Baldness Sexual Attractiveness

[haunted-ballroom]

In my experience a huge percentage of women mostly in the 20-35 range love men who are tall and well built with shaved heads. (as long as you can still see the hairline intact) Im not so sure about NW7 bald, but women who are around 35+ don't care at all about a mans hairloss. But who is interested in 30 something women anyway?

I would love to shave my head down as it really suits me, but my temple recession is much to large now, it just makes me look OLD. You need a good hairline to pull of the bald look. This is what many people dont realise.

You need the line of the hairline to still be visible. There is a big difference with men who shave by choice and men who shave because they have too :nono:

Its the former women are most attracted too :nono:

:stfu: Seriously...your a troll right??

 

[Smooth]

I didnt went throw the whole thread, so I hope im not butting in with my post, just felt compeld to share my toughts regarding "Baldness Sexual Attractivness" bs, there isnt such a thing basicly, (unless your homo - which I have nothing against, tbh) is just that women DONT "WORK" AS MEN!! they are diffrent from us whether you like to accept it or not, its just a f*****g fact.
Now as for going blad, losing your hair sux indeed but shouldnt bother your relashionships with women, its all about confidence and *image*, *NOT LOOKS*, IMAGE! I work in a restaurant with much better looking guys then myself (better bodies, NW1s, taller and probebly way smarter then me) yet I give them a hella run for their money, and I tell you why; becuse I come from a place of "I got nothing to lose" while the so called "good looking guys".. their fucked up... they relay mostly on their looks (im not saying it doesnt work.. im saying that my way works 10 times better) if they cant get it, that means they *flawed*, that means their not perfect.. that means that their looks "didnt deliver", they *feel* that they have to "live up for their looks" (which is, btw, horse bs. I hope im passing the point here.. ) this is why the preasure is on them now, im on theother hand.. well I come free, I dont feel like I have "to deliver" or something, I REALLY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE!! (im f*****g bald, what else can you do to me?!?! again upose to good looking-NW1 guys) this is why I dont care anymore, this is why my confidant went way higher at some point, what your missing is the fact girls are attracted to confidence, their emotional, while we are rationale, once you made a girl "feel" then shes yours, you get them emotional.. (I bet you didnt know this, but there are guides about all over the net about "how to make her *feel* " bullshit, just google "art of temption")
My 2 c's (apologize for miss-pellings and typos, im not a native speaker )

 

[Fanjeera]

You're very right at the part, that if you have no hair, you don't have to worry about your looks almost at all, therefore you got nothing to lose and will not ever feel better or worser about, how you look like, because you're always the same with the same bald head. Worrying about, how your haircut is, will have you less time thinking about, how you socialize.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Being bald is a social handicap.

 

[Avery]

Only if you make it one.

 

[uncomfortable man]

It is true that you never know what kind of reaction you will get from people to your baldness. There are people who are indifferent, not caring if you're bald. There are people who are on the fence and need convincing to earn their respect. There are people who are very sympathetic and will be quite kind. There are people who are bothered by it and will never be able to see past the surface to who you are. So bald people aren't completely at odds with society, but it is true that we do have to face a certain amount more of discrimination than those with hair.

 

[HatPrisoner91]

You're very right at the part, that if you have no hair, you don't have to worry about your looks almost at all, therefore you got nothing to lose and will not ever feel better or worser about, how you look like, because you're always the same with the same bald head. Worrying about, how your haircut is, will have you less time thinking about, how you socialize.

So basically you are saying if you are bald, just dress like a bum, eat like crap too and get fat because you look like crap due to the bald head right?

 

[Smooth]

how the hell you got to this conclusion :

So basically you are saying if you are bald, just dress like a bum, eat like crap too and get fat because you look like crap due to the bald head right?

from reading this post :: ??

You're very right at the part, that if you have no hair, you don't have to worry about your looks almost at all, therefore you got nothing to lose and will not ever feel better or worser about, how you look like, because you're always the same with the same bald head. Worrying about, how your haircut is, will have you less time thinking about, how you socialize.

