Can I do better than my ex-girlfriend?

Feelsbadman

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With your current state of mind I don't think you will find anyone.

If you work on yourself then I am sure you can find someone who is not a cheating skank.
Thanks buddy but i think if u don't meet womens minimum requirements u are screwed

im short pale, not that good looking
 

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Thanks buddy but i think if u don't meet womens minimum requirements u are screwed

im short pale, not that good looking
You have always been the same hight, finasteride did not make you pale and you only lost some hair so I highly doubt you look that different compared to 2 years ago but then you labeled yourself as aesthetic.
 

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You have always been the same hight, finasteride did not make you pale and you only lost some hair so I highly doubt you look that different compared to 2 years ago but then you labeled yourself as aesthetic.
maybe ur right man but i swear my skin changed but what finasteride has done its really lowered my libido so i dont really care about women anymore
i wonder if ill ever get a girl as hot as my skank ex. lucky i didnt marry her or get a serious relationshipw ith hr
 

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You must accept your lot in life. Bald guys aren't supposed to get married or have children. Don't fight it. I have been working on accepting it for around a year and I'm almost there.
 

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Don't listen to defeatist crap like this.
On the contrary, I'd say that one shouldn't listen to people who try to deceive you by giving you false hope. I used to believe all of the positive nonsense that people say about bald guys (a bald guy who is successful or intelligent or socially savvy or in shape has almost as good a chance with women as a non bald guy). It's simply untrue. I've been single and rejected for over 3 years. I've had a professional photoshoot and I still get no results on dating services. The truth hurts, but there it is. Bald guys do not get married and have children in the modern day.
 

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On the contrary, I'd say that one shouldn't listen to people who try to deceive you by giving you false hope. I used to believe all of the positive nonsense that people say about bald guys (a bald guy who is successful or intelligent or socially savvy or in shape has almost as good a chance with women as a non bald guy).
- Men with a good head of hair have better chances, this is a fact. Just like men with a normal nose have better chances than men with a more ugly nose. This does not mean that you are completely a lost cause.

I've been single and rejected for over 3 years. I've had a professional photoshoot and I still get no results on dating services. The truth hurts, but there it is.
I am sorry that that is your experience. I also don't think doing a professional photoshoot will truly improve anyone's chances tbh... I would say it could even make you come across as overly vain. (online) dating services are not your best option if you are a (below) average looking man.


Bald guys do not get married and have children in the modern day.
Literally went to a wedding in March 2020 from a 35 year old Norwood 4 with a stunning wife
 

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- Men with a good head of hair have better chances, this is a fact. Just like men with a normal nose have better chances than men with a more ugly nose. This does not mean that you are completely a lost cause.
Hair is one factor

I know some men who went bald and still married beautiful women.
 

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- Men with a good head of hair have better chances, this is a fact. Just like men with a normal nose have better chances than men with a more ugly nose. This does not mean that you are completely a lost cause.


I am sorry that that is your experience. I also don't think doing a professional photoshoot will truly improve anyone's chances tbh... I would say it could even make you come across as overly vain. (online) dating services are not your best option if you are a (below) average looking man.



Literally went to a wedding in March 2020 from a 35 year old Norwood 4 with a stunning wife
Age 35 Norwood 4 is doing pretty well. He could have been age 25 Norwood 2 (which is not considered hair loss by the average person) and age 30 Norwood 30. I think that most guys here would love to make it to age 35 with Norwood 4 only. So I don't think that guy counts. Norwood 4 at age 35 is still bad but it's the kind of hair loss that only makes you feel horrible. Aggressive hair loss makes you feel horrible and ruins every semblance of a life that you used to have too.

Are there any good options for a below average looking man? Hobbies and interests don't work. Online dating services don't work. Approaching in person doesn't work. What does work?
what.if i nevee get a giel like her again?
You won't and that's fine. As a bald guy, you aren't expected to get a girl again. You're strong and have a satisfying life. You can handle this truth and live with it. Tell yourself that.
 

