Girls Only Match The Top 20% - A Tinder Study

[JohnsonDDG]

Well then you should just ignore the whole point itself, it's not incredibly deep or anything, it's about intentions, and reason.

Your reason for bringing up one single experience, when you're at least smart enough to know this is very pointless in the grand scheme of things, points out your intentions. And you got what you wanted.

Wrestle out of it by saying how lame it is I write for 15 minutes (did I even reply 15mins after you posted? I'm pretty sure I saw it and replied straight away within 5) and backhanded compliments about how I'm so intelligent I need to stop "thinking so hard about you" or- focusing on pointing out your fallacies, but that's about as clear as I can make it, and keep looking the other way.

Anecdotes aren't pointless.

I'm interesting in all of your first hand dating experiences and I wish you were all more candid about your efforts or lack thereof.

 

[Rudiger]

Anecdotes aren't pointless.

That's only true if you have something to correlate them with. If it's just "hey I'm an average guy who gets laid on Tinder, end of story" then all it does it force people into saying "maybe you aren't an average guy".

It falls in line with my previous experiences of your postings and what I've seen others say, it's not like I concluded this off-the-cuff. I think from the way you just wanted to avoid the whole discussion and rather talk about how I should look elsewhere for something to write about, or point out I wreck myself scrambling together thoughts about you, that you know there's a certain truth to this that you need to deflect ASAP.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

That's only true if you have something to correlate them with. If it's just "hey I'm an average guy who gets laid on Tinder, end of story" then all it does it force people into saying "maybe you aren't an average guy".

It falls in line with my previous experiences of your postings and what I've seen others say, it's not like I concluded this off-the-cuff. I think from the way you just wanted to avoid the whole discussion and rather talk about how I should look elsewhere for something to write about, or point out I wreck myself scrambling together thoughts about you, that you know there's a certain truth to this that you need to deflect ASAP.

I just confirmed that I used to think I'm average and now I believe I am somewhat above average.

I'm not bragging about this nor about my experiences with women. They are all real and they are not fabricated/

If anything I am proud to go from an 18 year old virgin to a man who does well for himself.

 

[Rudiger]

I just confirmed that I used to think I'm average and now I believe I am somewhat above average.

I'm not bragging about this nor about my experiences with women. They are all real and they are not fabricated/

If anything I am proud to go from an 18 year old virgin to a man who does well for himself.

Who said they were fabricated?! f*** man, no wonder you think I'm intelligent. I'm done.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

 

[PappinAce]

And while many guys here think that girls are mostly ecstatic with having a lot of sex in their 20s... Actually many girls I met are emotionally deeply scarred by being dropped after a f*** so often, to the point that sex has stopped being pleasurable at all for them.

tragic!

the frat boys and jocks you choose to f*** don't treat you with empathy or give you the commitment you expect? you don't say.

this is the curse western women live with. we built our society on ignorance and division. the majority of american boys don't have to consider a woman's perspective because of how historically women have been objectified and man has been privileged. this leads to boys either treating women like meat or treating them like princesses, neither of which is good, unless your girlfriend wants to be meat or princess.

now women can play a real role, but their applicant pool for dating is horrible USA is so fucked.

 

[Rudiger]

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I know! I know. I'm working on it. I feel like I expressed myself as well as possible in my first few responses, and there was no need to drag it over 2 or 3 pages of text for all to yawn at.

I guess I just get excessively compulsive in ensuring that the other person realises why I disagree with what they're doing/saying, and if that doesn't happen or the point is deflected, I can't stop. This is why I related to hairblues so much and I miss my similarly insane buddy.

 

[CaptainForehead]

It gets repetitive after a while. You meet, you date, you f***, you repeat for a month and then end it. And then process begins again.

Whats the point after a while.

 

[Rudiger]

I'm really not trying to drag it out further, but for me personally, a month of carefree sex with a girl that has no emotional ties or bullshit, is absolutely golden. That is something I would definitely cherish and choose over a lifetime partner, even if I do want children and that sort of lifestyle, I would never get bored of guaranteed f*****g a new woman every month.

