Hairloss is a silent killer of young males

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Why do you think there are so much suicides and drug users who are bald? Becasue they can't cope with this b**ch life which took their hair to early. Hairloss --> loss of self-esteem and loss of looks --> despair --> drugs, alcohol, shitty copes --> even more despair --> suicide

I heard that story about an Indian guy who killed himself because of hairloss. As a full head you might think this is hilarious, but as a baldie you are destined to suicide socially or literally

 

[Butterbean Head]

Why do you think there are so much suicides and drug users who are bald? Becasue they can't cope with this b**ch life which took their hair to early. Hairloss --> loss of self-esteem and loss of looks --> despair --> drugs, alcohol, shitty copes --> even more despair --> suicide

I heard that story about an Indian guy who killed himself because of hairloss. As a full head you might think this is hilarious, but as a baldie you are destined to suicide socially or literally

Steady Eddy
I'm not quite ready to be deady already.......

Or am I?

That really is the paradoxical parody of the pedantic poet.

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Steady Eddy
I'm not quite ready to be deady already.......

Or am I?

That really is the paradoxical parody of the pedantic poet.

lol

 

[Caillou]

There's no hope

 

[Feelsbadman]

its over

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Even guys who are near full heads suffer the pain of knowing that eventually this curse will win and you will die before you actually die. It's like finding out that you will die in your 30s but we won't tell you when.

 

[vondoom]

i also find it hilarious, even though i am far from a fullhead...
people give too much weight on other peoples opinion and apparently think only a wife can fix all, instead of doing something useful with their lifes...

on the other hand, we are overpopulated anyway...

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

You guys, as I always tell the anti-finasteride fanatics, baldness on it's own creates suicidal ideation and impotence not related to changes in morphology or function. What makes it worse is that we don't have a firm conception of how bad it will be except for you poor guys who lose all of it in a flash which is tragic but some times not knowing is anxiety creating to the point of suicidal ideation. Treatments giving false hope might be placebos or just make things worse. To me any treatment that I could do, not to excess helped the anxiety of powerlessness over hair loss. Systems won't do that and transplants can but rarely is there enough fringe with high quality hair. finasteride is useless if you are already gone so that leaves microneedling with min and I have seen extremely wide scalps with virtually no fringe end up filling in remarkably but you have to use finasteride for stabilization or these guys seem to lose it in a month of not microneedling and most guys report that with quick improvement and a quick reversal to status quo but only microneedling is a solution for extremely bald people or people with barely enough hair for transplants. Why not give it ago and try twice a week for five minutes on the entire scalp.

If you guys practice microneedling like brushing your teeth everyday or twice a day and particularly in the front, you might see an amazing reversal and any of you guys, I will try to help you figure out implementation. Needle length matters much less than just doing it like Nike says. You figure out intuitively how long and how much and once collagen was induced, I stopped bleeding completely. Come with me if your want to save your life and hair....Terminator Janey says....

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Even guys who are near full heads suffer the pain of knowing that eventually this curse will win and you will die before you actually die. It's like finding out that you will die in your 30s but we won't tell you when.

Yeah when I was 18 and NW2, I fucked a sl*t against my religious beliefs only because of hairloss, earlier I told girls upfront that I will not have sex with them until marriage. It felt like doing the bucket list, so I bet I will go to hell because of hairloss whereas better people can live like they please. f*** TGIS wh*** b**ch LIFE

i also find it hilarious, even though i am far from a fullhead...
people give too much weight on other peoples opinion and apparently think only a wife can fix all, instead of doing something useful with their lifes...

on the other hand, we are overpopulated anyway...

My dream was to have a family and seeing at not even 24 but f*****g 20 years old of my life that I am already cast away and I am already considered the most unattractive despite caring about myself and being white with good frame and height and 'piercing eyes' (as it was described) is just making me wish I was never born. Yeah I f*****g give weight about what people tell about me because I try to fit in in society, now with my baldie head I fit literally nowhere. I do not give a f*** we are overpopulated, overpopulation occurs only in India or China, not in Poland where there are less and less people (I bet government will just import fullheads only to f*** me over even more)

 

[spring15]

Plenty of young people live a productive life going bald, only people with underlying mental health issues consider suicide & blame it on hair loss

 

[vondoom]

Yeah when I was 18 and NW2, I fucked a sl*t against my religious beliefs only because of hairloss, earlier I told girls upfront that I will not have sex with them until marriage. It felt like doing the bucket list, so I bet I will go to hell because of hairloss whereas better people can live like they please. f*** TGIS wh*** b**ch LIFE

My dream was to have a family and seeing at not even 24 but f*****g 20 years old of my life that I am already cast away and I am already considered the most unattractive despite caring about myself and being white with good frame and height and 'piercing eyes' (as it was described) is just making me wish I was never born. Yeah I f*****g give weight about what people tell about me because I try to fit in in society, now with my baldie head I fit literally nowhere. I do not give a f*** we are overpopulated, overpopulation occurs only in India or China, not in Poland where there are less and less people (I bet government will just import fullheads only to f*** me over even more)

thought in poland baldness is common anyway...

well life isnt over, you got about 60 years left to acchieve your dream... transplant and systems also help...

trying to fit in doesnt always work... though i guess you try it naturally... i did my best to never fit in anywhere and it did the exact opposite... stopped caring about something like that probably at age 18 already...

sometimes we can do with radical character changes, its difficult, but might work, if it doesnt work right now...