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Age 35 Norwood 4 is doing pretty well. He could have been age 25 Norwood 2 (which is not considered hair loss by the average person) and age 30 Norwood 30. I think that most guys here would love to make it to age 35 with Norwood 4 only. So I don't think that guy counts. Norwood 4 at age 35 is still bad but it's the kind of hair loss that only makes you feel horrible. Aggressive hair loss makes you feel horrible and ruins every semblance of a life that you used to have too.

Are there any good options for a below average looking man? Hobbies and interests don't work. Online dating services don't work. Approaching in person doesn't work. What does work?

You won't and that's fine. As a bald guy, you aren't expected to get a girl again. You're strong and have a satisfying life. You can handle this truth and live with it. Tell yourself that.
I would send y'all a compilation of young bald dudes I know who are with above average women if there wasn't a privacy issue.
 

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1. she was hot
w2. it was my fault she cheated

So you are only asking: "can I get a hot girlfriend with a horrible personality again?

Did you force her at gunpoint to f*** some other guy? If no, then you did not force her

Really hope you answer both questions
 

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So you are only asking: "can I get a hot girlfriend with a horrible personality again?

Did you force her at gunpoint to f*** some other guy? If no, then you did not force her

Really hope you answer both questions
It sucks man i fucke up i didn't treat her right and took her for granted so she broke up wih me and then asked if we can go back to dating but during this time she was f*****g random guys and lying to me about it and was acting like she was my gf so i guess technically she didn't cheat but it still hurt a lot that she lied to me and banged 2 different guys in a week and a half

Since her i haven't had sex or kissed an attractive girl or had a gf finasteride has made my body look like sh*t and i've lst my sex drive i wish i could go back to the 6-7 months when i was with her when i had hair and a high drive and we wud f*** and it was so fun man

I'm short pale and baldig and my physique and gone to sh*t for some reason despite working out 6 x a week
some of us just arnt meant to have a gf
 

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Age 35 Norwood 4 is doing pretty well. He could have been age 25 Norwood 2 (which is not considered hair loss by the average person) and age 30 Norwood 30. I think that most guys here would love to make it to age 35 with Norwood 4 only. So I don't think that guy counts. Norwood 4 at age 35 is still bad but it's the kind of hair loss that only makes you feel horrible. Aggressive hair loss makes you feel horrible and ruins every semblance of a life that you used to have too.

Are there any good options for a below average looking man? Hobbies and interests don't work. Online dating services don't work. Approaching in person doesn't work. What does work?

You won't and that's fine. As a bald guy, you aren't expected to get a girl again. You're strong and have a satisfying life. You can handle this truth and live with it. Tell yourself that.

He was a Norwood 3 at 25 and now he is between a NW4 en 5. Had a perfect hairline and on top of that great hair in general when he went to college.

At the moment the options are limited. But you can use this time to increase your dating value for when we come out of the lockdown and then you should go to places where you will find women with similar interests.
 

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It sucks man i fucke up i didn't treat her right and took her for granted so she broke up wih me and then asked if we can go back to dating but during this time she was f*****g random guys and lying to me about it and was acting like she was my gf so i guess technically she didn't cheat but it still hurt a lot that she lied to me and banged 2 different guys in a week and a half

Since her i haven't had sex or kissed an attractive girl or had a gf finasteride has made my body look like sh*t and i've lst my sex drive i wish i could go back to the 6-7 months when i was with her when i had hair and a high drive and we wud f*** and it was so fun man

I'm short pale and baldig and my physique and gone to sh*t for some reason despite working out 6 x a week
some of us just arnt meant to have a gf
As expected, you did not answer the first question
 

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He was a Norwood 3 at 25 and now he is between a NW4 en 5. Had a perfect hairline and on top of that great hair in general when he went to college.

At the moment the options are limited. But you can use this time to increase your dating value for when we come out of the lockdown and then you should go to places where you will find women with similar interests.
Right and do you know when he met his current wife? What was his Norwood then? I still think that NW4 is amenable to toppik and if somebody offered me NW4 today, I'd pay up to 60% of my salary for at least the next 3 years to have it. NW4 would be a gift from the heavens.

How does a bald guy increase his dating value besides transploants, meds, hair systems etc.? And even when a pandemic is not on, how does a bald guy go about getting a girlfriend?
 
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