Please inlight me, as :lost:

edit later ::

Being bald is a social handicap.

lol good one ^^! :bravo: good thing you have some sense of humor about that

 

[uncomfortable man]

Yeah, I was serious. Bald people are not on the same level as those with hair, socially speaking. We are seen as inferior. I find it hard to disagree with this since most people are on this site so that they don't wind up bald. Everyone is trying to avoid it for obvious reasons.

 

[Smooth]

We are socialy handicaped/inferior in the eyes of people like yourself, who all they care about is the way someone looks instead of giving a chance to get to know him which is mentaly suitable a 10y old (have to be honest here.. you, who cares about the way people look more then who they are, are losing your hair the ultimate punishment for your behavoir lol).. now look, i do agree that there are some stereotypes against bald people, but stereotypes have always been there, and forever will, and thats normal human behavior, thers steotypes against fat people, black people, jewish, even good looking people (the "pritty&dumb" bs), so what? all these people got no chance to have a "healthy" social life..BS! fact is 99.9% can see past that, im BY FAR (!!!) not socialy handicaped, it never stoped me from getting to good school/ finding jobs/f*****g/socilazing, the only thing that stoped me was the way I felt about myself (if someone dont want to know me becuase im bald/balding then he can go f*** himself, and the sooner the better) i can give you million exapmles to ugly, bald ppl who are anything BUT "socialy handicaped" [just a few from the top of my head: Jason Alexander, Larry David, Danny Devito]...im not sure how old you are (im guessing at your earliy 20's) but you should GROW UP and change attitude, your are bald! there is nothing you can do right now to fix it other then accpet yourself as you are! so stop looking for reasons to hate yourself and bald ppl around you
Socialy handicaped pff :jackit:....

 

[s.a.f]

We are socialy handicaped/inferior in the eyes of people like yourself, who all they care about is the way someone looks instead of giving a chance to get to know him which is mentaly suitable a 10y old (have to be honest here.. you, who cares about the way people look more then who they are, are losing your hair the ultimate punishment for your behavoir lol).. now look, i do agree that there are some stereotypes against bald people, but stereotypes have always been there, and forever will, and thats normal human behavior, thers steotypes against fat people, black people, jewish, even good looking people (the "pritty&dumb" bs), so what? all these people got no chance to have a "healthy" social life..BS! fact is 99.9% can see past that, im BY FAR (!!!) not socialy handicaped, it never stoped me from getting to good school/ finding jobs/f****ing/socilazing, the only thing that stoped me was the way I felt about myself (if someone dont want to know me becuase im bald/balding then he can go f*** himself, and the sooner the better) i can give you million exapmles to ugly, bald ppl who are anything BUT "socialy handicaped" [just a few from the top of my head: Jason Alexander, Larry David, Danny Devito]...im not sure how old you are (im guessing at your earliy 20's) but you should GROW UP and change attitude, your are bald! there is nothing you can do right now to fix it other then accpet yourself as you are! so stop looking for reasons to hate yourself and bald ppl around you
Socialy handicaped pff :jackit:....

You have to agree that first impressions count for a lot, if you have a NW1 and a NW6 I'd guess that the NW6 will have to work harder to get people to endear to him.
I was a NW6 I always thought that people saw me first as a bald head and I had to talk them round to actually get them to see me as a normal person.
Just look at the people you gave as examples Jason Alexander, Larry David and Danny Devito all of whom are portrayed as socially inept characters.

 

[ali777]

OK, I have a question.

There is one particular girl I fancy (one of the few), I'm even thinking of asking her out the next time I see her, most probably in August. Anyway, her dad is NW4-5 bald, and her sister had some stress problems when at med school and she was losing hair like there is no tomorrow. Basically, this particular girl has the hair loss genes in her, and two of her family members suffered from it. Suffered is the wrong term, but you get the picture....

