This isn't a shot at you Exo because yes, technically I implied nothing's changed, and this infograph proves that implication wrong, but what I'm about to go into isn't disagreeing with your use of the image but simply pontificating a deeper reflection upon it than what it might "prove" to a lot of guys who don't want to look much further.
But let's get this right, because some of the guys agreeing with your post have actually said before that a vast majority of women are f*****g 30 or 50 guys, and also think you'd be gullible to be with a woman and think she hasn't fucked at least a dozen or 20 other guys.
Firstly the numbers in your image don't surprise me, and there are a lot of other cultural reasons than the sexual revolution. Let's look at the amount of time women have before deciding on marriage, and obviously you'll see a correlation between why women are apparently now f*****g a new Chad every other day.
- The average age of a single woman getting married in 1971 was 22.6 years old, now it is 30.8 years old.
- The average age of a single man getting married in 1971 was 24.6 years old, now it is 32.7 years old
https://bridebook.co.uk/article/bridebook-co-uk-marriage-report-2017
*Note that I did find other data up to 2010 that had the average of women being 28.8, splitting hairs I feel, but I want to be transparent in that I'm selecting the most recent large scale data provided which is this year.
So in comparison to 45 years ago women now have several more years to f*** more partners in comparison to when it was socially normal to find a partner at a young age and settle down without a second thought. If we look at the 4-9 partners of your chart, as 32% is pretty considerable, it averages out to at worst, less than one new f*** a year?
So basically a woman could f*** like 2 guys when young over a few years, get a long term relationship, another 3 guys over maybe a few years, another long term relationship, and by f*****g 7 guys over more than a decade she finds herself right slap bang in the 32% "sl*t" category that the red pill insists she now is.
A lot of males could have similar encounters to the above paragraph and may not be viewed as necessarily poor with women, but hardly "man sl*ts" or promiscuous. If women were picking up Tinder Chads twice a week and cucking their boyfriends there would be a lot more than 18% in the truly "slutty" category.
Let's not forget that half of the women in that graph still only fucked 3 guys by marriage, which actually, does surprise me a bit. And this is another cultural change here, those 5% that never fucked before marriage, are most definitely in a community that persists on it, these devoutly religious attitudes have of course dwindled dramatically in the last decades (and not just with consideration to official "Christians" now being Atheist, which is still considerable, but the amount of "Christians" now that do not let their religious identity get in the way of sex has certainly increased).
As for the 18% who are at 10+ partners well, yeah like I say, some women were sl*ts in the past, some are now. But even in those numbers if we said conservatively 8% of them f*** 15 or even 20 guys before settling down, I still don't rate that as too extreme. Again like, 2 a year from the age of 16?
If 90% of women, or even 82%, are f*****g a few guys a year, is that like a social epidemic of sluttyness? Alright.
But anyway, yes slutty women do exist, hard to put a number on it, but this is why I would not be surprised if I tried a Tinder experiment with a male model, 5-10% of girls who f*** a bunch of guys every year, will show up on there ready to bang him within seconds. No doubt about it, the internet has that way of bringing out the more extremes of people.
Now, as for these Tinder model experiments, and 80% or whatever women also swiping right back? Ask any friend using Tinder actively/successfully or even on here
@WhitePolarBear, or
@shookwun, what a right swipe actually means on Tinder, and it varies considerably. If you think it instantly means all of these 80% of girls are spreading their legs you are deluded, many like to tease the model guy, some like to get right swiped for the attention of a guy who's unobtainable, even that doesn't mean they realistically would f***.
And just because some Tinder experiments are most likely factual (if not mis-leading as to what the facts represent in reality) and I can't deny that possibility, I'm not going to just believe that one experiment means the majority of women, or even a significant amount, actively want to f*** hot paedophiles just because they are hot.
Anyway, the delays people are having in getting married is somewhat a result of the sexual revolution, and a backlash to religion, but also in our increasingly esoteric interests in the world, our diversity and ideals of what makes another person compatible to us is now ever expanding. This to me is really what is at the core of explaining a lot about why we behave, and why the simplicity of how we picked partners, long or short term, is now gone.
For better or for worse, we no longer find the first person remotely compatible to ourselves as being our life partners, we no longer fall in love on a whim, and in giving up on happiness/potential eternal sadness with a person who may not be right for us, we open the door to sex with other potential partners we get the chance to engage with.
There are way, way too many variables in this rather small insight into human behaviour to try and equate it to a persons general happiness which is arguably immeasurable anyway. In a short space of time we've gone through such a huge social change and collective narcissism that our ideas of happiness have changed drastically, but as it has been such a short time for such dramatic change, to me it is not reasonable to make the judgement call that this is
the wrong way to live and our simple bliss before was
correct, but rather we'd have to see how we could possibly overcome such social disparity.