Frankly, I'm insulted by the insinuation that this is in my head. These side effects are acknowledged by Merck (the same company involved in the Vioxx saga no less) and my experience is very similar, if not identical, to a number of people who have suffered an adverse reaction to using this drug. Sorry, but the suggestion that I would get performance anxiety in my own company when I had experienced a period of improvement which had led me to believe this would soon be properly behind me is farcical. Nor does anxiety explain my inability to even register interest in attractive girls (in other words, looking at hot girls, knowing I should be instantly attracted and yet feeling somehow disconnected from my member and like I'm looking at an inanimate object) or to get an erection by myself (to answer your question, Threeshew, it stays completely flaccid). For the record, my libido was non-existent for two weeks, showed signs of recovering over the last 3 days (days 14-16 since I took my last pill), and has flatlined again today.
Threeshew - my reference to this drug as 'poison' isn't to do with the fact that it keeps your hair. I don't dispute that many people - perhaps the majority of finasteride users - have good results in that department. I believe this drug is poisonous for a significant number of users because of the hormonal alterations that take place. The conclusion that the drug is safe because you haven't experienced side effects personally is about as sensible as a lifetime smoker declaring cigarettes safe because they personally haven't yet suffered lung cancer.
Furthermore, I understand the thought process involved in writing off my experience (and the experience of many other users) as being in our collective minds. By being dismissive and marginalising those who suffer side effects, you're effectively reassuring yourself that you'll be fine, which allows you to take the tablet with a clear mind. I'm not trying to be self-righteous here - as I said in my initial post, I've read this forum for 12+ months and I went through the same process myself when I started on finasteride (though I basically ignored the side-effects sub-forum). I was always convincing myself that the users who cited the FDA stats and the official Merck line whenever someone posted a bad side-effects story were right, and that the people complaining of sides were hypochondriacs because that is how they were received by the majority.
Again, I'm hopeful that everything will come good and I understand it is still very early in the piece, but it is very disconcerting nonetheless.