So, me being NW2-3 with a receding hairline and with the possibility of hitting NW4 in my 40s, do you think this girl will view me as an unattractive bald guy, or as someone normal?

 

[s.a.f]

Well she's more likely to see hairloss as normal but that does'nt mean she might not find it anymore attractive/unnatractive than the next girl.

 

[Smooth]

You have to agree that first impressions count for a lot, if you have a NW1 and a NW6 I'd guess that the NW6 will have to work harder to get people to endear to him.
I was a NW6 I always thought that people saw me first as a bald head and I had to talk them round to actually get them to see me as a normal person.
Just look at the people you gave as examples Jason Alexander, Larry David and Danny Devito all of whom are portrayed as socially inept characters.

Theres a HUGE diffrance between first impression and overall looks, you can look great even as a bald guy (you can look great even as a handicape missing 2 legs) it all goes down to how much you put in yourself.
First impression, IS NOT (!!!!) only built around looks, there are manny things that it comes down to when presenting yourself for the first time, otherwise i wouldnt get to work as a waiter nor had a good social life, yeah, thats true the first thing you see when you meet someone is the way they look, but only ignorat people (or little dummy kids) wouldnt want to talk/socilaze with somone purely beacuse the way they look, and if you met somone who is like that then rest asure deep inside they hate themselves, and maybe not now, but someday they will have to pay ALOT for their therapy mental care. i feel sorry for those ppl who choose thier friends based only on the way they look, I wouldnt want to socialze with this kind, and trust me so do you..
I never felt i had to "talk poeple aournd" due to my baldness rofl..(what are you ffs lol ? and advetisment ?! )
Now as for the examples given by me earlier, they portrayted as a "socially inept characters" because they play in situation comedies.... what about Seinfeld .. or Kramer..or Elaine?? they are too, portrayted as "socially inept characters", but wait?! how could it be?!?! they are not bald at all :O..i can give you more examples if you wish so badly: Bruce willis, Vin Diesel , Jason Statham,"The Rock", Howie Mandel (yeah he is balding) oh yeah.. and btw (how could i forget ) Larry David's wife played by no other then the gorgeous Cheryl Hines, not to mention he was marry to the hot Laurie Lennard! so yeah... go on keep thinking how miserable your social life is due to your baldness... 'couse really ?! what is a good sharp brain? charming personality, charisma, confidence, sensitivity, health and a good sense of humor if your bald??!?!

 

[HatPrisoner91]

Smooth where in the world do you live?

 

[Smooth]

Israel.. Tel-Aviv (come visit me someday, I think Ill be a good influance on you ;P)

 

[Ackers24]

dude if u like the girl and wanna ask her out then just go do it...f*** ur hairloss...she'll either say yes or no...you got nothing to lose...just go for it!!!

 

[GeminiX]

Well for what it's worth, I found there is one way better than anything else I can think of to get you the girl you want.

Make the girl laugh and have fun.

If you can do that, I *promise* you, you will be attractive to women.

Speaking as a certified minger, I never found my looks a handicap to relationships. Besides, who the hell wants to date someone who's so shallow that they judge someone on appearence alone?

The other side of the coin, is come across as self obsessed and loser and it you have not got a snowballs chance in hell of getting a date, heck, even finding friends will be a challenge.

 

[ali777]

dude if u like the girl and wanna ask her out then just go do it...f*** ur hairloss...she'll either say yes or no...you got nothing to lose...just go for it!!!

Was that for me? I don't give a fu*k if I go completely bald or not. Well, obviously I do to a certain extent but it doesn't rule my life.

I will ask her out the next time I see her. I was told she doesn't have a boyfriend at the moment, so I might be with a chance.

 

[IBM]

In real life bald man are unacceptable. I remember in university times there was a young guy that was near NW6. In 400 students everyone knew who he was and he was nicknamed as the "bald man".

"Oh who's James Lobonon?"
"The bald man"
"Oh I see that freak!"