This is a funny topic. Basically Thinning is arguing that loud, obnoxious women with low self-esteem are synonymous with fat women, which is an extremely idiotic thing to do. Generalize them as what they are. Loud, obnoxious women with low self-esteem can look like nearly anything, but I agree that fat women are more likely to have low self-esteem. However, I know tons of fat people that are very nice (though, fat MEN tend to be more jolly). Bash them for the personality stereotype they fulfill if you want, the fat thing's stupid and you come off as a huge prick. It's like hating everyone who plays sports cause the jocks in schools tend to be the ones that administer swirlies, etc.
Even Overweight Girls Wont Date Bald Men
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Really? I think you are the one who comes off as a huge prick, with your holier than thou attitude, Im sure you date women who are fat and dont care a bit about physical appearances, lol.
Its too bad you cant be as honest with yourself and others as I can. You think I am stupid but you bind yourself to political correct mentality and group think.
Have fun following the herd and fooling yourself into thinking you are a great person.
Its too bad you cant be as honest with yourself and others as I can. You think I am stupid but you bind yourself to political correct mentality and group think.
Have fun following the herd and fooling yourself into thinking you are a great person.
Johnny24601
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Labelling groups as this or that is ignorant and part of the problem with all this back and forth on this issue. Are there fat chicks who are uselss and superficial, yes, are all fat chicks useless and superficial, no way. Anyone who tries to diminish another individual is simply expressing their own self loathing and lack of self esteem.
The biggest issue for baldng men to confront is how they deal with their own negative self image. I think it comes in time for most, but for many it is too late as they have already wasted too many years "hiding" from the world. For me, I still grapple with my poor self image because of hairloss but each day I grow better at accepting that this is a biological issue I have no control over and it does not define me. This is all sort of an illusion where society has deemed bald men as somewhat ugly. The good news is that now a days men can really pull off the shaved or whiffle look with a good looking body is a real turn on to many many women. Men also have many more options for treating hairloss as well.
I do find it interesting that in American society a fat woman is really in a bad place as far as finding a mate but a fat man can get a good woman as long as he has money. Very primal.
Labelling groups as this or that is ignorant and part of the problem with all this back and forth on this issue. Are there fat chicks who are uselss and superficial, yes, are all fat chicks useless and superficial, no way. Anyone who tries to diminish another individual is simply expressing their own self loathing and lack of self esteem.
The biggest issue for baldng men to confront is how they deal with their own negative self image. I think it comes in time for most, but for many it is too late as they have already wasted too many years "hiding" from the world. For me, I still grapple with my poor self image because of hairloss but each day I grow better at accepting that this is a biological issue I have no control over and it does not define me. This is all sort of an illusion where society has deemed bald men as somewhat ugly. The good news is that now a days men can really pull off the shaved or whiffle look with a good looking body is a real turn on to many many women. Men also have many more options for treating hairloss as well.
I do find it interesting that in American society a fat woman is really in a bad place as far as finding a mate but a fat man can get a good woman as long as he has money. Very primal.
Well put. I wanted to say that many times but decided to follow my sister's boyfriend's advice and not become a loser by arguing with people online. Helping men with their hair is another thing that may be worth it.
I just want to say though that "fat b****s" is a very strong word, and while justified for fat women who put down inshape bald men just to make themselves feel better, it should not be used for fat women who just want to date bald me because they want a guy with a hot bady but can get one with muscles AND hair. This second group of women is just lazy and maybe dreaming, but definitely are not b****s. So to avoid the possibility of anyone thinking we are misogenistic, it is very important to be specific about who we are talking about when we use such words, every time we post them.
Also, JayMan has said many times we should not attack fat people. I agree, and I think JayMan needs to draw the line between guys who are venting about something an actual fat woman said to him or about a bald guy, and guys on here who are just attacking fat women to feel better about their hair loss. The first category is the point of this forum, and the second category is just wrong.
templemonk
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man stop with your sister and her boyfriend
who cares about them.. seriously
what happened to them and their friends dont mean anything!
stop overanalizin things about girls.. it ain't even like that..
who cares about them.. seriously
what happened to them and their friends dont mean anything!
stop overanalizin things about girls.. it ain't even like that..
everyone has a weak spot.
fat.
slow in the brain.
low selfesteem.
poor.
mental illness.
gay.
the wrong skin color.
small dick.
bad social skills.
whatever.
people will always bash eachother for some weakness.
nodoby is bullet proof.
i think what comes around goes around,be mean to ppl they _will_ call you a bald a**h**.
be friendly and it will return in a good way.
and its about now i will get replies about being holier then thou.
you bald a**h**
fat.
slow in the brain.
low selfesteem.
poor.
mental illness.
gay.
the wrong skin color.
small dick.
