depression..

[FlopTurnRiver]

I sympathise with you. I know the deep dark pit of depression that hair loss will drive you forth into.

However regarding your point about needing money for a hair transplant. Nothing will bring you back from nw6. The last ship sailed long ago.

 

[swingline747]

Couldn't hurt me to get ex from 6 to like 3 or 4, we all chip in like $100 he should be good to go. It may bring some notoriety to the plight.... What exactly is RU, I forget. Been contemplating trying finasteride again.

 

[Exodus2011]

lol man you don't even have to sweat it. i'm considering talking to my cousins about it. they are bald too but are full jewish and arent the result of a bald jew getting with an easy asian woman so theyre successful. somehow they have jobs and girlfriends

when i really think about it, my confidence has always been extremely low. i wud have been an incel and maybe even jobless even if i had kept my hair. well prolly have a job at least but definitely not a girl. my social skills are too fukked and i'm way too awkward lolz

 

[swingline747]

lol man you don't even have to sweat it. i'm considering talking to my cousins about it. they are bald too but are full jewish and arent the result of a bald jew getting with an easy asian woman so theyre successful. somehow they have jobs and girlfriends

when i really think about it, my confidence has always been extremely low. i wud have been an incel and maybe even jobless even if i had kept my hair. well prolly have a job at least but definitely not a girl. my social skills are too fukked and i'm way too awkward lolz

Then god speed on finding a hot chick with aspergers. Maybe she has a sister??

 

[Exodus2011]

Then god speed on finding a hot chick with aspergers. Maybe she has a sister??

lol i don't even really care too much about girls anymore. i care more about trying to get decent money so i can stay inside and away from norwood 1s and just live in peace smoking weed and playing games and listening to music and such

i just gotta get over my social fears first.

 

[scorpiolove]

To Exodus, social anxiety is a disability, maybe you should go on disability for a while untill you get over your social fears, at least you would have a residual income and would have money to think about treatments for your hair and contemplate going out for a few beers once in a while to break out of your shell.
Lots of people listen to music and smoke weed and play video games, if you had a few friends over that shared your interests, life would be much better for you.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

lol i don't even really care too much about girls anymore.

IMPOSSIBLE! You are just telling yourself that to make this **** less painful. For guys to write off chicks just isn't normal or the healthy thing to do. It is in our DNA to want to bang chics. If we could just quit wanting them like that most of us would since they are usually a pain in the *** to deal with.

Lower your standards and get back in the game.

 

[Exodus2011]

lol i was never in the game to begin with . i cant play the game right now.

and at least theres p**rn to help. i really do appreciate it, its such a lifesaver for a guy like me.

and well its funny i had a uber realistic dream about having casual sex with a chubby 6/10 white blonde girl at a party with red cups and stuff.

it was still a great feeling that a girl liked me. **** tripped me out when i woke up

 

[Notcoolanymore]

and well its funny i had a uber realistic dream about having casual sex with a chubby 6/10 white blonde girl at a party

Nothing to be ashamed of if it did happen in real life. Fact is that although everybody on here has stories of how they were banging 9's and 10's before hair loss, the reality is that they most likely also have been banging 5's and 6's.

 

[swingline747]

Nothing to be ashamed of if it did happen in real life. Fact is that although everybody on here has stories of how they were banging 9's and 10's before hair loss, the reality is that they most likely also have been banging 5's and 6's.

they were 9's to them

 

[winnyblues]

they were 9's to them

lets be serious
when people say they were banging 9s and 10s before hair loss thats bull****.
i highly doubt anyone on this forum bar a few would have slept with a 9 let alone a 10. and if they say they have their standards are way lower than mine, because a 10 imo is a goddess, someone strikingly beautiful.

im sorry but i highly doubt many on this forum have slept with 8s let alone 9s or 10s.

 

[swingline747]

lets be serious
when people say they were banging 9s and 10s before hair loss thats bull****.
i highly doubt anyone on this forum bar a few would have slept with a 9 let alone a 10. and if they say they have their standards are way lower than mine, because a 10 imo is a goddess, someone strikingly beautiful.

im sorry but i highly doubt many on this forum have slept with 8s let alone 9s or 10s.

There is a diff tho in what you were getting and what you could get. I said I never "dated" 10's but I had their attention ALL THE TIME. My GFs were "cute" thats what I liked more. Almost homely, BUT I had some extremely HOT women/girls come on to me when out at bars and clubs. I remember being out with my old drummer and two stippers (this was not a strip bar) sent drinks over to me which started conversation and led to me taking one out a few times. They were SMOKING HOT!
My friend met his now wife all because her and her friend paid MY entry into a club one night. They were in line in front of us and they just paid for me to get in.
I had gorgeous women hit on me all the time. They used to say I looked like Tom cruise, which I never saw. In fact one night at a club with a girl A GUY told me in front of her I looked like Tom Cruise. In fact earlier that day a women said it while I was working on her house. This woman was old tho, still wanted some action but nothing I would brag about.
I had women at my old jobs hit on me CONSTANTLY! But I couldnt risk the job.
Me and my brother would go to bars, clubs and strip bars and I would have girls eating out of my hands. I CAN BE marginally charming when I want to be. I used to go to friends colleges and hook up with college girls all the time. My problem was I was always in a relationship so I lost A LOT of opportunity. I see my brother in the same mistake. Kid is great looking and in a relationship he hates. I think we're both doomed that way.