 

[Rudiger]

It took me like 4 months to get bored of it.

It's a great challenge at first and let's not kid ourselves, you feel like a stud.

But beyond that? Nothing. And it gets tiring too, especially emotionally.

And then you meet some girl that's special to you and you just know, immediately.

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I got over the "stud" feeling like a decade ago. I'm not kidding myself when I say, I couldn't care less about feeling like an alpha.

Immediately? LOL good luck my friend.

EDIT: Oh I didn't see the picture and sarcasm in Fred's post

 

[Roberto_72]

Do I have to say it?

It is really difficult to have a conversation with @JohnsonDDG wrt the impact of hair loss.

I dare say he is a passive aggressive type wrt hair loss.

PASSIVE: He writes he does well with women, he posts pictures of a next-to-no-hairloss head; basically he implies he does not belong here.

AGGRESSIVE: When you underline that all of that is a bit incoherent with the rest of the gang here, he will make you look stupid by affirming he was just telling the truth and what is the problem, I did not mean to offend anyone.

Typical passive - aggressive speech?
"I look better than you today..... I am joking of course!"

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...01011/10-things-passive-aggressive-people-say

9 and 10

 

[Rudiger]

Do I have to say it?

It is really difficult to have a conversation with @JohnsonDDG wrt the impact of hair loss.

I dare say he is a passive aggressive type wrt hair loss.

PASSIVE: He writes he does well with women, he posts pictures of a next-to-no-hairloss head; basically he implies he does not belong here.

AGGRESSIVE: When you underline that all of that is a bit incoherent with the rest of the gang here, he will make you look stupid by affirming he was just telling the truth and what is the problem, I did not mean to offend anyone.

Typical passive - aggressive speech?
"I look better than you today..... I am joking of course!"

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...01011/10-things-passive-aggressive-people-say

9 and 10

Well this is what I mean by it being totally obvious, but that's a great summary. I just haven't seen the "aggressive" side that much or noticed it (see Johnson? I don't think about you that much).

 

[g.i joey]

Girls are more likely to drop the guy after sex. They even have a name for it... it's called the "walk of shame". Don't feel sorry for them, all women have at least 5 or 6 guys on standby. It's not our fault they choose the ones who don't give a sh*t about them.

"Deeply emotionally scarred".... give me a break. If anything it turns them on.

I think you're completely wrong about this, from mine and others close to me experiences, as long as you didn't prematurely ejaculate or embarrass yourself or her during its super rare that a woman would ghost a man after sex, excluding drunken one night stands.

Doesn't the walk of shame refer to those sunday mornings when girls walk out of the lobbies all messy after a night of being fucked? Idk that's the image I always had, probably because of this song. https://m.soundcloud.com/interscope/slaughterhouse-18-walk-of

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I'm really not trying to drag it out further, but for me personally, a month of carefree sex with a girl that has no emotional ties or bullshit, is absolutely golden. That is something I would definitely cherish and choose over a lifetime partner, even if I do want children and that sort of lifestyle, I would never get bored of guaranteed f*****g a new woman every month.

Then do it - if you are decent looking like you said you are then you should live the way you want.

Let us know how you get on.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Do I have to say it?

It is really difficult to have a conversation with @JohnsonDDG wrt the impact of hair loss.

I dare say he is a passive aggressive type wrt hair loss.

PASSIVE: He writes he does well with women, he posts pictures of a next-to-no-hairloss head; basically he implies he does not belong here.

AGGRESSIVE: When you underline that all of that is a bit incoherent with the rest of the gang here, he will make you look stupid by affirming he was just telling the truth and what is the problem, I did not mean to offend anyone.

Typical passive - aggressive speech?
"I look better than you today..... I am joking of course!"

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...01011/10-things-passive-aggressive-people-say

9 and 10

Arent you a fullhead?

 

[Rudiger]

Then do it - if you are decent looking like you said you are then you should live the way you want.