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Plenty of young people live a productive life going bald, only people with underlying mental health issues consider suicide & blame it on hair loss

Yeah I have severe mental issues even when I had hair, but hairloss made those issues 100 times worse

thought in poland baldness is common anyway...

well life isnt over, you got about 60 years left to acchieve your dream... transplant and systems also help...

trying to fit in doesnt always work... though i guess you try it naturally... i did my best to never fit in anywhere and it did the exact opposite... stopped caring about something like that probably at age 18 already...

sometimes we can do with radical character changes, its difficult, but might work, if it doesnt work right now...

Yeah it is common, but for people in their 30s and 40s, not for me, where i could fill an envelope with my fallen hair at age of 16. I am literally circus tier freak.

I bet my life is over because statistics place my terminal year to be 36, I am at high risk of commiting suicide (I tried and failed like a basic b**ch), I am at high risk of never finding a job, at having many health problems because of psychosomatic effects of Aspergers Syndrome which makes me unable to fit in under any circumstance, so life with Aspergers is one kind of hell, but having both Aspergers and losing hair young just feels like I was destined to fail and to rot in a river.

 

[vondoom]

Yeah I have severe mental issues even when I had hair, but hairloss made those issues 100 times worse

Yeah it is common, but for people in their 30s and 40s, not for me, where i could fill an envelope with my fallen hair at age of 16. I am literally circus tier freak.

I bet my life is over because statistics place my terminal year to be 36, I am at high risk of commiting suicide (I tried and failed like a basic b**ch), I am at high risk of never finding a job, at having many health problems because of psychosomatic effects of Aspergers Syndrome which makes me unable to fit in under any circumstance, so life with Aspergers is one kind of hell, but having both Aspergers and losing hair young just feels like I was destined to fail and to rot in a river.

already beyond transplant stage? no medication working?

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

already beyond transplant stage? no medication working?

Meds alter my behaviour to the point I cannot control myself, when I was on my psych meds I told my gf that I hate her and that want her dead (even though I loved her then) so I am against anything that may change my behaviour

As of transplants, I am afraid it will fail, also neither finasteride or transplant will reduce my stress and loss of self esteem caused by hairloss, because I will be still scared I lose hair. I bet its just better to shave it and live as skinhead, at least whatever happens then, it will be constant, not rapid and dynamic. I do not want to worry about hairloss anymore and there are no solutions that can make you not think about it

 

[vondoom]

Meds alter my behaviour to the point I cannot control myself, when I was on my psych meds I told my gf that I hate her and that want her dead (even though I loved her then) so I am against anything that may change my behaviour

As of transplants, I am afraid it will fail, also neither finasteride or transplant will reduce my stress and loss of self esteem caused by hairloss, because I will be still scared I lose hair. I bet its just better to shave it and live as skinhead, at least whatever happens then, it will be constant, not rapid and dynamic. I do not want to worry about hairloss anymore and there are no solutions that can make you not think about it

if you look cool as a skinhead..
otherwise there are always systems... concealers also maybe still an option...

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

if you look cool as a skinhead..
otherwise there are always systems... concealers also maybe still an option...

I will never resort to systems or concealers, I consider it being a fraud and my mental health would decline even more

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Plenty of young people live a productive life going bald, only people with underlying mental health issues consider suicide & blame it on hair loss

So is all suicide irrational? Tyler says: "I don't think so". Some people refuse to play the game and decide time's up on the universe because we are not play things. We deserve a life full of dignity and respect.

Having said that, nobody kill themselves. I will work with anyone who feels lost by DM.

Janey

 

[vondoom]

I will never resort to systems or concealers, I consider it being a fraud and my mental health would decline even more

well, up to you then...
that was to be expected, literally all of the people who complain the most here are not willing to do anything... the reason why i dont take anyones problems here that serious...

if hairloss really was that much of an issue you would have done something already...
balding is no choice, but staying bald and looking bald is these days...

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

if you look cool as a skinhead..
otherwise there are always systems... concealers also maybe still an option...

Do you wear a system or a wig? It's impolite to just tell some guy that he needs a toupee even online. People know that they are out there.

 

[vondoom]

Do you wear a system or a wig? It's impolite to just tell some guy that he needs a toupee even online. People know that they are out there.

no, i use toppik and thats it... not too much, just to cover some thin spot... its a mess, but takes me 5 minutes and i dont worry about my hair anymore (until the next morning^^)...

but if i ever need one and decide not to get one, i also cant complain about not having hair (not that i ever did)...

i dont think its impolite, this is a hairloss forum after all, people complain about their hairloss... the refusal to get a hair system (if they are really so far gone as they claim) as a last resort (after refusing everything else), just shows me that hair cant be so important to them as they claim... otherwise they would have their beloved chads haircut and be happy...