Whilst these 'number 3' people have no right to preach to other members how to feel about their hair, they still may feel terrible about their situation. Between norwood 1 and 2 shouldn't really be a concern for anyone but you don't have to be fully bald before you do something about it.
This has to be one of the most entertaining threads I have read in a long time here. Highhairline, your posts are "priceless". I mean that in the positive sense. Your perspective of how you view your hairline is totally different from the rest of the world. Most people see it as normal but you don't. I finally realized that unless you change that perspective your life is going to be one of misery. I advise you to look into a hair transplant when you can finally afford one but I really think that might never be enough for you. You have to accept yourself as you are. I know it hard because you and I think alike. But it is possible if you just try. Try to focus on something else instead of your hair. Focus on doing something great for society and you will learn your hairline is not really a handicap from preventing you to be well respected for you great deeds.