Hard to admit, but girls do care only about the outlook

[s.a.f]

Any man who say's they know how all women think is either deluded or a liar.

The guy at my works who all (or the majority) of the women like the most is in his 40's, average looking with greying and receeding hair.
I dont know the exact reasons but I can see that he's a clever guy who enjoys life and is a good laugh to be around.
There are plenty of women for whom Brad Pitt or any of the other Hollywood pretty boys do absolutley nothing for them.

All this PUA stuff is bull5hit because you cant live your whole life putting on an act, the real you is bound to come out.

 

[seb]

If you aint got "game",youre just plain lame.

 

[Man in Space]

defo saf. I dont get it. How can you go around pretending to be someone and expect them to like you. Even if they do like you, how can YOU like someone who fell for that? Theres all sorts of alienation going on in that dynamic!

And Seb youve got gobby since you got laid!

 

[seb]

defo saf. I dont get it. How can you go around pretending to be someone and expect them to like you. Even if they do like you, how can YOU like someone who fell for that? Theres all sorts of alienation going on in that dynamic!

And Seb youve got gobby since you got laid!

You can call me the MACHINE.

 

[Man in Space]

Haha I always suspected as much, you had a lot pent up there,you gotta take it out on someone!

 

[seb]

again with the game.

This is how a woman sees 'game'

Contrived sense of self=insecurity=dry meat at the deli counter.

If your game is simply being confident then crack on but if its all these contrived rules and terms then it reeks of insecurity.

What so many guys constantly refuse to understand, both bald and hairy alike, is that all you have to do to get a woman interested is be cool. Some will dig you some wont no matter how hot/ugly you are, you cant please everyone, dating women is luck of the draw.

You have to bare in mind the dynamics of the sexes. Men are like somone knocking on the door of a house and women are the ones your trying to get to open up the door and let you in. They are not gonna let just anyone in.

If you knock on the door obsessively that is creepy, no matter how hot you are they wont trust you and you will be on the end of a lockout. If you turn up at the door in the flashest gear trying to impress they will think of you like an estate agent or window salesman. Some might like it and let you in just to see what happens but you will put off as many women as you attract. If you look unkempt and shifty, they will look through the peephole and lock the door. It is also never acceptable to try and steal in round the back and burgle your way in!.

If however you knock on the door casually and confidently, in half decent clothes and having washed in the last 2 days and say 'im so and so from down the street, new to the area and just introducing myself etc' then they will be disarmed and at the very least usually let the door off the latch and have a chat on the doorstep. You then have an in and before you know it you knock a couple more times and they are inviting you in for coffee. Thats when you punish the b**ch for leaving you out their on the doorstep waiting so long!. (im joking of course). Im not trying to make a point about bald people having confidence here, I accept that some women will see a bald gentleman on the doorstep and simply not answer. Whilst annoying, my point remains the same regarding that, yes you are marginilised but would you even want her to open up if she thought like that, she sounds like a div. I have hair and i wouldnt want to chat to someone like that. Maybe you would i dunno, in which case my point is to be disregarded.

Of course one other option is to go down the pub get drunk and chat up drunk women, that is the equivilant of them leaving the door open for you, its then up to your morals whether or not you go in. There have been many occasions where i have been drunk and they have too and for some reason ive let myself in and at some stage ended up declaring squatters rights and sticking around, generally though there comes a point where they want you out of the house if you go about it that way.

One last thing, dont be knocking on the door of a palacial mansion and moan when you dont get let in. Im not saying dont try, but be realistic! (thats a metaphor for extremely hot women, not extremely large ones)

Why bother knocking,just use a sledgehammer.

 

[Man in Space]

didnt turn out well for peter gabriel

 

[Nashville Hairline]

tbh i dont believe the whole game stuff

i read it alot and believed it, but once i started talking to girls i found out that baldness is a real deal breaker for some, as is height

If you haven't given a neg or an IOI to a 10 in a set with your wingman, you haven't lived dude! :woot:

But hey, Neil Strauss is bald, short and speaks with a fey voice so go figure. The interesting thing with those guys for me is that they still do get hundreds of rejections but with Strauss its not "she doesn't like me cos I'm bald" its "I just didn't say the right things in the right sequence". Another thing about "The Game" is Strauss wanting to get away from the gaming scene ASAP and settle down.

