Breaking down your life

[Guest]

some of you are such loosers. you even say about yourself that you are a looser. how pathetic. damn, i dont understand this. how can you be like that? sorry to be harsh, but i just dont understand it. how can you be such a looser? why arent you a winner? ask you wanna know whats the secret? think positive. in any situation. yourself that question. and the answer is not luck or misfortune
i am happy and everyone around me is. think of the positive things that could happen and they will happen. thats a law.

to saf

you are such a looser if you think there must be loosers if there are winners. just from that one sentence i can say you are definatley a looser. because everyone who thinks that is a looser and all loosers think like that.


ai just dont get it. how can you have such a frustrating life? you must learn how to life your life as a winner. go get some good book. i can advise you "think and grow rich". thats damn good book to get successfull in every part of life.
the secret is beside thinking positive that you want a happy life. you must really want it. then it will come to you. but if you feel comfortable with your situation right now , nothing will happen.

take those words.

 

[TheGlamorous]

some of you are such loosers. you even say about yourself that you are a looser. how pathetic.

First of all it's losers. There's no such word as "loosers."

Second of all, your whole post was overstepping 'harsh', falling really close to 'condescending'. Might want to tone it down a bit. Do you really think calling somebody pathetic will help them?

Taugenichts: I'm really sorry that you find yourself in this situation.

The one thing many people forget to understand is that an individual's problems can only be measured by the magnitude of their life experience and coping mechanisms.

For instance, being eighteen and a NW3 makes me ONLY want to strive for good looks. I don't care about anything else, which is why, if we swapped bodies I would have the time of my life. Because in my opinion your hot and your hair loss is better then mine.

No matter how many people tell you that you look "hot" or that your hair looks "fine", you won't feel any better until you accept two things:

1. Maybe those people are right, and
2. Your problems aren't as bad as some other people's and therefore you are lucky enough to have the opportunity to turn your life around.

Of course the same can be said for me. For example a NW5, overweight, unhealthy eighteen year old comes up to me and says the same thing to me that i've just said to you (swapping bodies), I would question how lucky I am to be: skinny, somewhat good looking, around heaps of friends etc. But on the most part it wouldn't change my view of myself all that much.

Why? because we all try and be the best. Comparing ourselves to what's worse then ourselves doesn't give the motivation to positive thinking. Beating everybody, however, does. That's why good looking people usually lead happy lives.

So what does this whimisically contrasting post offer as advice? Not much really. Just that it might be a good idea to realise you aren't that worse off, IMO.

 

[Guest]

Spec,

So would you switch with me? :lol:

 

[TheGlamorous]

Spec,

So would you switch with me? :lol:

Without a second guess, yes.

Haha i'd go on a mad sex-capade and personally tell everybody that I hate that I think their fucktards and if your body is strong enough, punch a few people.

In the long run, i'd pursue the acting career I feel like, go out every day, get my job back (probably a better one) and once more, go on more made sex-capades.

I'm not crazy y'all 8)

p.s: this is what i'm going to do after I buzz/shave and one of them looks ok. If both look crap then i'm screwed. :-x

 

[Guest]

Spec,

So would you switch with me? :lol:

Without a second guess, yes.

Haha i'd go on a mad sex-capade and personally tell everybody that I hate that I think their fucktards and if your body is strong enough, punch a few people.

In the long run, i'd pursue the acting career I feel like, go out every day, get my job back (probably a better one) and once more, go on more made sex-capades.

I'm not crazy y'all 8)

p.s: this is what i'm going to do after I buzz/shave and one of them looks ok. If both look crap then i'm screwed. :-x

Well unfortunately for you I am a lazy fatass who is currently 10 pounds overweight and very little strength to punch people. So no good body. But at least I have a good head of hair and facial features, right?

 

[DaSand]

DaSand (me) is a 23 year old college student, part-time worker, friend and family helper. I live with my mom because she is widowed and needs support to go on.

I've been through a lot in the past 6 years. My father passed away senior year in high school in 2001 due to a long battle with cancer. I also realized the people I hanged out with didn't really like me and an event I'd rather not go back to set that. I wanted to escape from my home and out of a city that still continues to go nowhere economically.

I decided to go out of state for college, but after one semester I had a breakdown and came back home. I got an Associate's at a community college and met a variety of people. I thought education was my calling after I transferred to a small college, but it wasn't meant to be. Accounting and business are my forte and I enjoy those classes more. I should be done by the end of 2007 or May 2008.

I've realized you can't let life slip before you and you have to take the bull by the horns, work hard and still have fun.

I'm hard on myself for not going to a community college instead of picking out a school so I can find what I want to do. I learned of friends from high school who have crap jobs after getting their degrees.

After the breakdown, I neglected exercise and ate a lot. I put on 40 lbs, I've lost 20 so far with running, good food and weights.

I was made fun of for my hairline in high school and my hair stayed the same until a year ago when it thinned. I hate looking at it in the morning but I see classmates of mine from high school now who are NW5 or NW6 by 21 and I realize I don't have it so bad. I've even notice too some brown hairs are growing along my hairline.

The girls I show my loss say they don't even notice it.

I wrote two short stories recently and looking forward to a month of R+R. I'm saving up for HM whenever it comes out and I will grow my hair the way I want it to.

Overall, I just planned for the future and lived in the Present. I spent too much time in the Past and a counselor at school I see bi-weekly has helped me out in so many ways.

I haven't felt good in so long...

I got to get to bed now.... Good night!

 

[Aplunk1]

Aplunk1 is a 21-year-old college student, attending a university in New York City. He was born and raised throughout several cities in the South and Southwest. A social butterfly from the beginning, Aplunk1 had no problem developing long-standing friendships in elementary and middle school. An excellent student in school, Aplunk1 received many awards. Perhaps his best achievements are found in his athletics, whereby he succeeded to State Championships throughout high school in Swimming. Team Captain as a sophomore, Aplunk1 was an excellent "freestyler," and had no problem performing the long-distance events.

To this day, Aplunk1 maintains a relatively high standard of living, and is currently seeking an internship with a popular publisher in NYC. Very lonely at times, Aplunk1 has yet to make any real friends in NYC, although he has met a few girlfriends.

Nonetheless, Aplunk1 still has many hobbies, including cooking, photography, guitar and singing, occasional exercising (long walks every day), online gaming (World of Warcraft, Enemy Territory), reading, and visiting his one-and-only favorite forum, HairLossTalk.com.

Aplunk1 has the potential to go places in life. He is suffering a lot of pain from his hairloss situation, coupled with many other family-related problems, which are slowly being worked out. Unfortunately, Aplunk1 doesn't know where he "stands" in life, and is confused about a multitude of things. Such is the young man's life.

Without a doubt, there is a bright future for Aplunk1. He greatly desires to one day get to graduate school, have a nice condo in Manhattan, a medium-sized dog, and to publish non-fiction pieces.

Aplunk1 has great faith in his community, especially with the people with whom he relates to the most... his balding bretheran. Aplunk1 cannot thank these wonderful people enough for showing sympathy, warmth, and understanding throughout Aplunk1's trials and tribulations of his seemingly complicated life. Aplunk1 wishes everyone a Happy Holidays and goodluck to all.

 

[TheGlamorous]

Well unfortunately for you I am a lazy fatass who is currently 10 pounds overweight and very little strength to punch people. So no good body. But at least I have a good head of hair and facial features, right?

Yep. And I bet you have a good body regardless haha. 10 pounds overweight? That ain't that much.

And yes if you asked me bluntly i'd you are quite good looking, from what i've seen anyways.

I can almost feel the uneasyness some really heterosexual guys might be feeling while reading our witty banter. Sorry guys!

 

[Guest]

JayMan was evaluated by a school psychologist for academic placement inthe 9th grade, in 1999, and the school psychologist informed him, that of the 600+ kids that she had evaluated in his career with this test, JayMan had attained the highest score ever on the patterning/sequencing section.