bad social skills.
whatever.
people will always bash eachother for some weakness.
nodoby is bullet proof.
i think what comes around goes around,be mean to ppl they _will_ call you a bald a**h**.
be friendly and it will return in a good way.
and its about now i will get replies about being holier then thou.
you bald a**h**
templemonk
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for me, its more like its cool that everyone does it to each other.. they can hate me back for whatever reason.. cuz they're jealous or cuz im losing hair.
i also think that people can't take anything from anyone thesedays.. not many people can take a joke like a joke. i can see some crosses the lines but if everyone cries on those 'stepping on line' jokes, those people are gonna do it even more .. thats just how people are.
i know i'll be offended somewhat if my friends make joke about hairloss or bald men but if i get upset or act like im offended, things are gonna get worse. man im too faded .. i can't keep up with what i wanna say right now hahah
i also think that people can't take anything from anyone thesedays.. not many people can take a joke like a joke. i can see some crosses the lines but if everyone cries on those 'stepping on line' jokes, those people are gonna do it even more .. thats just how people are.
i know i'll be offended somewhat if my friends make joke about hairloss or bald men but if i get upset or act like im offended, things are gonna get worse. man im too faded .. i can't keep up with what i wanna say right now hahah
hairwegoagain
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You've just defined the ritual of dating - very good! Not only do you have to like her, she has to like you! Don't be bitter if every girl you like doesn't reciprocate!
hairwegoagain
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templemonk said:
LOL - very true
College, man - you have to stop living through others. You're in your mid 20s, right? Start by getting off the computer. Kick that b**ch out the window. Next, cease this maniacal Dr. Jekyll compulsion of yours. Learn how to talk to women. Get yourself cleaned up. Get out there and lay some pipe, son!
I so agree. Women and men are the same. The only difference is men want a pretty woman, whereas women want a balance between good looks and penis size, with emphasis on the good looks.
Also, women have some different social pressures placed on them, which affects the way they look for sex and what they will admit to. Also, they make less on average than men do, and many know that if they do get pregnant, they will want a guy who can pay child support, support her and her kid a bit, or help pay for an abortion, or something, though I guess men would not mind a woman having enough money to take care of that herself.
BUt aside from all this, they are all the same. It is interesting that so many men are on here depressed about their hair only because they want sex with a pretty woman, and they all are willing to believe that women don't care what you look like. Is there any pretty dress or outfit a fat woman could wear that would make you turned on by her sexually? Not me. That is why I keep telling guys to get in shape, while other people keep telling them they need confidence, not an at least normal, healthy physique.
Also, women have some different social pressures placed on them, which affects the way they look for sex and what they will admit to. Also, they make less on average than men do, and many know that if they do get pregnant, they will want a guy who can pay child support, support her and her kid a bit, or help pay for an abortion, or something, though I guess men would not mind a woman having enough money to take care of that herself.
BUt aside from all this, they are all the same. It is interesting that so many men are on here depressed about their hair only because they want sex with a pretty woman, and they all are willing to believe that women don't care what you look like. Is there any pretty dress or outfit a fat woman could wear that would make you turned on by her sexually? Not me. That is why I keep telling guys to get in shape, while other people keep telling them they need confidence, not an at least normal, healthy physique.
Hans Gruber
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haha ,i like
Johnny24601 said:
haha ,i like
Thinning said:
I'M a prick? For saying that that sort of person comes in all shapes and sizes and that not all fat women are like that? Summarize your stance. As far as I can tell, it's "all fat women are insecure, loudmouthed assholes who will put down whoever is beneath them." There are definitely plenty of fat women like that, but there are definitely plenty of women like that who are skinny too. All I said was that being fat isn't the reason for that. Tons of attractive women have no self esteem and are bitchy people (just look at the average sorority girl).
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Barn's right, 3/4 the fat girls i know are nice. My room walls are porus so i hear conversations next door. One particular skinny b**ch from another floor spotted my hair problem and tried her best to spread the word, she's labeled as a b**ch anyway so people ignore her.
Guess it comes down the their personality, which is heavily bent by mass media... we should blame hollywood if anything! :hairy: and dumb pple too, since they are educated exclusively by pop culture.
Considering the bald gene has been with humans the past tens of thousands of years, only now has it become a social issue.
Guess it comes down the their personality, which is heavily bent by mass media... we should blame hollywood if anything! :hairy: and dumb pple too, since they are educated exclusively by pop culture.
Considering the bald gene has been with humans the past tens of thousands of years, only now has it become a social issue.
i think your wrong i am a goodlooking guy that is balding in the crown im doing something about it now ...for some reason fat ugly girls think that balding guys are for them for god sake its just hair i still want and will get a fine looking women and i aint rich i get her to like me for me.lol