Let us know how you get on.

No well firstly I said I'm very good looking, secondly I do this all the time already and I don't know what made you assume otherwise. The problem is that you are never guaranteed consistent sex, and no bullshit or guilt.

Arent you a fullhead?

What a f*****g response! Not that it matters, you pituary retard, but Roberto hasn't been a full head for half his adult life. And for me he's just exposed in concise and simple terms, how awful your attitude towards expressing yourself continues to remain. And this "response" of yours just further proved the point, but you are that firmly wedged up your own arsehole you don't even realise it.

Also to get back on terms you may understand, you made a big deal about how you'd deleted this current username after your last reincarnation, and here you still are. Do you like Likes?

 

[JohnsonDDG]

No well firstly I said I'm very good looking, secondly I do this all the time already and I don't know what made you assume otherwise. The problem is that you are never guaranteed consistent sex, and no bullshit or guilt.



What a f*****g response! Not that it matters, you pituary retard, but Roberto hasn't been a full head for half his adult life. And for me he's just exposed in concise and simple terms, how awful your attitude towards expressing yourself continues to remain. And this "response" of yours just further proved the point, but you are that firmly wedged up your own arsehole you don't even realise it.

Also to get back on terms you may understand, you made a big deal about how you'd deleted this current username after your last reincarnation, and here you still are. Do you like Likes?

Its a bit dull talking about me.

But we can talk about an interesting topic if you would like.

Honestly, I will happily post an intelligent response if there is a compelling debate that intrigues me.

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[Dench57]

Do I have to say it?

It is really difficult to have a conversation with @JohnsonDDG wrt the impact of hair loss.

I dare say he is a passive aggressive type wrt hair loss.

PASSIVE: He writes he does well with women, he posts pictures of a next-to-no-hairloss head; basically he implies he does not belong here.

AGGRESSIVE: When you underline that all of that is a bit incoherent with the rest of the gang here, he will make you look stupid by affirming he was just telling the truth and what is the problem, I did not mean to offend anyone.

Typical passive - aggressive speech?
"I look better than you today..... I am joking of course!"

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...01011/10-things-passive-aggressive-people-say

9 and 10

Not sure why johnson/tellers/his various other accounts is denying he likes the attention and being the relatively big fish in the small Impact pond, because he has said before he used to be insecure about his looks and wanted validation/boosting. had to lol when actual big fish @Wolf Pack laid the smack down. If posting Tindertastic black/white selfies and asking people to rate you isn't seeking validation then i don't know what is. His posts rarely have anything to do with the Impact of hair loss and are almost exclusively about massaging his ego

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Not sure why johnson/tellers/his various other accounts is denying he likes the attention and being the relatively big fish in the small Impact pond, because he has said before he used to be insecure about his looks and wanted validation/ego boosting. lol'd when actual big fish @Wolf Pack laid the smack down. If posting Tindertastic black/white selfies and asking people to rate you isn't seeking validation then i don't know what is

I don't deny that when I came here I thought I was average and it was posters on here who made me realise I was above average.

The posters on here helped me with honest feedback on my pictures. I thank them.

 

[Rudiger]

Its a bit dull talking about me.

But we can talk about an interesting topic if you would like.

Honestly, I will happily post an intelligent response if there is a compelling debate that intrigues me.

(last post or response about me - anything that goes beyond this post that is about me is bordering on weird)

It's so transparent. You can't talk about yourself because you cannot defend yourself as it is blatantly true. And the robotically obvious way that you divert from it makes me wonder about you mentally. Not that I think you have serious mental problems, not at all, you're basically a completely functioning and balanced human, moreso than most of us on here.

But a functioning human with incredibly annoying flaws. And I don't give a sh*t if you don't want the topic to be about you, that's what it is. I don't mind if people start the topic on me for example (which often happens), that's fine, and you give this faux attitude you are happy to discuss anything, as long as it's not you. Which as far as deep discussions go, is one of the most important ones (self-awareness).