There was this religious girl in my junior college. She was very religious. She wanted to be a biochemist, but she didn't believe in evolution.
Anyway, one time in philosophy class she said the reason she behaves nicely and politely with other people is that she wants to go to heaven.
This is to generalise of course, but there's a scary driven way to Christian people that is sociopathic and narcissistic (because that's what their leader is), and this girl reminds me of it. She doesn't care about anyone, not truly, all she cares about is her own personal gain and what she needs to achieve it.
Manufactured love will only get you so far, you can only fake a feeling for so long because your entire life is not a stage performance, and time after time religious people prove themselves to be the nastiest individuals with such moral contempt over non-believers.
Miracles happen for those that are lucky. I am yet to here a person of strict religion answer the question of child rape and trafficking. There are simply atrocities too horrendous on this earth for there to exist any God. If there was a God, he would never let an innocent child be born, suffer with intestines full of parasites and die. It makes absolutely no sense. You ask a religious person and they mumble the usual vague bullsh*t, "it's all part of God's plan". If there is a God, he is a sick, sick bastard. Fact.
This is always a relevant argument but I somewhat understand the way Christians refute or debunk the thought, and you probably do as well, but in this life our pain and suffering is meant to be only temporary, the awful things you just used as examples are just a blip in our journey to the most important thing of all- eternity in heaven (although you made an excellent example of a baby born only to die, technically that child will die in sin without salvation, at God's choosing).
But here's another hypocrisy, if this life is practically downplayed as irrelevant, it's just a physical and barbaric representation of the soul, then why the f*** is it also so important? We only have one shot in this life to determine what happens in the next "real" life, yet when it's argued that God can do what he wants with this reality because it's simply a test, then it turns out this little test becomes very important in deciding your eternal livelihood. The more you break it down, the more insane it gets.
But nothing sums up how sick God is, and how nonsensical he is, than sending his own son to earth, to get stoned and die, and the reason? To make a point. What kind of person would do that to their own child?
I literally can't think of a worse example of morality through any historical context of horrible things happening, nobody has ever been sick enough to intentionally send their baby to grow up into a life of eventual torture and sacrifice.