JayMan also attends a university in New York where he does some schoolwork and also eats a lot of unhealthy food. He enjoys sitting on his butt and watching TV. He is growing a bit of hair on his hairline, but he is growing more hair on his back and legs, which he finds a bit disturbing. Is JayMan destined to become WolfMan? Stay tuned.

 

[Guest]

I can almost feel the uneasyness some really heterosexual guys might be feeling while reading our witty banter. Sorry guys!

I bet the Moose feels pretty uneasy, reading this post as he lurks.

 

[TheGlamorous]

I can almost feel the uneasyness some really heterosexual guys might be feeling while reading our witty banter. Sorry guys!

I bet the Moose feels pretty uneasy, reading this post as he lurks.

Ehhhhhhhhhhhhhh. It's odd that I can make people feel uneasy just by being myself.

Kinda cool now that I think about it haha.

I'm waiting for a post one day, on this forum, going something like "shut the $%^ up you ##$$n f4ggot bla bla bla". It's gonna happen sooner or later lol.

 

[Guest]

I can almost feel the uneasyness some really heterosexual guys might be feeling while reading our witty banter. Sorry guys!

I bet the Moose feels pretty uneasy, reading this post as he lurks.

Ehhhhhhhhhhhhhh. It's odd that I can make people feel uneasy just by being myself.

Kinda cool now that I think about it haha.

I can too, my usual perverted self that is.

As Moose reads this post, he pulls out his two incher and slowly strokes it.

 

[TheGlamorous]

I can almost feel the uneasyness some really heterosexual guys might be feeling while reading our witty banter. Sorry guys!

I bet the Moose feels pretty uneasy, reading this post as he lurks.

Ehhhhhhhhhhhhhh. It's odd that I can make people feel uneasy just by being myself.

Kinda cool now that I think about it haha.

I can too, my usual perverted self that is.

As Moose reads this post, he pulls out his two incher and slowly strokes it.

You're very fast at replying.

 

[Aplunk1]

You guys junked up this thread. irate:

 

[Solo]

It´s ok to hijack Tourdeforce´s threads: he´s a imbecile whiny bastard.

 

[Letsget2thepoint-51]

lets get to teh point

Letsgettothepoint is a 21 year old college student in the state of washington. Always a good athlete(all area/all conference , vasristy 3 sports etcc.... and respected amongst peers... life was good throughout all of school. ALthough somewhat shy around girls still has been able to attract a decent amount of cute ones and is/was generally considered to be good looking. After highscool and deciding not to play college football i got into poker and have since been able to make a very nice living playing it while going to school. Ive been able to help my family out a lot and i basicically was the most optomistic person and loved my situation in life. I spent the last year or so smoking weed and playing poker during the day while watchign seinfeld and going to nite school at a community college. I am now at my frist quarter at a university.
REcently my hair (which has always been thin) has started to become noticably thinner and i have been able to conceal my hair loss for the last 6 months with a hat/dry hair style. I have been with girls, and i have always been able to attract them but am now finally looking for a serious relationship and im terrified that losing my hair will turn me from popular decent looking well liked colelge student into a less social not near as attractive guy.Ive always been able to get with really cute girls and to be honest im scared that i might lose some of my "looks" I hate when peopel talk about "out of my league " etc but if my hair loss continues at its current pace im goign to drop a few notches real fast.
I go to parties and look around and am horrifed at what noticable hair loss woudl do for my image. ALthough in a perfect world it woudlnt matter i really have a feeling 90 percent of the peopel i woudl meet would look at me in a completly differetn way.

Life was about as good as it coudl get, but this is really started to damage my self esteem and its something i spend more time thinking about then i should. Ive been on the big three for almost a month and am praying that my hair loss can be stopped so i coudl at least maintain almost normal looking hair, any more hair loss and it will be obvious i am balding and that would really be a bummer. I try and stay positive and i still feel lucky to be in teh situation i am in life and to be the person i am so im just praying for hair loss to stop and maybe some regrowth, that is honestly my only concern i have.