Cringeworthy experience at a nightclub last night

[Mr White]

I saw a balding guy on the dance floor, he could not be more than 22 years old although he looked older to everyone else. Had an nw3 hairline with a huge bald spot on the crown and he look so awkward and out of place that it made me sick to my stomach because that would be me without the treatments. It wasn't just the fact that he was severely balding but you could tell he was very nervous and uncomfortable and was desperately trying to fit in with everyone else who was nw1.He was the only bald guy there and i can now see just how much it would effect your interactions with the hot young women. I had to get that of my chest because i haven't stopped thinking about it.

OR maybe you're just being paranoid.

 

[blackg]

Or in our case, what society makes of us.

That is the perfect analysis of male pattern baldness!!!!! You said so much in just that one sentence.

 

[Exodus2011]

its apparent but wolf pack is right. u still have most of ur hair

finasteride shud keep u from losing more and prolly grow a lot back since ur early stage

 

[swingline747]

i have a yougner brother whos your age who has no signs of male pattern baldness, while i got diagnosed this year when i saw the Doctor. -_-

a LOT of people under estimate how bad this actually is. They hear us talk about it but dont know how damaging it really is. When you have siblings and they will never lose their hair its like a slap in the face by life every time you have to see them. People (girls) do the "YOU TWO ARE BROTHERS???" and its like a hot knife being jabbed in your eye.
They're basically saying "but youre soooo ugly"

 

[Abu Hairy Al-Forhedi]

that was during the day man.. no flash
lol
i think finasteride has definetly reduced my shedding cause in the shower after putting conditioner in my hair i was losing easily 30-50 hairs in my hands, but now when i condition barely 5

but yeah i like to keep it 0 shaved.. and thats what it'll be till the day i die

You have good chance for decent recovery. Asians respond to finasteride well and have fewer sides..

 

[winnyblues]

a LOT of people under estimate how bad this actually is. They hear us talk about it but dont know how damaging it really is. When you have siblings and they will never lose their hair its like a slap in the face by life every time you have to see them. People (girls) do the "YOU TWO ARE BROTHERS???" and its like a hot knife being jabbed in your eye.
They're basically saying "but youre soooo ugly"

Sucks balls
Lol my bro has a beatles style fringe aka Bruce lee. I used to have it... i dont mind shaving my head to a 0 guard, but being stuck with one hairstyle (which is essentially what balding is) sucks
My dad is nw2 with thicl hair an dhes 53
i have worst hair than my dad fml

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You have good chance for decent recovery. Asians respond to finasteride well and have fewer sides..

Ive been on finasteride for just over 6 months and although my hairline hasnt gotten any worst (so maybe its working), cant really tell if its doing anything
i tried minoxidil for 6 months and it didnt do anything

 

[swingline747]

Sucks balls
Lol my bro has a beatles style fringe aka Bruce lee. I used to have it... i dont mind shaving my head to a 0 guard, but being stuck with one hairstyle (which is essentially what balding is) sucks
My dad is nw2 with thicl hair an dhes 53
i have worst hair than my dad fml

In my town theres an Italian eatery we go to and theres 3 brothers who run it under their dad. My age guys. I just found out the youngest is basically NW6, the other two NW0. I made the mistake, ME, of assuming he was the oldest. They then proceeded to jab him. As far as Im aware hes also the only single brother as there are pictures of the other two up in the place with their wives.

My brother has hair like Dean Winchester (Jensen Eckles), I have hair like Crowley.

 

[DoctorHouse]

In my town theres an Italian eatery we go to and theres 3 brothers who run it under their dad. My age guys. I just found out the youngest is basically NW6, the other two NW0. I made the mistake, ME, of assuming he was the oldest. They then proceeded to jab him. As far as Im aware hes also the only single brother as there are pictures of the other two up in the place with their wives.

My brother has hair like Dean Winchester (Jensen Eckles), I have hair like Crowley.