I could have had 10s all day. Actually my current GF was a fuqing TWELVE when we met. Good god what happened there!

Then again my 10 is someone elses 3 lol

 

[Exodus2011]

There is a diff tho in what you were getting and what you could get. I said I never "dated" 10's but I had their attention ALL THE TIME. My GFs were "cute" thats what I liked more. Almost homely, BUT I had some extremely HOT women/girls come on to me when out at bars and clubs. I remember being out with my old drummer and two stippers (this was not a strip bar) sent drinks over to me which started conversation and led to me taking one out a few times. They were SMOKING HOT!
My friend met his now wife all because her and her friend paid MY entry into a club one night. They were in line in front of us and they just paid for me to get in.
I had gorgeous women hit on me all the time. They used to say I looked like Tom cruise, which I never saw. In fact one night at a club with a girl A GUY told me in front of her I looked like Tom Cruise. In fact earlier that day a women said it while I was working on her house. This woman was old tho, still wanted some action but nothing I would brag about.
I had women at my old jobs hit on me CONSTANTLY! But I couldnt risk the job.
Me and my brother would go to bars, clubs and strip bars and I would have girls eating out of my hands. I CAN BE marginally charming when I want to be. I used to go to friends colleges and hook up with college girls all the time. My problem was I was always in a relationship so I lost A LOT of opportunity. I see my brother in the same mistake. Kid is great looking and in a relationship he hates. I think we're both doomed that way.

I could have had 10s all day. Actually my current GF was a fuqing TWELVE when we met. Good god what happened there!

Then again my 10 is someone elses 3 lol

i'm left spechless

how many females have you had intercourse with throughout your life?

and how exactly did you know these girls liked you? they were giving you dat look?

 

[swingline747]

Sometimes they let themselves go once they get their hooks into a guy, especially after they have kids. They use that as an excuse. If I were ever a 12, I'd make sure I stayed one as long as possible, especially if my BF worked out as much as you do. I wish I had her attitude and wasn't so critical of myself.

She is delusional. Has some mental issues as well, Ive learned since living together. She knows she is screwed when I get my cash and run which is why she fights me so hard on it. She'll NEVER get another guy in my shape, who works hard and knows how to do all the stuff I do and she is just as vain as me even though she wont outright say it. She only likes guys who are younger but there is NO WAY she could pull that now.

She also makes a good salary and thinks that is better than looking good. I tell her all time she isnt lavishing me with gifts or paying the bills so why do I give a fuq what she makes.

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i'm left spechless

how many females have you had intercourse with throughout your life?

and how exactly did you know these girls liked you? they were giving you dat look?

Ive done okay. Like I said tho I was always in relationships and never cheated so poo on me I guess. I went through a spurt tho right before I met my current gf where I was a maniac. I was just dipping it in WHATEVER, always going out, having fun, banging strippers, etc. I would "meet up" with like 3 different girls during the day.
I would always know they were interested by eye contact. Though sometimes I would just start talking to girls with no intention of picking them up but would. Other times they would talk to me. Im a very EASY person to conversate with. Though like I said I would pretty much hit ANYTHING! So they werent all "winners" wed say.

 

[Exodus2011]

She is delusional. Has some mental issues as well, Ive learned since living together. She knows she is screwed when I get my cash and run which is why she fights me so hard on it. She'll NEVER get another guy in my shape, who works hard and knows how to do all the stuff I do and she is just as vain as me even though she wont outright say it. She only likes guys who are younger but there is NO WAY she could pull that now.

She also makes a good salary and thinks that is better than looking good. I tell her all time she isnt lavishing me with gifts or paying the bills so why do I give a fuq what she makes.

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Ive done okay. Like I said tho I was always in relationships and never cheated so poo on me I guess. I went through a spurt tho right before I met my current gf where I was a maniac. I was just dipping it in WHATEVER, always going out, having fun, banging strippers, etc. I would "meet up" with like 3 different girls during the day.
I would always know they were interested by eye contact. Though sometimes I would just start talking to girls with no intention of picking them up but would. Other times they would talk to me. Im a very EASY person to conversate with. Though like I said I would pretty much hit ANYTHING! So they werent all "winners" wed say.

haha wow i see . . . . interesting. but back then you had hair so you didn't care as much for getting only cute girls eh?

 

[swingline747]

haha wow i see . . . . interesting. but back then you had hair so you didn't care as much for getting only cute girls eh?

yeah its funny how that works. You know you COULD get a cutie but why put in the effort when this is right here. Im not saying I was a womanizer or would lead girls on but if they were willing so was I.
I was actually VERY good at trying to remain friends with girls I would fool around with. They not so much.
Now that my hair stinks, I just dont get that attention nor work for it and taking a slummy girl would only feel like "this is what you deserve". I mean Im not saying I "deserve" anything cause thats a schitty way to look at things, I just dont want someone who doesnt care for their body. One thing I never did was get into big girls. I like some thickness but not BIG.

 

[scorpiolove]

Swingline,The situation with your GF sounds really messed up, you should really care what shes making financially.
She could get rich working at a taco bell, while you labour your___ off and try to look your best, she could be working on the other end.
Say theoretically,that she made a thousand dollars monthly while you pay all the expenses, over a eight year time span that's about 100k in her pocket, expense free, plus she gets a settlement after all is said and done.
Your losing while shes doing nothing but gaining, shes milking you for all she can, the sooner you let go of her the better off you'll be in the long term.