s.a.f said:
Thickandthin said:
I was talking about Entourage with a few friends recently and one of the girls brought up Jeremy Piven and how she thought he was hot now. I told her he wore a toupee and her reaction was basically "so what?"
You're talking about a rich and famous actor who she knows she'll never even meet, She'd have a different opinion if it was an ordinary guy you were talking about.
Partially true, but until a woman sees you bald, she can't fully picture how you would look. She does subtract points for the new info, but not nearly as much as you would think. The key is to change it in the bathroom without her seeing it, and be honest that you need the 10 minutes of privacy for that reason, if need be. Like I said, you lose points, but not as many as if you took it off and let her hold it in her hands. Not sure about that though.
It is like framing your face with hair. As long as she sees your framed face, she sees you as pretty faced guy with a wig. If you don't have the wig and say you will put it on, then she sees you as an ugly faced guy with a wig. She can't picture your face framed vs unframed. Many people can't. When I had my wig, my face looked 10x better. It was not a topper. It had temple flaps, low hairline, everything perfect, for the best frame. I could see my potential without it, but many people don't. You got to help them by framing it for them. Once it is framed, you lose points for the wig, but keep the good face points. They will ask you to take it off, since you have such a good looking face anyway. Don't do it. Ask them to go out with you without make up in raged cloths first.