LOL at the Supernatural reference. Poor Sam is losing his hair but its slow. He has receded quite a bit but I don't think he will every be like Crowley. Jensen Ackles hit the hair jackpot but there are some old episodes and you can see he has some thinning at the vertex or it might just be a cowlick. There was a rumor that Jensen wears a system but I don't believe it. I think Castiel might be wearing a partial system as in older episodes his hair was thinning.

 

[ofcrash]

I saw a balding guy on the dance floor, he could not be more than 22 years old although he looked older to everyone else. Had an nw3 hairline with a huge bald spot on the crown and he look so awkward and out of place that it made me sick to my stomach because that would be me without the treatments. It wasn't just the fact that he was severely balding but you could tell he was very nervous and uncomfortable and was desperately trying to fit in with everyone else who was nw1.He was the only bald guy there and i can now see just how much it would effect your interactions with the hot young women. I had to get that of my chest because i haven't stopped thinking about it.

Grown up. Out of place? I have been to many dance clubs with people aged between 20 to 30, some balds, other with nw3 or bald crown, and no one care or give a fk. They just interact without any problem or rejection. The situation you described is more about kids, inmature people and insecured guys like you who demonize the fact of getting bald.

You really think it affects your interactions with hot young women?. Have you ever have a hot young women as a girlfriend? Having hair had increased your luck of getting hot girls?

I guess, you really don't know what a real woman wants from a man, if you think they just want a man with hair and who is good looking, then you will just get superficial inmature hot girls that won't last with you.

 

[winnyblues]

That all may be true but imagine if you are 18-30 y.o, and you see a beautiful woman of the same age. If she has men falling all over her and she has the choice to pick who she wants, why would she pick someone who is bald or balding?

Of crash i point thththis at u

 

[xetudor]

All girls are immature. Women don't seem to ever grow up and that's why you can see dating profiles of 49 year old women demanding men who have all their hair and no grey hair.

What does that mean? That we have to rationalize all our rejections day in day out? Because 95% of people in this society are immature then. What a nice social life to have.

Those 49 old women demanding men with hair on dating sites maybe just have an issue. The other women are in relationships with 50% of men with a lot of hair loss by age 50. It's just an observation bias.

I understand hot young women demanding the best they can get but at 49 you don't even have that much to choose from. And by then men look younger than women it seems. Attractive old male actors look better than attractive old female actors or it's just my opinion. Has anyone else noticed this?

 

[ofcrash]

All girls are immature. Women don't seem to ever grow up and that's why you can see dating profiles of 49 year old women demanding men who have all their hair and no grey hair.

What does that mean? That we have to rationalize all our rejections day in day out? Because 95% of people in this society are immature then. What a nice social life to have.

If a 49 year old women demand a men with all their hair, then i would demand from her no cellulitis, wrinkles etc. Seriously, if a woman profile is so ridiculous to have tastes based on the hair rather than qualities of your personality, then she doesn't worth it. Why do you think she is 49 and still single or divorce? You want to attract that kind of women?

You don't have to expose yourself to rejections day in day out, you just have to focused on different type of girls, those include hot girls that don't care about your hair or baldness, is more about how you deal with it.

If you are still concern about what other people think about you, or still been rejected by hot girls because of your baldness or nw1, then try to fix it. If minoxidil and propecia doesn't work on you, then work hard and save some money for an operation.

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That all may be true but imagine if you are 18-30 y.o, and you see a beautiful woman of the same age. If she has men falling all over her and she has the choice to pick who she wants, why would she pick someone who is bald or balding?

Of crash i point thththis at u

It all depends on what that particular beautiful woman wants from a guy. There are many types of beautiful woman or hot girls that are not interested in a handsome guy. If she is between 25-30 and wanting a man who is self confident, sociable, that have a good conversation,good job, funny and knows what he wants from life, who do you think she would pick up, the guy with hair that is concern about his hairstyle, but is a crap and boring?. However, if you look very ugly with your baldness, then you will have to work harder, but is not impossible.

Regarding girls with 18-25 year old, most of them are immature, party a lot and want the handsome guy (not always). I wouldn't bother with them, but i have realized many of them wouldn't mind if you are bald, but with a good body shape.