Girls Only Match The Top 20% - A Tinder Study

[Grasshüpfer]

This is borderline off topic for the impact section, but here you go.

A dude called worst online dater did a tiny study on tinder asking 27 girls to analyse their tinder. So this "study" is in no way statistically viable, but still shows some tendencies in my opinion.
https://medium.com/@worstonlinedate...ably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

About 80% of the girls match only the 20% most attractive guys.
Only 20% of the girls match average guys (so the 80% rest).


This leads to the following experiences:

• Average guy: I write and match a lot, but nothing comes of it, f*** this!
• Average girl: I match with all of the hot guys but they either never answer, it just f*** me a few times and then drop me like an empty beer can.
• Hot guy: Nice!
• Hot girl: I get one million matches, but all the hot guys are assholes and I will never find a husband.

And while many guys here think that girls are mostly ecstatic with having a lot of sex in their 20s... Actually many girls I met are emotionally deeply scarred by being dropped after a f*** so often, to the point that sex has stopped being pleasurable at all for them.

What this means for us is that the 'beta-provider' in the 30s might not be a band aid for girls, but a way for them to finally find some actual partner and not just the next fuckboi.

Although actually I know some girls who slowly become incels in their 30s because they never realised what their problem is.

 

[Dante92]

Only 7/10+ fullheads should use tinder and dating apps. Normies and balding guys should not even be on any social media. I am not, for example.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I'm a norwood 3 with thinning and I still get plenty of tinder matches.

I have a decent face, beard, and body though.

Also 31 and finding age hasn't hurt me too much though I get less matches with 21 year olds (probably a good thing).

As for the top 20% it seems logical - people naturally want a good partner.

 

[Stanx22]

As for the top 20% it seems logical - Women naturally want a PERFECT partner.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Incorrect - walk around the streets and note the amount of women married or in a relationship with mediocre men.

 

[Stanx22]

Incorrect - walk around the streets and note the amount of women married or in a relationship with mediocre men.

Marriage doesn't count because women usually marry less attractive men for money and resources after they age and become undesirable to attractive men. Of course, they usually divorce them or cheat on them with any superior man they could find.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Marriage doesn't count because women usually marry less attractive men for money and resources after they age and become undesirable to attractive men. Of course, they usually divorce them or cheat on them with any superior man they could find.

Most women cant keep a Chad even if they want to.

At least those mediocre men are getting relationships - they may not kill it on tinder but at least there is hope for them.

 

[Stanx22]

Most women cant keep a Chad even if they want to.

At least those mediocre men are getting relationships - they may not kill it on tinder but at least there is hope for them.

Why would the chad settle down with an old hag when he could f*** many prime women ?

 

[Medina]

And while many guys here think that girls are mostly ecstatic with having a lot of sex in their 20s... Actually many girls I met are emotionally deeply scarred by being dropped after a f*** so often, to the point that sex has stopped being pleasurable at all for them.

Girls are more likely to drop the guy after sex. They even have a name for it... it's called the "walk of shame". Don't feel sorry for them, all women have at least 5 or 6 guys on standby. It's not our fault they choose the ones who don't give a sh*t about them.

"Deeply emotionally scarred".... give me a break. If anything it turns them on.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Girls are more likely to drop the guy after sex. They even have a name for it... it's called the "walk of shame". Don't feel sorry for them, all women have at least 5 or 6 guys on standby. It's not our fault they choose the ones who don't give a sh*t about them.

"Deeply emotionally scarred".... give me a break. If anything it turns them on.

Not sure if that's true.

I've never been dropped after sex. Make sure they have a few orgasms and treat them well and there will be seconds.

 

[Min0]

What this means for us is that the 'beta-provider' in the 30s might not be a band aid for girls, but a way for them to finally find some actual partner and not just the next fuckboi.

oh boy, this is the worst cope i've ever read on the internet.

 

[blackg]

Marriage doesn't count because women usually marry less attractive men for money and resources after they age and become undesirable to attractive men. Of course, they usually divorce them or cheat on them with any superior man they could find.

Okay, then what? After these women cheat on their husbands with these mythical "superior men" (I'm assuming these superior men are also in their 30's by this stage), then what happens in this narrative that you are so certain of?????!

Please tell me.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I'm a norwood 3 with thinning and I still get plenty of tinder matches.

I have a decent face, beard, and body though.

Also 31 and finding age hasn't hurt me too much though I get less matches with 21 year olds (probably a good thing).

As for the top 20% it seems logical - people naturally want a good partner.

You're definitely in the top 20%.

 

[blackg]

Not sure if that's true.

I've never been dropped after sex. Make sure they have a few orgasms and treat them well and there will be seconds.

This is something I agree with you on.
A good lover for a woman is hard to find. That's why it's best to take it slow and make these women feel nice for a few hours.
An all nighter is preferable but it takes some stamina on our behalf.

And you're right. You will always be asked back for more.

 

[blackg]

Girls are more likely to drop the guy after sex. They even have a name for it... it's called the "walk of shame". Don't feel sorry for them, all women have at least 5 or 6 guys on standby. It's not our fault they choose the ones who don't give a sh*t about them.

"Deeply emotionally scarred".... give me a break. If anything it turns them on.

The "walk of shame" is hardly spoken of in pride.

Anyway for me, after a misguided all night sex romp, it's the "cab of shame."

 

[blackg]

"Deeply emotionally scarred".... give me a break. If anything it turns them on.

Says Pornhub.

 

[Dante92]

You're definitely in the top 20%.

He knows that very well.

 

[Rudiger]

I'm a norwood 3 with thinning and I still get plenty of tinder matches.

I have a decent face, beard, and body though.

Also 31 and finding age hasn't hurt me too much though I get less matches with 21 year olds (probably a good thing).

As for the top 20% it seems logical - people naturally want a good partner.

Not sure if that's true.

I've never been dropped after sex. Make sure they have a few orgasms and treat them well and there will be seconds.

You're definitely in the top 20%.

He knows that very well.

Bingo! Multiple Award Winning Humble-Brag Artist JohnsonDDG get's his validation yet again.

 

[blackg]

Bingo! Multiple Award Winning Humble-Brag Artist JohnsonDDG get's his validation yet again.

He is just telling it like it is (from his perspective), as we all do.
Don't be so quick to assume his candid nature is a ploy for receiving any kind of validation.

Whether that validation is from the forum or from his own ego.
It's not for any of us to assume.

 

[Pacey123]

Even "chad" will eventually settle for someone because meaningless sex is not all there is. Of course it's nice to f*** but in the end you'll feel emtpy.