Hair loss ruining my physical health too

doubleindemnity

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These guys don't know how lucky they are to have a therapist online here who understands their situation better than most therapists. If only some would listen and apply it.
You told me that your advice of positivity might not apply to me because my hair loss is aggressive and my situation different to yours. What is the advice? System?

Even that isn't the worst case scenario. At least having a hairline + decent top coverage will get you out of the bald guy category, where it's no longer a factor when meeting someone.

What exactly are your real world approach percentages regarding women? I do not regard apps for anything so don't say I tried the apps and it didn't work out.
But a NW7 horseshoe at the back along with the rest of that... That's not age appropriate under age 40 is it? It's not some crown loss but a full on NW7 outline with shiny scalp . It's still in "just shave it" territory until age 40.

One solid phone number that went nowhere. Other phone numbers were either instant blocks or I got them just so I would go away. My results are actually much worse than @Feelsbadman. Even if I lower my standards I run out of people to swipe (using pro photos). I couldn't get sugar lifestyle to work either.
 

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You told me that your advice of positivity might not apply to me because my hair loss is aggressive and my situation different to yours. What is the advice? System?


But a NW7 horseshoe at the back along with the rest of that... That's not age appropriate under age 40 is it? It's not some crown loss but a full on NW7 outline with shiny scalp . It's still in "just shave it" territory until age 40.

One solid phone number that went nowhere. Other phone numbers were either instant blocks or I got them just so I would go away. My results are actually much worse than @Feelsbadman. Even if I lower my standards I run out of people to swipe (using pro photos). I couldn't get sugar lifestyle to work either.
Wait didn’t you have a good opportunity a few months ago to go on a second date, but were too slow/passed it up
 
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Please remove the sport related information because I am paranoid about other people reading this website.

My only good lifetime opportunity and I screwed up yes. That was my first good one in 4 years.

see there are positives that happen

but you are too blind to see it

that just goes to show, you can create opportunities - it might be hard, but they come along eventually - the difficulty is taking them when a good one comes along

I remember at the time telling you to go for it, didn’t listen.

it’s ok another one will come along soon

one of the reasons why I’ve been successful, is where I’m very good at taking opportunities that come my way in all areas of my life
 
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Please remove the sport related information because I am paranoid about other people reading this website.

My only good lifetime opportunity and I screwed up yes. That was my first good one in 4 years.

one thing I think that helped is that you were speaking to her a long time before meeting up, was it over a year?

Women when they get to know you do overlook your flaws

maybe you need to do more of that? Get on a friendship app and make female friends
 

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You told me that your advice of positivity might not apply to me because my hair loss is aggressive and my situation different to yours. What is the advice? System?


But a NW7 horseshoe at the back along with the rest of that... That's not age appropriate under age 40 is it? It's not some crown loss but a full on NW7 outline with shiny scalp . It's still in "just shave it" territory until age 40.

One solid phone number that went nowhere. Other phone numbers were either instant blocks or I got them just so I would go away. My results are actually much worse than @Feelsbadman. Even if I lower my standards I run out of people to swipe (using pro photos). I couldn't get sugar lifestyle to work either.
If I was not a good candidate for surgery I would go to the most reputable place in my area and try a hair system. Thanks to @BaldBearded I have one in my area so I have a plan B if I need one. I would also consult with @Noah too as he is the expert on here. You have good resources on here just use them.
 

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If I was not a good candidate for surgery I would go to the most reputable place in my area and try a hair system. Thanks to @BaldBearded I have one in my area so I have a plan B if I need one. I would also consult with @Noah too as he is the expert on here. You have good resources on here just use them.

I would do the same, find someone with it on, where once it becomes serious and assuming she is accepting, ditch it
 

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You have a clinical depression no matter how hard you are in denial about it.
 

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Every time I have taken a survey it said that I do not have depression because, until recently, I had no problems with energy or motivation or anything so I scored normal on those questions.
I've mentioned before, being down about 1 or 2 things is normal......its when you are depressed about everything that can lead to issues.
 

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Your situation is quite different compared to @Feelsbadman. I obviously don’t know you guys personally but I think you are both totally different types of guys. The only common denominator is the pain of not having a partner and ineffective coping skills to deal with / change the situation.
the issue is making literally everything about having a partner^^
 
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