Being Ugly. It Will Destroy One's Life

[shookwun]

When good-looking muscular fullheads lament at the fact that below-average skinny-fat NW3's can't get women:

"Why doesn't he learn game? Why doesn't he develop the ability I have to charm women with his intelligence, wits and hardly-earned social savviness like I do."

My experience has told me that there is no such thing as game. It's an infinitely small factor when it comes to human mating. It's barely relevant.

When you're in the top 15% of guys, you can be as clumsy as you want, as long as you do something and move the interaction forward (if you do nothing, nothing happens of course), if the girl wants you, she'll go along with it.

The more good-looking you are, the more your halo will make the most mundane things you do seem amazing, at the highest levels of Chadness, it's something like:

"OMG I loved how I sneezed and you said like, bless you! People are so rude these days but you're a gentleman!"

In the meantime, a guy who's below average could save her from a fire and she'd be mad at the fact that he ripped her dress in the process.

Legit

Game = looks

best theory ever.

Basic social skills is all you need. Eventually you just get better

Unfortunately, it's in people's biological programming.

The genes of those who were picky about their mates prevailed more so than those who were not so picky. Far more so in females as they must commit at least 9 months to a set of genes.

When you don't have options you settle for whatever comes your way. I remember @WhitePolarBear dating multiple chicks at once until he qualified the best candidate.



I am at that stage now where you shuffle through many until you find someone you truly like. My standards have sky rocketed since I started seeing diff chicks every weekend. I have no desire to date unless the chick is amazingly hot and has a great personality. But six months ago when I lived in solitude, I was taking whatever I could get because my options were limited.

 

[Chromedome1990]

Legit

Game = looks

best theory ever.

Basic social skills is all you need. Eventually you just get better

Just b urself, am I right? Man you're dense. I've known guys with literal Asperger's, but because they were 6'1+ fullheads with decent faces they were still able to get laid fairly regularly. These are guys who could barely string sentences together, mind you. Looks are all that matter, game means diddly dick if you aren't past a certain looks threshold.

When good-looking muscular fullheads lament at the fact that below-average skinny-fat NW3's can't get women:

"Why doesn't he learn game? Why doesn't he develop the ability I have to charm women with his intelligence, wits and hardly-earned social savviness like I do."

My experience has told me that there is no such thing as game. It's an infinitely small factor when it comes to human mating. It's barely relevant.

When you're in the top 15% of guys, you can be as clumsy as you want, as long as you do something and move the interaction forward (if you do nothing, nothing happens of course), if the girl wants you, she'll go along with it.

The more good-looking you are, the more your halo will make the most mundane things you do seem amazing, at the highest levels of Chadness, it's something like:

"OMG I loved how I sneezed and you said like, bless you! People are so rude these days but you're a gentleman!"

In the meantime, a guy who's below average could save her from a fire and she'd be mad at the fact that he ripped her dress in the process.

Hit the nail right on the head.