I can still get it up but I want to desire going out and seeking a girl. Girls like me alright, I just think I would have more motivation to pursue them if I got this in order, and it has become a bit worse since starting finasteride.
Has anyone taken anything that improved their drive at all? I've tried certain items off of amazon with good reviews but all to no avail. There has to be something that helps!!
I've had the same problem before and found that supplements did absolutely nothing for me, primarily because they're not solving the root cause of the problem, hormone imbalance/lower than normal testosterone.
I find by far the best way to combat this lack of drive and energy is to lift weights twice a week and do H.I.I.T. running or swimming twice a week also.
H.I.I.T. (High Intensity Interval Training) through either running or swimming ,is more effective at boosting testosterone and burning fat (eliminating excess estrogen) than any other cardio exercise!....plus it can be done in as little as 20 minutes!
Similarly at the gym you should aim to exercise at a high intensitywith short breaks in between lifting doing mainly compound exercises only (i.e. squats, dead lifts, bench press, pull ups, dips will give you best results and will help boost your T levels more than any others)
It's a no brainer.... sure you might be busy in the working week, but if you even just commit to one H.I.I.T. session and one high intensity weights session a week (that's 2hours max in total) I guarantee your drive will shoot through the roof and you'll get that burning desire for girls back very quickly!
I'm not vain, or a fitness freak by any means, I just go through some periods sometimes after a lot of stress, poor diet, and no exercise... where I also have no drive and struggle to even be interested in my own girlfriend... and I have found that this has been the only thing that's genuinely helped solve the problem and even better turned me into a pornstar, that can go for hours and hours...
I'd honestly reccommend it to anybody, I know going to the gym and doing sprinting is not everybody's cup of tea, but whether you're the active type or not, if you want to solve a low drive problem, this is by far the best most permanent way forward.
No point relying permanently on half-assed, unproven, supplements which will just rinse your wallet for hundreds of pounds (in my humble opinion)...