The components of the shields that
women deploy can range from subtle and mild-mannered to in your-
face and cruel. Many years ago I had a girl literally scream at
me to f*** off as I tried to open her set. If it ever happens to you,
move on, and don't take it personally. Sometimes women are just
having a very bad day.

I just read that the other day in the book written by the other famous pick-up artist, "Mystery", ahahaha

 

[seb]

didnt turn out well for peter gabriel

Thats because he has hair...real men dont worry about hair on their head.

 

[seb]

tbh i dont believe the whole game stuff

i read it alot and believed it, but once i started talking to girls i found out that baldness is a real deal breaker for some, as is height

You have only yourself to blame if you aint got "game".

 

[Man in Space]

The components of the shields that
women deploy can range from subtle and mild-mannered to in your-
face and cruel. Many years ago I had a girl literally scream at
me to f*ck off as I tried to open her set. If it ever happens to you,
move on, and don't take it personally. Sometimes women are just
having a very bad day.

I just read that the other day in the book written by the other famous pick-up artist, "Mystery", ahahaha

That is absolute genius!!

so some guys need to be told that when a woman says f*** off its best to do it?! What kind of sad sacks are sticking around moping when a woman says to go?!! This just confirms what ive always thought, some men are proper pussies!

 

[Buzzlightyear]

Was it you who said you were bald buzz? I can't remember. What Norwood are you now?

Ya I am bald NW5 I'd say

 

[seb]

If a man needs to read a book/frequent a seminar/use the internet etc for tips on how too attract women,then their is something seriously wrong happenening to the male species.....I blame it all on this 21st century metrosexual crap.

 

[seb]

Just watched a video by "david" ha ha ha,what a bunch of crap....obvious s**t,that ANY thought-processing individual should know.What is it with this world now.Theres self-help for EVERY thing imaginable,even basic stuff like this.

 

[seb]

If a man needs to read a book/frequent a seminar/use the internet etc for tips on how too attract women,then their is something seriously wrong happenening to the male species.....I blame it all on this 21st century metrosexual crap.

I agree. Also there's all the feminist crap too. You see, if you go back through human history, ever since the caveman days, while men have been out hunting and gathering (earning a living nowadays), women sat around and socialized with each other. Over time, their social skills became much more advanced and evolved to a much higher degree than men's did.

When you combine that, with 'equal rights' and all the metrosexual/feminist (gay male) stuff, you get the situation that we males currently face with having to read books, take classes, etc... just to try to learn how to do something that should be natural.

So there you have it. :jackit:

I didnt want to mention feminism,lest I be held in utter contempt from our favourite liberal-TWENTY FIVE(who if had her way,would chop my tea-bags off,and feed them to her pet poodle).

 

[slipy]

she has been hating on you ever since you mentioned not bowing down to pussy.

how dare u? :/

 

[seb]

she has been hating on you ever since you mentioned not bowing down to pussy.

how dare u? :/

I dont bow down to anyone....unless Seb Coe or Steve Redgrave were within earshot,then anything they say,goes.

 

[seb]

Perhaps I haven't given him a real chance....it just seems all so contrived and conceited,you know.It appears,that a species,we have somehow forgotten how to function properly,even something as simple and natural as attracting a mate.
I blame it(partly) on todays technology,we have forgotten how to communicate properly with our fellow homo sapiens.

 

[s.a.f]

If a man needs to read a book/frequent a seminar/use the internet etc for tips on how too attract women,then their is something seriously wrong happenening to the male species.....I blame it all on this 21st century metrosexual crap.

I agree, some of the people on here seem to view 'attracting' women as some kind of skill that requires in depth study and training. This is why they are so petrified at the thought of doing it.

Its basic human nature there is no correct procedure you just be yourself and sooner or later you find a compatable partner.

 

[s.a.f]

[As I said in my previous post above, if you go back through human history, ever since the caveman days, while men have been out hunting and gathering (earning a living, fighting wars, etc....), women sat around and socialized with each other. Over time, their social skills became much more advanced and evolved to a much higher degree than men's did.

Well if thats the case then we men are all equally disadvantaged so it should'nt matter. :dunno: