its something POSITIVE
theres no negative stigma for long hair either, in fact among young people and the rock music crowd its a very POSITIVE trait.
its pretty much neutral for anyone else. except its perhaps considered "rebellious" by the older folks. (and most young people in general like being considered rebellious anyways)
hair loss has negative stigma far outweighing that of anything else, perhaps being really short is the only other physical aspect that approaches it. but even then you can move to asia, you can't do that with hair loss. (assuming no VERY RARE AND MAJOR defects such as elephantiasis, which is what the elephant man had, or significant burns)
its not even just media that promotes a negative stigma for hair loss, all throughout history cultures have put down those with hair loss. did you know in the ancient middle east hair loss was seen as a public display of a man losing his virility? ironically thats basically partially what it symbolizes, the whole point of hair loss is to make you look older
and if you are honestly complaining about ridiculed for being too tall than the conversation ends here . . . . . . . thats like trying to insult someone for having a lot of money, its something POSITIVE
theres no negative stigma for long hair either, in fact among young people and the rock music crowd its a very POSITIVE trait.
its pretty much neutral for anyone else. except its perhaps considered "rebellious" by the older folks. (and most young people in general like being considered rebellious anyways)
I DO get it like i said i been there with the "why am i bald so young wish i wasnt going bald blah blah" and im just using my height as an example that i have been bullied for other silly things and im not complaining about being judged for being tall (why would i complain?) im just saying i been hated regardless with hair or not for other things and you really using the "through history" excuse stop living in the past its 2012 stay with the times i have saw ALOT worse then being bald im so glad im with people who dont care if you have hair or not i mean why would they? it is only that....HAIR i cant sit here and worry about something so stupid (like you lot) while they WAS people with missing limps etc winning gold for us a week or so ago while you lot are crying theres people in ALOT worst cases then hairloss living better lives then you and are with others who dont care what they look like and would LOVE just to have hairloss cause what they have (an actual problem) is so so much worse...for ****sake stop caring what media or someone you know says and just get on with your lives and all this about the media is stupid aswell its funny there was a program about balding men and they wanted hair this one guy was bald and they showed the guy when he had hair and they all said he looked better bald (women said it aswell)....ha figures but off cause you will use some stupid excuse against it i suppose in other words i cant win.
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Nobody likes being told their problems and personal struggles are insignificant. Your not a therapist and your attitude is not helping to convert us to your way of thinking. You don't want to help us, you just want to win an internet debate.
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Holy ****, ^this is THE wisest thing you have ever said BBS! Although I would replace the word anyone with myself, because we let ourselves be influenced by the stigma leading to self loathing... but even if we accept ourselves the way we are doesn't mean others will. You can convince yourself that everything is fine but people are still going to laugh at you and treat you like a piece of subhuman **** regardless so what does it matter if you love yourself or not?